How can I motivate my gf?

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Next time she brings it up, tell her how you feel. My husband eventually got tired of hearing me b***h about my weight and how unhappy I was with my body and said look, only you can change your body so either get to it or drop it. At first it hurt my feelings, but like they said the truth hurts ... he was right. Me complaining about it all the time was just making me feel worse and making him aggravated so here I am