I loss my spouse to illness.

SmartSysta

I loss my husband to a rare form of cancer one month ago. I am depressed and grieving hard. Then I realized that I needed to take care of myself before our kids are left with no parents at all. So join me in regaining my health @SmartSysta.

pie_eyes

I'm sorry for your loss

Lynzdee18

So sorry. Please add me if you'd like. I'm on everyday.

fairymine

I am so sorry for your loss! I would love to help motivate you! Add me.

fightingweight155

I'm sorry for your loss. You are on the right path to regain your health.

Owlie45

Im so sorry for your loss.
I lost my aunt about a year and a half ago. She apparently had a unknown type of blood cancer. As far as I know her diagnose was "it's sorta like this but it's not and it's sorta like this but it's not." It was hard to lose my aunt I can't imagine a spouse.
Sending hugs.

SmartSysta

Thank you @Rottified I appreciate your condolence. He was 39, and had small bowel adenocarcinoma. He lasted a year to the date. I am so grateful for the time we spent together. It would have been 21 years in July, 2016.

SmartSysta

Thanks @fightingweight155 I appreciate the support.

SmartSysta

Thanks @fairymine I appreciate the support and I will.

SmartSysta

Thanks @Lynzdee18 I appreciate your support and I will.

SmartSysta

Thanks @pie_eyes I appreciate the condolence.

CharlieBeansmomTracey

sorry for your loss, sending positive and healing vibes your way.also lots of luck as you can do this!

KetoTeacher

So sorry for your loss... Sent invite

msalicia116

I'm so sorry! Here for you.

FindingLiz016

So sorry for your families lost I'm here if needed!!!

Francl27

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Joat8

Best to you, my sister!

lenoresdream

I am so sorry.

KetoneKaren

singingflutelady

SmartSysta wrote: »

Thank you @Rottified I appreciate your condolence. He was 39, and had small bowel adenocarcinoma. He lasted a year to the date. I am so grateful for the time we spent together. It would have been 21 years in July, 2016.

@SmartSysta did he have Crohn's disease? Just curious as this raises the risk of this cancer sorry for your loss.

RainaProske

I am So Sorry for this loss, SmartSysta, I understand -- a little, at least. My first husband was killed in a plane accident when he was exactly 29-1/2 years old. We were younger, so our marriage only 7.5 years long, but we had two children.
I learned to throw myself into rearing my children alone, trying to be both mother and father. I failed miserably at being "father," and I did a lot of other things wrong, but I did a whole lot of stuff right, too. They are both in their forties now; they are parents of three great children each, great citizens, good-all-around people who are loving. But kind of report is way down the road from your today.
Let me say this, however: use your own bootstraps to pull yourself out of any quagmires you fell into. Just my experience, so it doesn't count for everyone (I hope not you, but people often forget to help when we are in even this kind of need. The church was not at all there for me, except for one man who took a little interest in my son for a couple years. My family was scattered across the nation, . . . etc. What got done was done by me, until I remarried 10 years later.
I hope that doesn't discourage you; that was my experience and a bit of a warning. But it made me strong!

RainaProske

Wish I knew how to make corrections in my posts ^^^

vincema01

I am so sorry about your loss, hang on to the great memories you and him had .. Yes please take care of you and your family keep them close and talk about all the good times . The best therapy is talking about it then the healing will start .. Love your kids keep them very close , like most of the ppl that posted here if you need someone to talk with we are all here for you. Add me if you like .