Am I getting bad advice from my gym?
CatherineElizabeth13
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Everything I've read on here and online in general suggests that women should heavy lift.
The advice for woman as overweight as myself seem to be to lift heavy from the start, don't wait until you're close goal weight as it will help to prevent muscle loss through deficit eating and help with skin sagging.
Am I right so far?
So I had a discussion with the guy who owns my gym (his wife is a champion body builder). He told me he absolutely won't allow me to do high weight low reps as women should only do low weight high rep.
To me it seems a bit counter productive based on what I've read on here. And I'm not sure his wife would agree with his thinking on women lifting.
I would like to hear peoples thoughts.
The advice for woman as overweight as myself seem to be to lift heavy from the start, don't wait until you're close goal weight as it will help to prevent muscle loss through deficit eating and help with skin sagging.
Am I right so far?
So I had a discussion with the guy who owns my gym (his wife is a champion body builder). He told me he absolutely won't allow me to do high weight low reps as women should only do low weight high rep.
To me it seems a bit counter productive based on what I've read on here. And I'm not sure his wife would agree with his thinking on women lifting.
I would like to hear peoples thoughts.
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Find a new Gym0
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No, expert here, but I've read quite a bit and it sounds like B.S. That was the thinking back in the 1980s, when I was a spring chicken, but I believe it's mostly been refuted now. With the exception of the nutrition advice, I really liked the book New Rules of Lifting for Women. Not because the exercises for men and women are different but because it reiterates that there is no difference in the exercises.
I have about 50 pounds to go and I just started stronglifts. And I feel pretty good.0 -
CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »Everything I've read on here and online in general suggests that women should heavy lift.
The advice for woman as overweight as myself seem to be to lift heavy from the start, don't wait until you're close goal weight as it will help to prevent muscle loss through deficit eating and help with skin sagging.
Am I right so far?
Yep!CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »So I had a discussion with the guy who owns my gym (his wife is a champion body builder). He told me he absolutely won't allow me to do high weight low reps as women should only do low weight high rep.
To me it seems a bit counter productive based on what I've read on here. And I'm not sure his wife would agree with his thinking on women lifting.
I would like to hear peoples thoughts.
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No, expert here, but I've read quite a bit and it sounds like B.S. That was the thinking back in the 1980s, when I was a spring chicken, but I believe it's mostly been refuted now. With the exception of the nutrition advice, I really liked the book New Rules of Lifting for Women. Not because the exercises for men and women are different but because it reiterates that there is no difference in the exercises.
I have about 50 pounds to go and I just started stronglifts. And I feel pretty good.
I have that book, that's what I took with me to show him and he flicked through it and laughed.
I just want to use my gym time productively as it only have time for 3 sessions a week.0 -
He laughed? Patronizing *kitten*. find a new gym.0
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WTF. Given his wife's success, you'd think he'd be encouraging women to lift heavy!0
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Find out who trains his wife and use that person.0
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CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »Everything I've read on here and online in general suggests that women should heavy lift.
The advice for woman as overweight as myself seem to be to lift heavy from the start, don't wait until you're close goal weight as it will help to prevent muscle loss through deficit eating and help with skin sagging.
Am I right so far?
So I had a discussion with the guy who owns my gym (his wife is a champion body builder). He told me he absolutely won't allow me to do high weight low reps as women should only do low weight high rep.
To me it seems a bit counter productive based on what I've read on here. And I'm not sure his wife would agree with his thinking on women lifting.
I would like to hear peoples thoughts.
Sounds like the typical meat head private gym owner. I highly doubt his wife was a champion body-builder doing light weight high rep exercises. Sounds like he just doesn't want another body using that squat rack. Find another gym, if that's not possible you don't have to take his advice. Go ahead do some research, find a structured plan and go for it.0 -
If you have the book, you don't need a trainer. Just get started on your own. Start light, add weight progressively.0
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Find a new gym.
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You don't need a trainer -- check out programs such as StrongLifts 5x5 (that's what I use) -- start lifting and increase as you can and keep lifting -- and lift heavy things, not those little pink dumbbells.0
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You really only need a session or two with a trainer. If that. Youtube can do wonders.0
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You don't have to train high weight low rep either. How low is your rep count?
I prefer staying between 12-16 myself, depending on what part of the body I am working.
But I do also enjoy tabata and other forms of exercise where I will squat with weight for 45 seconds not counting reps. And I have seen tremendous strength and endurance results from that approach as well.
He sounds condescending, and that sucks. But the thing about nutrition and fitness is that everyone thinks they have the perfect answer, and everyone else is wrong. On my fitness journey I have found that everyone is so different, that finding what your body reacts the best to, and finding what you LIKE to do is more important than anything else. Because if you're loving what you do, you will continue doing it, and that is what matters. Consistency above everything.
Also always keep in mind that nutrition, diets and fitness is an INDUSTRY. It is there to make money from people like us. So we have trends like HIGH REPS LOW REPS THIS KIND OF REPS THOSE THINGS UHHH LIFT HEAVY HEAVY HEAVY SQUAT SQUAT SQUAT. You know. While the most important thing is. Work out. Eat sensible. Find what you love. Live it. Become it!0 -
darrensurrey wrote: »WTF. Given his wife's success, you'd think he'd be encouraging women to lift heavy!
Not necessarily. Body builders typically lift in the Hypertrophy ranges 8-15 reps/set, and moderately heavy to do so.
Stronglifts is great for building strength, strength focused routines usually range from 1-6 reps on the top set. He is probably pro body builder and con power lifting. part of the reason could be that you can sell more training session via BB workouts as they can be complex, whereas power lifting (pure strength training) is much simpler, and can really only offer advice on form.0 -
The guy sounds like he is working on outdated ideas along the lines of low weight, high reps = toning. He also sounds remarkably unprofessional.
However...
It is clear you could get great physique and fitness results using a low weight, high rep programme (classically, anything up to 15 reps but I have seen suggestions recently that even up to 30 reps could work well - don't quote me on the exact rep range though as this is from memory).
Alternatively you could get great results from a high weight, low rep programme, a body weight programme, a kettlebell programme etc. You could also get great results from not doing any lifting right now and deferring it until you have lost a chunk of weight (given your starting weight is quite high according to what you tell us.)
The key here is not so much lifting heavy but rather working with resistance.
Up to you really as to what you would prefer, what you enjoy, what your ultimate goals are and what the most efficient means of achieving those goals would be.0 -
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....then go to a new gym. you're not working out there for free right? Why let him tell you what to do or not do?0 -
lillemeddy85 wrote: »You don't have to train high weight low rep either. How low is your rep count?
I prefer staying between 12-16 myself, depending on what part of the body I am working.
He insists that 25 reps is what needs to be done.
When I'm at home I use more than double the weight he has listed and do around 12 reps and that seems to make me feel like I've actually done something. But the thing I worry about at home is whether my form is okay.
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If your grocery bags, cooking pot, purse, toddler are heavier than the weights you're lifting, then I think there's a problem.0
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CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »lillemeddy85 wrote: »You don't have to train high weight low rep either. How low is your rep count?
I prefer staying between 12-16 myself, depending on what part of the body I am working.
He insists that 25 reps is what needs to be done.
When I'm at home I use more than double the weight he has listed and do around 12 reps and that seems to make me feel like I've actually done something. But the thing I worry about at home is whether my form is okay.
The fact that you don't seem to like him or trust his advice is enough for you to drop him like a hot brick. I'd get another trainer to advise me on form only.0 -
If your grocery bags, cooking pot, purse, toddler are heavier than the weights you're lifting, then I think there's a problem.
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Yes my toddler is 30lbs. I can throw him in the air and wave him around. He has me lifting 10lbs! I feel like I'm stood there playing with a feather!0 -
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StealthHealth wrote: »CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »lillemeddy85 wrote: »You don't have to train high weight low rep either. How low is your rep count?
I prefer staying between 12-16 myself, depending on what part of the body I am working.
He insists that 25 reps is what needs to be done.
When I'm at home I use more than double the weight he has listed and do around 12 reps and that seems to make me feel like I've actually done something. But the thing I worry about at home is whether my form is okay.
The fact that you don't seem to like him or trust his advice is enough for you to drop him like a hot brick. I'd get another trainer to advise me on form only.
I think I'm going to ask his wife when she's next there. I'm tied in for a year contract so I have to make the best of it! I did speak to another trainer about form but he gave me a 30 second walk through, without weights, just showing me arm movements then went back to chatting up something on tinder. He's known for not acknowledging anyone over 130lbs.
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StealthHealth wrote: »CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »lillemeddy85 wrote: »You don't have to train high weight low rep either. How low is your rep count?
I prefer staying between 12-16 myself, depending on what part of the body I am working.
He insists that 25 reps is what needs to be done.
When I'm at home I use more than double the weight he has listed and do around 12 reps and that seems to make me feel like I've actually done something. But the thing I worry about at home is whether my form is okay.
The fact that you don't seem to like him or trust his advice is enough for you to drop him like a hot brick. I'd get another trainer to advise me on form only.
Yup.
If the gym is convenient, well equipped and within your price range there is no reason to leave it. Just find another trainer who aligns with your goals and preferences.
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Find another trainer. You need to start lifting, and you need someone to help you with proper form, to keep it interesting, and to push your limits without injuring yourself. The days of 5 lb weights and lots of reps are long gone.0
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there's usually a legal escape clause to those contracts.0
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CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »Everything I've read on here and online in general suggests that women should heavy lift.
The advice for woman as overweight as myself seem to be to lift heavy from the start, don't wait until you're close goal weight as it will help to prevent muscle loss through deficit eating and help with skin sagging.
Am I right so far?
So I had a discussion with the guy who owns my gym (his wife is a champion body builder). He told me he absolutely won't allow me to do high weight low reps as women should only do low weight high rep.
To me it seems a bit counter productive based on what I've read on here. And I'm not sure his wife would agree with his thinking on women lifting.
I would like to hear peoples thoughts.
I have had the exact same thing as you! everyone seems to think and say we should be doing Cardio and if us girls must do weights we should do low weights/high reps!
I think they are all taught from the same book!
If you speak to anyone that lifts though they say a lot heavier weights and less reps! like 6-8!! unless you are eating a serious excess of calories you will not bulk!0 -
CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »
I think I'm going to ask his wife when she's next there.
Out of curiosity how will you proceed if she gives you the same advice. The presumption here is she probably disagrees with her husband's advice but that is by no means a given...
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CatherineElizabeth13 wrote: »
I think I'm going to ask his wife when she's next there.
Out of curiosity how will you proceed if she gives you the same advice. The presumption here is she probably disagrees with her husband's advice but that is by no means a given...
If she agrees with him then I will ask her to talk to me about her thought process and ask why the general consensus is that low weights are less effective. I have seen her training other women using high weights low reps, so I assume she disagrees with her husband. If not, hopefully I will gain some insight into how her clients have such fantastic results 0
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