Not sure what's happening to me

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I know that this is supposed to be a really serious post but the replies have me in tears from laughter. I think I officially love the mfp community!

Back on topic. Just go with the flow, do what feels right in the moment. But never forget to be smart about your decisions regardless. Sometimes these whirlwind romances workout for the best sometimes they don't. That's just how life goes.

I was in the most amazing, breathless, and incomparable relationship a while ago and even though it didn't work out I regret nothing about the time we had together. Relish in the moment and if it doesn't work out remember that that's just how life goes and remember the good times rather than dwell in the bad.

SassyRN_77

TannedTiger wrote: »

perhaps ladies should start giving booty easily, then men won't have to lie and make false promises.

wow!!! just wow!!!lol

gothchiq

I'm gonna be a wet blanket for a sec because I've been there done that and got burnt to a bloody crisp.

Suddenly popping up relationships that seem so perfect and move so fast? BIG RED FLAG. Take a step back. Don't be rushed into ANYTHING and for the love of God don't let him move in or let him borrow any money. Please for your own sake, be skeptical. Not everyone is what they seem and some people fake it *very* well. Until they get what they want from you, which usually ends up being some form of financial support even if they seem solvent at first.

In fact, I'd background check him.

(No, I'm not a bitter old crab; I'm happily married to a good man. Just that I learned some hard lessons before that.)

Best of luck, truly.