Why is my belly area not going down

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  • coletteg67
    coletteg67 Posts: 4 Member
    BTW... Congratulations on losing 28 pounds so far! That's a great accomplishment, especially with 5 children. Keep up the good work!
  • cafeaulait7
    cafeaulait7 Posts: 2,459 Member
    UG77 wrote: »
    Thanks everyone. I guess it's silly of me to get upset about my belly anyway. The alternative (continuing to gain weight) was certainly not the answer. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing.

    And yes, my belly was the first place I started to gain weight in years ago. So I'm guessing it'll just be the last area to go.

    It's not silly to get frustrated. If we were complacent we wouldn't have gotten up and started moving.

    What everyone else has said is correct about not spot reducing but I didn't see anyone mention visceral fat. This is a fat deposit in your abdominal cavity that hangs out around some of your internal organs, most notably your liver. Your body really loves to hang on to this one so it's going to most likely be the very last thing that gets worked off.

    This is the kind that responds really well to exercise, though! So folks shouldn't leave out exercise if they can help it at all.
  • Lyrica7
    Lyrica7 Posts: 88 Member
    You have had five children and unfortunately a lot of women are bigger in this area afterwards and some need to consider plastic surgery. Be proud and congrats on your weight loss!
  • bellabonbons
    bellabonbons Posts: 705 Member
    MommyL2015 wrote: »
    For s female, according to the cosmetic surgeon who performed my tummy tuck, you can diet and exercise and never see the success that you would like in your tummy area. I had the cosmetic surgical procedure and I am very pleased with the result. My tummy is flat. Worth the investment to have it done. You will love the results.

    That's fabulous for people with money to blow on that. For me, that's a fantasy that will never happen and while it is an option, it's not a realistic one for a lot of people.

    My belly is my nemesis. It's the last place I lose and the first place it sticks back on. I will just keep on keepin' on and hope one day it gets a little flatter.
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    For s female, according to the cosmetic surgeon who performed my tummy tuck, you can diet and exercise and never see the success that you would like in your tummy area. I had the cosmetic surgical procedure and I am very pleased with the result. My tummy is flat. Worth the investment to have it done. You will love the results.

    Of course that's what a cosmetic surgeon would say. They'd go broke if they told everyone that all they have to do is cut calories and stick with it.

    For many women dieting and exercise doesn't flatten the ab area and especially after losing weight, and pregnancies there is also muscle damages in need of repair that exercise does not take care of. When I had my abdominalplasty (Tummy Tuck) I went from a size 16 pant size to a 10-12. You are highly misinformed and naive if you actually believe that plastic surgeons lie to be able to perform abdominalplasties. They would lose their hospital privileges immediately and their medical licenses would be revoked.
  • Yi5hedr3
    Yi5hedr3 Posts: 2,696 Member
    Too many carbs
  • Well I'm just worried about why the fat is not leaving that area yet. I'm not too worried about saggy skin. I know that's bound to happen after having children or just carrying so much weight there in general.
  • Thanks everyone. I guess it's silly of me to get upset about my belly anyway. The alternative (continuing to gain weight) was certainly not the answer. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing.

    And yes, my belly was the first place I started to gain weight in years ago. So I'm guessing it'll just be the last area to go.

    No it's not. There's nothing wrong with disliking a part of your body. I'd deck anybody who told me to just like my body the way it is. It's my body, **** off. As long as you can look forward and you're not obsessing over it, it's okay to desire something different. And the best news in the world is that if you still don't like it once you get to goal weight (I bet you will though), you can engage in some strength training to alter it's shape. Lots of options, lots to look forward to:)


    Thank you. Once I finally get there it's good to know that strength training may help.
  • blues4miles
    blues4miles Posts: 1,481 Member
    I've lost weight everywhere, some parts even too much, yet my belly still protrudes like I'm pregnant! There's a pic in my profile that I took a couple of days ago (black pants, red tanktop) that shows what I mean :cry:

    You don't look pregnant in that photo! I think half the problem is you are turning your upper body towards the mirror but your waist is still facing away. You should feel proud of your progress, I think you look great!
    Thanks everyone. I guess it's silly of me to get upset about my belly anyway. The alternative (continuing to gain weight) was certainly not the answer. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing.

    And yes, my belly was the first place I started to gain weight in years ago. So I'm guessing it'll just be the last area to go.

    No it's not. There's nothing wrong with disliking a part of your body. I'd deck anybody who told me to just like my body the way it is. It's my body, **** off. As long as you can look forward and you're not obsessing over it, it's okay to desire something different. And the best news in the world is that if you still don't like it once you get to goal weight (I bet you will though), you can engage in some strength training to alter it's shape. Lots of options, lots to look forward to:)


    Thank you. Once I finally get there it's good to know that strength training may help.

    Don't wait! Doing strength training now will help you to look more toned, have better strength, and retain more muscle as you lose weight. Otherwise you are losing fat AND muscle as you lose weight. Everyone on here who lost the weight than started strength training later has said if they could do it all over again they would have started lifting as they lost. I say this as someone who keeps trying to make it a regular habit and failing, but hey, good intentions.
  • I've lost weight everywhere, some parts even too much, yet my belly still protrudes like I'm pregnant! There's a pic in my profile that I took a couple of days ago (black pants, red tanktop) that shows what I mean :cry:

    You don't look pregnant in that photo! I think half the problem is you are turning your upper body towards the mirror but your waist is still facing away. You should feel proud of your progress, I think you look great!
    Thanks everyone. I guess it's silly of me to get upset about my belly anyway. The alternative (continuing to gain weight) was certainly not the answer. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing.

    And yes, my belly was the first place I started to gain weight in years ago. So I'm guessing it'll just be the last area to go.

    No it's not. There's nothing wrong with disliking a part of your body. I'd deck anybody who told me to just like my body the way it is. It's my body, **** off. As long as you can look forward and you're not obsessing over it, it's okay to desire something different. And the best news in the world is that if you still don't like it once you get to goal weight (I bet you will though), you can engage in some strength training to alter it's shape. Lots of options, lots to look forward to:)


    Thank you. Once I finally get there it's good to know that strength training may help.

    Don't wait! Doing strength training now will help you to look more toned, have better strength, and retain more muscle as you lose weight. Otherwise you are losing fat AND muscle as you lose weight. Everyone on here who lost the weight than started strength training later has said if they could do it all over again they would have started lifting as they lost. I say this as someone who keeps trying to make it a regular habit and failing, but hey, good intentions.


    Thanks so much for that advice. I don't have access to a gym so I'm going on Google now to see what strength training exercises I can do at home.
  • Rocknut53
    Rocknut53 Posts: 1,794 Member
    If feel your pain. When I was younger my boobs were the first to go when I lost weight. I didn't have much of a belly. Now it's my stomach that gets bigger first when I gain. I'm going to blame that on menopause and old age. Totally just an opinion. My goal is to lose 22 more pounds, then I'll re-evaluate the belly and see if I need to lose more or if I'm happy with the way I look and feel. Your attitude is good, good luck!
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    I've lost weight everywhere, some parts even too much, yet my belly still protrudes like I'm pregnant! There's a pic in my profile that I took a couple of days ago (black pants, red tanktop) that shows what I mean :cry:

    You don't look pregnant in that photo! I think half the problem is you are turning your upper body towards the mirror but your waist is still facing away. You should feel proud of your progress, I think you look great!
    Thanks everyone. I guess it's silly of me to get upset about my belly anyway. The alternative (continuing to gain weight) was certainly not the answer. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing.

    And yes, my belly was the first place I started to gain weight in years ago. So I'm guessing it'll just be the last area to go.

    No it's not. There's nothing wrong with disliking a part of your body. I'd deck anybody who told me to just like my body the way it is. It's my body, **** off. As long as you can look forward and you're not obsessing over it, it's okay to desire something different. And the best news in the world is that if you still don't like it once you get to goal weight (I bet you will though), you can engage in some strength training to alter it's shape. Lots of options, lots to look forward to:)


    Thank you. Once I finally get there it's good to know that strength training may help.

    Don't wait! Doing strength training now will help you to look more toned, have better strength, and retain more muscle as you lose weight. Otherwise you are losing fat AND muscle as you lose weight. Everyone on here who lost the weight than started strength training later has said if they could do it all over again they would have started lifting as they lost. I say this as someone who keeps trying to make it a regular habit and failing, but hey, good intentions.


    Thanks so much for that advice. I don't have access to a gym so I'm going on Google now to see what strength training exercises I can do at home.

    Take a look at body weight exercises. Convict Conditioning and You Are Your Own Gym are two programs that could get you started in the right direction.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    So I've lost about 28lbs so far and I'm so excited about this. I still have around 40 to go give or take before I reach my goal. My problem is I'm losing weight everywhere except my belly area. Even my wedding bands are loose now. While I'm happy with my fingers, breasts, and back fat leaving, I want to start to see some changes in my belly area. Tell me what I need to do differently.

    I don't have access to fancy equipment. I usually walk or do exercise dvds for workouts. I'm not expecting a flat belly by no means necessary after carrying 5 children. I just want to start to see changes in that area.

    For many, if not most, the belly area is primary fat stores...it's generally first on and last off. I lost a total of 40 Lbs and I didn't seeing my belly go down until I had lost at least 20-25 Lbs...the most dramatic loss of my belly was the last 10 Lbs or so.
  • AnvilHead
    AnvilHead Posts: 18,343 Member
    edited February 2016
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    So I've lost about 28lbs so far and I'm so excited about this. I still have around 40 to go give or take before I reach my goal. My problem is I'm losing weight everywhere except my belly area. Even my wedding bands are loose now. While I'm happy with my fingers, breasts, and back fat leaving, I want to start to see some changes in my belly area. Tell me what I need to do differently.

    I don't have access to fancy equipment. I usually walk or do exercise dvds for workouts. I'm not expecting a flat belly by no means necessary after carrying 5 children. I just want to start to see changes in that area.

    For many, if not most, the belly area is primary fat stores...it's generally first on and last off. I lost a total of 40 Lbs and I didn't seeing my belly go down until I had lost at least 20-25 Lbs...the most dramatic loss of my belly was the last 10 Lbs or so.

    ^ This, exactly. The pattern in which your weight comes on/comes off is dictated by your genetics.
  • VintageFeline
    VintageFeline Posts: 6,771 Member
    I've lost weight everywhere, some parts even too much, yet my belly still protrudes like I'm pregnant! There's a pic in my profile that I took a couple of days ago (black pants, red tanktop) that shows what I mean :cry:

    You don't look pregnant in that photo! I think half the problem is you are turning your upper body towards the mirror but your waist is still facing away. You should feel proud of your progress, I think you look great!
    Thanks everyone. I guess it's silly of me to get upset about my belly anyway. The alternative (continuing to gain weight) was certainly not the answer. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing.

    And yes, my belly was the first place I started to gain weight in years ago. So I'm guessing it'll just be the last area to go.

    No it's not. There's nothing wrong with disliking a part of your body. I'd deck anybody who told me to just like my body the way it is. It's my body, **** off. As long as you can look forward and you're not obsessing over it, it's okay to desire something different. And the best news in the world is that if you still don't like it once you get to goal weight (I bet you will though), you can engage in some strength training to alter it's shape. Lots of options, lots to look forward to:)


    Thank you. Once I finally get there it's good to know that strength training may help.

    Don't wait! Doing strength training now will help you to look more toned, have better strength, and retain more muscle as you lose weight. Otherwise you are losing fat AND muscle as you lose weight. Everyone on here who lost the weight than started strength training later has said if they could do it all over again they would have started lifting as they lost. I say this as someone who keeps trying to make it a regular habit and failing, but hey, good intentions.


    Thanks so much for that advice. I don't have access to a gym so I'm going on Google now to see what strength training exercises I can do at home.

    Take a look at body weight exercises. Convict Conditioning and You Are Your Own Gym are two programs that could get you started in the right direction.

    I'd also recommend Fitness Blender when/if you want to step up a bit. It's super affordable and you pretty much just need some good dumbbells (I have Powerblocks, they're adjustable so compact). While I'm not into heavy lifting I do love strength training with moderate weights and body weight and I am starting to catch glimpses of the good work happening under the fat!
  • elkhunter7x6
    elkhunter7x6 Posts: 88 Member
    Do you take measurements? Since my entire body was getting smaller at the same time it was hard for me to see that my belly was actually shrinking while looking in the mirror. However, I can easily see progress with the tape measure.
  • Asher_Ethan
    Asher_Ethan Posts: 2,430 Member
    Congratulations on the 28 pounds, that's huge. Unfortunately, like every one else said, you can't spot reduce fat. I swear I'm going to have a 6 pack before any fat comes off my thighs.
    Continue what you are doing, because you're doing great.
  • samchez0
    samchez0 Posts: 364 Member
    I feel ya on that. My belly has definitely gotten smaller but still a lot of far. I know this sounds weird but I feel as if my belly fat is almost a different kind. More squishy lol.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    So I've lost about 28lbs so far and I'm so excited about this. I still have around 40 to go give or take before I reach my goal. My problem is I'm losing weight everywhere except my belly area. Even my wedding bands are loose now. While I'm happy with my fingers, breasts, and back fat leaving, I want to start to see some changes in my belly area. Tell me what I need to do differently.

    I don't have access to fancy equipment. I usually walk or do exercise dvds for workouts. I'm not expecting a flat belly by no means necessary after carrying 5 children. I just want to start to see changes in that area.

    For many, if not most, the belly area is primary fat stores...it's generally first on and last off. I lost a total of 40 Lbs and I didn't seeing my belly go down until I had lost at least 20-25 Lbs...the most dramatic loss of my belly was the last 10 Lbs or so.

    I'm holding on to this comment! As I have a little less than 10lbs left to lose.