How to keep from turning to food for comfort...

luckygirl134
luckygirl134 Posts: 42 Member
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So I have been dating this guy for about 6 months now. He was super sweet and I thought he was really in to me. Well the past month or so I have barely heard from him. He said he's just been busy with work (he's a cop), national guard, and school. Well last night I found out he's been talking to 2 other girls, one who is barely 18 and the other 21. He is 30!! It was definitely a blow to my self esteem. All I want to do is just drown my sorrows in some good ole' comfort food but I know I would end up regretting it!

I just need some ideas on how to keep my mind off of him and keep myself from eating my weight in food trying to make myself feel better!! :smile:

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  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Go bang some other guy.
  • xvxCelticWandererxvx
    xvxCelticWandererxvx Posts: 2,890 Member
    Don't second guess yourself. Keep moving forward. Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you down, girlie!
  • anjani_009
    anjani_009 Posts: 511 Member
    payback's a b-tch

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  • anjani_009
    anjani_009 Posts: 511 Member
    oops
  • anjani_009
    anjani_009 Posts: 511 Member
    oops
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    Go bang some other guy.

    ^^Yep. I hate to say it, but it works faster than anything else. If that's not an option, at least get back on the horse. Go on some dates! Flirt, work it, dance, whatever you do. Remind yourself that you are an attractive, desirable woman.
  • Southern_Belle_LA
    Southern_Belle_LA Posts: 931 Member
    Just go workout or have a girl's night, call your mom, do volunteer work, take up a pottery class, go to the pet store and play with adoptable pups, take snorkeling lessons, write a short story! I can go on but you get the point also if you bang another guy you most likely will just end up feeling guilty about it IMO.
  • kristenonly
    kristenonly Posts: 36 Member
    The best way to get over someone....get UNDER someone.
  • MFPRat
    MFPRat Posts: 201 Member
    You shouldn't feel bad, he should. He's a lying creep!! Be glad you are rid of that, he would make you miserable long-term.
  • luckygirl134
    luckygirl134 Posts: 42 Member
    Thanks everyone! I just need to keep myself busy! I have also heard the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Lol. I know it works but don't necessarily think it's the route I want to take. I think my best revenge will be getting this weight off so if I ever run in to him I'll be looking hot!
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    Bang his best friend.
  • YaGigi
    YaGigi Posts: 817 Member
    Go bang some other guy.

    I might add.

    Go bang another guy who's madly in love/lust with you and who would shower you with orgasms and compliments.

    And when you're happy and sexually satisfied, go ahead and plan a revenge. :)

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