Getting Discouraged about my legs and tummy

I have been over weight and heavy my whole life and I'm wanting to get toned up and in shape, I'm a former soccer player as in played for 13 years and my thighs are big and I want to tone I need ideas. Second my stomach I would like to make it flat I had to have a hysterectomy done a year ago and now I'm just trying to get my stomach flat it's better than it was a year ago. Please send me ideas I go to the gym and go walking outside when it's not to hot, also please feel free to add me as s friend.

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  • briscogun
    briscogun Posts: 1,138 Member
    Spot reduction is not possible, unfortunately. The best thing to do is to keep losing weight in order to remove the fat from everywhere, not just in one place or the other. If you are exercising, that'll help to create the toned look underneath so as you continue to drop weight, there will be something to show underneath, but outside of that, you have to just keep after it.

    Our bodies are all different, and we all put on weight differently. The rule of thumb is that the first place that you start to gain weight is the last place it comes off. So for me, I gain the spare tire first, so when I lose weight, I lose it in my face and arms and everyplace else except my gut, which I have to just keep working in order to make it go away. Since that's the first place my body goes to store fat, its the last place that comes off. We ALL go through the exact same thing, whether it be our tummies, thighs, rear end, arms, etc. Each person has their own struggle with it. Plus, if you've been overweight your whole life, you are really going to have a fun time convincing your body that there's a new way of doing business! It's been doing it one way for a long time, give it some time to adapt!

    Just keep on focusing on CICO, do exercise you enjoy, and you'll get there. If it were easy everybody would do it. If we could flip a switch to make it happen we all would do it. The satisfaction is in the journey, not the destination!

    Good luck!