Lose weight, lose friends :-(

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  • feisty_bucket
    feisty_bucket Posts: 1,047 Member
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    djoujou wrote: »
    (I now have a technique: I take the glass of wine and I keep the same glass for the whole night but I am pissed to go that far to be in peace)

    Solid. I read in a biography of Frank Sinatra that he used to do this at parties. Well, grab a glass from the server, sip and hold it, leave it somewhere, take another. Maintain the appearance of being a lush party guy while staying sober. If that's your plan, it's possible.
    I want to say something but I am afraid to be hurtful. I don't want these small comments become a big issue... So how can I tell him to shut up in an intelligent way ahahah?

    Hurtful? They already crossed that line, hence your post. But it's probably not a big deal in their minds, so don't make it one or you'll escalate. I've got plenty of snarky, trollish friends and you just have to maintain a policy of refusing to engage with nonsense BS. Go "Psssh", eye roll, change the subject. Never fails.