Am I Being Too Unrealistic ?

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  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Mr_Bad_Example wrote: »
    myheartsabattleground wrote: »
    Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].

    "Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"

    If he really loved you, he would wake you up to take you to Aruba. Just break up.

    Right? Rehoboth is so ... domestic.
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    What's is MFP if one can't even dare to share his hopes and dreams?

    You're right.

    I want you, I need you, oh baby oh baby
  • MommysLittleMeatball
    MommysLittleMeatball Posts: 2,064 Member
    "Am I Being Too Unrealistic ?"

    *Rolls eyes, sees brain*

    To answer your question, yes.

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  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    Tell him what you want. Men can't take hints, not subtle hints or even obvious ones. Say what you want.

    That's because real men don't need hints or woman that throw them, we do right because she is right.
  • charlottemmarks
    charlottemmarks Posts: 61 Member
    Everyone deserves to be in a relationship with someone who's thoughtful and caring (provided you're giving as you're receiving), but it's unrealistic to expect someone to know the particulars of what you want without telling them. Not to mention, incredibly unfair. There's nothing wrong with dropping hints or even flat-out telling someone what you like/want. However, we can't control the actions of others, so it may or may not happen. Try to be less focused on a particular outcome and more appreciative of all of the good in your relationship, current or in the future. Happiness =/= any one thing (even if a surprise beach trip sounds incredibly awesome).
  • HG93022
    HG93022 Posts: 80 Member
    Sounds delightful! Maybe play the role you want him to play; show him how its done! Giving CAN be as satisfying, if not more satisfying than receiving!
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
    CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    What's is MFP if one can't even dare to share his hopes and dreams?

    You're right.

    I want you, I need you, oh baby oh baby

    10 things reference FTW!

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  • ald783
    ald783 Posts: 688 Member
    This is such a bizarrely specific fantasy.
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    CircumcisedCokeCan wrote: »
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    What's is MFP if one can't even dare to share his hopes and dreams?

    You're right.

    I want you, I need you, oh baby oh baby

    10 things reference FTW!

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    I don't get it.

    : (

    For real?
  • charlottemmarks
    charlottemmarks Posts: 61 Member
    ald783 wrote: »
    This is such a bizarrely specific fantasy.

    If you're gonna dream, dream big!
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