Need a good fitness buddy

Snelllee

Hi everyone! I haven't been on mfp in quite a while. I've off and on diet and exercised the past several years. I had my second baby a year ago. Since then I'm not motivated to get back in shape! I know what I need to do to be healthy, but I just don't do it! Every time I get healthy and hit my goal weight has been when I have someone to "compete" with. But once I hit my goal, something always happens (I get pregnant, gym partner moves, trainer quits, I get hurt). All of my real life friends are too understanding. Oh you had a bad day? No big deal just start tomorrow! And my husband just makes me mad when he tries to give me tough love. Do you really need a snickers?
So long post short, I need a fitness buddy. Someone who also has dieted and exercised before ( I'm really into weightlifting, running, and hiking), is a mom so they get the struggle of time management, can hold me accountable with diet, and wants to have a friendly competition with me! I need to lose about 20 pounds. I'm planning on prepping meals this weekend to start next week off right!