Getting hit on again - NSV

emz_1993

The other day I was at the hardware store and noticed a guy staring at me and he later tried to strike up a conversation with me. Apart from the drunken nights out, I rarely get guys looking at me like that so it was weird! I actually felt really awkward because I'm not used to that kind of male attention anymore but it was a welcomed awkward feeling. It may seem superficial, but to me that is a good sign the work is paying off and that I'm looking better.

AutumMego

I had a similar experience today in my local food store, where a guy actually flirted with me a bit. It automatically boosted my confidence and made me feel cute for once. I'm just so used to being ignored or cast aside; it's so nice to be noticed!

rachellosesitall85

They sure do come out of the woodwork when that shape is peeking out, don't they? Lol.

killdontmurder

Maybe I should stop ignoring girls then...I always thought I was doing the right thing by not bothering them. But maybe if I see a girl who I think is struggling to workout/lose weight, maybe I'll talk to her just because it could boost her confidence.

LessToLoveTexas

Yes! I've had a similar experience. While I'm married and would never give in to an advance, it is a HUGE confidence booster! Congrats!

Timshel_

Had this happen the other day while at a brewery. Out of the blue. Can't say I wasn't flattered.

JeromeBarry1

killdontmurder wrote: »

Maybe I should stop ignoring girls then...I always thought I was doing the right thing by not bothering them. But maybe if I see a girl who I think is struggling to workout/lose weight, maybe I'll talk to her just because it could boost her confidence.

No good can come of that notion.