Weightloss with a cancer diagnosis

MrsRbeckett

Sorry If this is the wrong place for this topic, or feel free to point me in the direction of another board already in existence. This past February I was told I had a tumor in the side of my face (under my ear, almost on my jaw) that was benign. It took me 8 months to get that information. After taking antibiotics, going for ultrasounds, doctor after doctor, I finally knew what was going on.I had the tumor removed May 3rd 2016. During 2016 I have been trying to lose weight, but I found myself exhausted everyday no matter what, sometimes I have no appetite, sometimes I couldn't keep anything down. I thought it was anxiety- So I went to my doctor and tried some different things to try to help. Nothing has. I found yesterday that I have cancer. I'm 30 and in relatively good health despite being overweight. I have been in pure shock since.
What I want to ask is if there are any supportive communities for people who are still trying to work on their weight loss journey while dealing with cancer. I meet with my oncologists tomorrow- to determine treatment moving forward (as far as I know it will be radiation, but no chemo) and although weightloss is not a top priority at the moment, I felt the MFP community would be a place where people would understand that it is still on my mind. I lost 60lbs in 2014-2015 and I am trying to keep moving forward, but I have found for the past 3-4 months I really cant lose anything. I don't gain, I just stay the same. and I'm always tired. always. I do try to eat relatively healthy, veggies, fruits, whole grains, and I was consistently going to the gym for about a month (in march) but I was just getting too exhausted to keep going.
Any advice, or support is greatly appreciated.
thank you

maxit

Everything I have read on the subject suggests that the goal when dealing with cancer is to eat for nutrition rather than weight loss, as your body needs to be supported through the process and intentional calorie-deficit adds stress. Additionally when it comes to exercise/activity, maintaining physical activity has a positive effect on quality of life during the cancer-healing process, and that pacing oneself is also critical. Rather than attempting "bouts" of exercise like one does when going to a gym, work on something simpler, like walking every day for shorter, multiple periods. Both of these conclusions have been borne out by various close family members who have met and successfully beaten cancer. Good luck in your journey!

Yasmin163

Oh sweetheart that is horrendous for you to be dealing with. One thing for sure, there are plenty of help groups. Deal with one thing at a time. Stress will be a huge factor in weight gain. Try joining pilates or yoga for some stress relief but great for health & well being. Swimming will also be a great exercise for weight lose as well as easy on the body - which is essentail right now. There is a group called the Expert Patient Programme which hold self help groups for those suffering chronic conditions.
They may be able to help in some way - even if its emotional support from those in the same position as you.
Take it easy on yourself. Strong mind, strong body. With you all the way hun

Libby283

Prayers to you and I hope you have a speedy recovery. Eat for nutrition. A few extra pounds will be helpful in your journey to good health so do not worry about losing them.

laur357

I wish you well with your treatments. I agree with the others, and unless you're very dangerously obese, your team of doctors will probably tell you to focus on eating well-balanced meals when possible and try to maintain your weight. Talk to your medical team about your weight concerns too. They can help you find a support team who help you with stress and your health, and that can definitely include your weight if you want to bring it up. And take someone with you whenever possible - they can help remember your conversations, take notes, and remind you of questions you have for your nurses and doctors between visits.

Chemotherapy and other treatments can cause nausea and loss of appetite, to a point where some patients lose a significant amount of weight. My dad's doctors were pleased that he didn't lose much weight during his 12 months of chemo and asked what his secret was - his answer was beer. Hearty laughs all around Try to remain active when you can and stay positive!

MelaniaTrump

Cancer sucks.
I would buy you a ninja mixer on sale at costco and tell you to make a green drink every day.
Nutrition is key now. Put weight loss on vacation.
I would avoid anything with added sugars for optimal nutrition.

mommazach

I'm so very sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I'm sure you are very frightened. So far it looks as though you have gotten some very good information. Continued exercise is very helpful as it increases endorphins. The weight loss is going to depend on treatment options also. Your body may be maintaining due to what you are going through, I wouldn't focus on loss until you meet with your oncologist and find out what kind of therapy you will be going through. They'll have more information about your diet needs along with exercise abilities.

kgirlhart

I'm sorry that you are going through this. I agree with the others that you need to focus on nutrition and not worry about eating in a deficit. If you are hungry you should eat. If you are tired you should rest. I think yoga would be good and swimming or walking but I wouldn't try to do anything too strenuous unless you really feel up to it.

suzyjane1972

At the moment your body needs good nutrition to help it....I wouldn't try and diet while you are at this point. Eat to nourish.

Marillian

I can certainly empathize with you. I am now 8 years cancer free. I don't know of any groups here on MFP, but most likely, wherever you are having your treatment will have support groups.

Here are a few suggestions which may help make things a little easier for you.

The first thing to remember is that your body is constantly fighting this invader called cancer. The fatigue you feel is rather normal. Try to get a good amount of sleep each night. Take naps if you can.

As long as you are able, continue to eat healthy and try not to worry about weight loss. Avoid processed sugar and stress as much as possible. Cancer feeds on both of those things.

In the event that your treatment includes chemotherapy and radiation, stock up on ginger tea. It can help with the nausea you might experience.

If you are undergoing chemo/radiation and you are told you will lose your hair and you should cut it off now, think carefully about doing it. Some chemos do not cause hair loss. I was told to cut off my long hair (almost to my butt) but I refused. While I had some minor hair loss, my hair did not fall out. If your hair does fall out, the American Cancer Society has a program that provides free wigs to cancer patients.

If you do not already do so, learn to meditate and do so each day. It will help with calming you and giving you some peace.

Family and friends may avoid you, or avoid talking to you. They are scared for you, and it's hard for them to know the right thing to say. Believe me, the insensitive comments and questions I received were unreal. I sent an email out to my family and friends with information about what I was going through, and what I wanted or needed from them, and that it was okay to laugh and tell jokes. Let your family and friends know (if you are okay with it), that they can talk to you about cancer, but ask that they don't make it the subject of the entire conversation.

Good luck in your journey, and private message me if you would like with any questions or if you just need to chat with someone who understands.

_Waffle_

JanetYellen wrote: »

Cancer sucks.
I would buy you a ninja mixer on sale at costco and tell you to make a green drink every day.
Nutrition is key now. Put weight loss on vacation.
I would avoid anything with added sugars for optimal nutrition.

There's nothing magical about drinking vegetables and sugars don't ruin nutrition. Those ninja mixers make pretty darn good piña coladas however so that's good advice.

OP, listen to your physician. What are they telling you to do?

melonaulait

I suppose focusing on your macros and nutrient-dense foods, while keeping as active as you can, could work great for you. I feel for you.

lalangela

I am a 2 year survivor, and I gained a lot of weight while going through chemo. The doctor's are not concerned with weight loss, but I was. It was devastating to be going through this crap and have the weight pile on every week. There was nothing I could do. I had issues with my tongue reacting to the treatment (my tongue, really?!) and for 2 weeks my main source of nutrients was a peanut butter sandwich on white bread.

I know it's hard, but, if you change your calories to maintenance, rather than a deficit, you can probably offset any weight gain

And, don't be too hard on yourself. Your body will change, and it's going to be hard, but you can do it!

baciodolce18

You didn't mention what kind of cancer, but cancer and treatment have profound effects on the body. I'm sorry you're going through it at such a young age (I'm the same age as you). I've been helping my mom fight pancreatic cancer the past 2 years and being a GI cancer has messed up her eating big time. Even before the chemos. She's never done radiation so I don't know what those effects are like. But I suggest you get a dietician, one that has experience with cancer treatment, and eat for nutrition above all else. And as much as your body allows. There is research that suggests cancer feeds off sugar so I dunno, maybe limiting added sugars helps. It's hard to say. But talk to a dietician and find out if a calorie deficit is advisable. Maybe you can just do a 200-500 cal deficit and have it just be slower. You don't say either how much you weigh and how much further until goal. But just take care of you and listen to your body above all else.

Owlie45

Focus on nutritious foods. That will be the most important thing while fighting. But ofcourse get the goodies in when you can.
Depending on your treatment you may not be able to stomach much. I know when my aunt and grandma were fighting cancer they couldn't but they had aggressive treatment.