Relationship advice to any 18-20-something person.

GetSoda
GetSoda Posts: 1,267 Member
edited January 28 in Chit-Chat
Your BF/GF not returning your texts? Blowing you off? You're in a relationship but THEY don't know it?

Step back and consider for a minute and realize that you're ~19 ****ing years old, and go get as much *kitten* as you possibly can. You'll learn a hell of a lot more about yourself that way than just pining over some loser and doing what he/she wants all the time.



You're welcome in advance.

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  • Lauren8239
    Lauren8239 Posts: 1,039 Member
    Very helpful I'm sure.
  • sparkly86
    sparkly86 Posts: 520 Member
    ADVICE: date, date, date. DO NOT commit to a long term relationship at that age.
  • Cutting4life
    Cutting4life Posts: 505 Member
    what if ur 21 - 25?
  • GetSoda
    GetSoda Posts: 1,267 Member
    what if ur 21 - 25?

    You fall under 20-something.
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    I'm 26.....can I still get *kitten*?
  • jollyjoe321
    jollyjoe321 Posts: 529 Member
    ^ If you ask nicely!

    I agree with the OP, which is why I spend my time and money on motorbikes =)
  • Kimdbro
    Kimdbro Posts: 922 Member
    and the torch is passed.....
  • fuzzieme
    fuzzieme Posts: 454 Member
    wish I'd done that. Not get the *kitten*, just stay single for more than a few months inbetween serious relationships.
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    I'm 26.....can I still get *kitten*?

    You'd need to go to another planet to have any issues with that.
  • Kindone
    Kindone Posts: 138 Member
    and the torch is passed.....

    *bows head in reverence*

    ...and sets the timer.
  • Kindone
    Kindone Posts: 138 Member
    I'm 26.....can I still get *kitten*?

    Only if candy is involved.
  • jktin08
    jktin08 Posts: 62 Member
    You have your WHOLE LIFE to be committed to someone/married!! What is the rush?? Enjoy life,dating and being young! Enjoy being selfish and looking out for number one's wants and needs because that is the ONLY time in life you can do it.Take care of you and your dreams before settling down. Trust me, divorce SUCKS even if you really hate the person. It is also expensive and can potentially hurt your credit.

    -Signed-
    A 19yr old bride who got married for the wrong reasons and got divorced within two years, then finally lived alone and found herself after and THEN married the love of her life after several years of dating/being engaged at 28. Now,31,happily married for a few years with no kids yet (working on it) :p
  • Kindone
    Kindone Posts: 138 Member
    I prefer the old adage:

    If you love something set them free. If they don't come back, hunt them down and *stalk* them.
  • lightdiva1
    lightdiva1 Posts: 935 Member
    Its not stalking, its called research :wink:
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