Just having trouble sticking with it...

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randomgirl913
randomgirl913 Posts: 12 Member
edited July 2016 in Motivation and Support
I think I've become a bit lazy in the past month. My dieting has always been on again, off again, but finally I got to the point where I was doing it every day. Then I got a job and all of the sudden I haven't been watching what I eat. I pick low calorie items and things that I like, I'm not restrictive in WHAT I eat, just portions. Yet lately I've been eating too much. I've been stressed, so I haven't been paying attention to if I'm going over my calorie goals. How do I get out of this rut? I am starting to gain weight back, and it just makes me feel even worse.

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  • cbindustriess
    cbindustriess Posts: 1 Member
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    Hey do you want to be accountability partners :)
  • nina4w
    nina4w Posts: 126 Member
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    You know, I've had this problem on and off. I'll do great for a few weeks and then, I'll have a hard time due to wanting large portions from stress. I find that if I focus on walking or some sort of exercise for relief that I tend not to overeat. I'll eat some of my calories that I exercise but not all of them. It has been working for me so far.
  • Womona
    Womona Posts: 1,626 Member
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    I think you get out of it by logging your food and exercise, even if you just want to blow it off! That's when you need to do it the most!!!!
  • terbusha
    terbusha Posts: 1,483 Member
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    Find a strong WHY. What is driving you to make these positive changes? It needs to be something important to you. For example, my why is my son. I stay disciplined because the results teach him how to be healthy and fit. Find something that's important to you.

    Also, find some accountability...whether it be a single person or a support group. That's really helpful too, since you'll have someone there to encourage you to keep striving to improve.
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
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    1. figure out how to eliminate or at least minimize your stress. Life is too short!
    2. sometimes putting reminders of my goals around helps me stay on track. A note, or a picture, or a quote or something to remind me when I am distracted.
    3. just make yourself do it, thats really what it comes to, sometimes I am feeling it and sometimes I am not but I will tell you personally I have never had success without a nice long accurate logging streak
  • CLG188
    CLG188 Posts: 8 Member
    edited July 2016
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    Your not only one with this problem. I'm going though the same thing.
  • CLG188
    CLG188 Posts: 8 Member
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    Sorry about my post before. I didn't get a chance to finish it. I try to do it on my cell phone but, it wouldn't let me finish so I'm on the big computer.
    I'm getting more lazier because I seem to not have the motivation. And I have to do this for my health because I'm on high blood pressure medication and high cholesterol medication and I want to get off these stupid pills! Maybe I need a buddy or something. I'm on here and Fitbit, Facebook.
    Maybe we should start a group or something like that. Any ideas!?
  • dianamtiya
    dianamtiya Posts: 4 Member
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    I'm in the same boat. I'm good for a few days/weeks and then I get tired/ busy/ stressed and it all falls apart. I have like 20 lbs and am looking for some friends for motivation/ accountability. Thanks!
  • Neanbean13
    Neanbean13 Posts: 211 Member
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    I bet you dedicate time to other things so why not to food? Everyone's 'busy' so that's not an excuse.
    I bought take away containers. I dedicate 1 to 2 hours sunday be it first thing or last thing and weight cook and measure my food to take to work the next week. I then know the calories I'm eating each lunch to log. And it's done in my take away Containers. Done. I know I'll pair it with say fruit, nuts, pop corn. Whatever it is. Breakfast, I have a general idea what I'm having so I weigh and log, no suprise there. When I do the shopping list I get what I'm having for lunch and dinners. I know say sunday Monday I'm having spaghetti. Tue wed I'm doing stir fri. Thur fri bbq. Doing a little more planning and prep at end of week saves loads of time during week. I try when I make stuff do enough for 2 nights so no slaving every night. The nights I don't have to cook I can do other stuff.
    Failing to prepare is preparing to fail!