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It's true but it's as good as things are gonna get for me for nowcompetecompetecompete wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
So what are you two gonna do when he finds someone else?
I think just quit having sex and spending so much time together, but maybe still go some places in public as friends
That's not real lifelittlemissbgiff wrote: »littlemissbgiff wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
I'm having trouble understanding how he shut that off so quick, considering he was crying over you last week, and now he's swiping right in front of you..... have I missed a few steps?
Lol no it went that fast. We didn't talk for about two days, then we met and we laid down ground rules, and he said it was more important to him for me to stay in his life in some capacity rather than for him to just shut me out.@angelxsss he is doing it to make you jealous.
I'm thinking maybe that's true
But if you're not attracted to him and there is no relationship in the future, what's to be jealous of? If he's just going to play head games with you, do you really want to save this relationship?
I'm not jealous, just annoyed because if I was out to dinner or something with a friend, I wouldn't spend the whole night on my phone. And probably if he was playing head games, I would still stay because I do pathetic stuff like that.
Well stop sabotaging yourself like that! You're young and you're cute, capitalize on that instead of being ignored by someone who's just trying to hurt you passive aggressively.
Thanks, I'll try0 -
competecompetecompete wrote: »I don't post much but following this. He sounds like a DBag. For real.
Maybe. We shall see. This might be a defense mechanism against the feels too, maybe he's not trying to purposely hurt my feelings0 -
Kasner1975 wrote: »
It's true but it's as good as things are gonna get for me for nowcompetecompetecompete wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
So what are you two gonna do when he finds someone else?
I think just quit having sex and spending so much time together, but maybe still go some places in public as friends
That's not real lifelittlemissbgiff wrote: »littlemissbgiff wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
I'm having trouble understanding how he shut that off so quick, considering he was crying over you last week, and now he's swiping right in front of you..... have I missed a few steps?
Lol no it went that fast. We didn't talk for about two days, then we met and we laid down ground rules, and he said it was more important to him for me to stay in his life in some capacity rather than for him to just shut me out.@angelxsss he is doing it to make you jealous.
I'm thinking maybe that's true
But if you're not attracted to him and there is no relationship in the future, what's to be jealous of? If he's just going to play head games with you, do you really want to save this relationship?
I'm not jealous, just annoyed because if I was out to dinner or something with a friend, I wouldn't spend the whole night on my phone. And probably if he was playing head games, I would still stay because I do pathetic stuff like that.
Well stop sabotaging yourself like that! You're young and you're cute, capitalize on that instead of being ignored by someone who's just trying to hurt you passive aggressively.
Thanks, I'll try
That's as good as things are going to get? He cried to keep you after a couple weeks, now he's got you hanging out watching him look for chicks online. Am I the only one that sees what's going on here?... come on kid. You seem like a passionate, lovely lady. He's f$cking with you. Walk away.
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happilymegan wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
It's true but it's as good as things are gonna get for me for nowcompetecompetecompete wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
So what are you two gonna do when he finds someone else?
I think just quit having sex and spending so much time together, but maybe still go some places in public as friends
That's not real lifelittlemissbgiff wrote: »littlemissbgiff wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
I'm having trouble understanding how he shut that off so quick, considering he was crying over you last week, and now he's swiping right in front of you..... have I missed a few steps?
Lol no it went that fast. We didn't talk for about two days, then we met and we laid down ground rules, and he said it was more important to him for me to stay in his life in some capacity rather than for him to just shut me out.@angelxsss he is doing it to make you jealous.
I'm thinking maybe that's true
But if you're not attracted to him and there is no relationship in the future, what's to be jealous of? If he's just going to play head games with you, do you really want to save this relationship?
I'm not jealous, just annoyed because if I was out to dinner or something with a friend, I wouldn't spend the whole night on my phone. And probably if he was playing head games, I would still stay because I do pathetic stuff like that.
Well stop sabotaging yourself like that! You're young and you're cute, capitalize on that instead of being ignored by someone who's just trying to hurt you passive aggressively.
Thanks, I'll try
That's as good as things are going to get? He cried to keep you after a couple weeks, now he's got you hanging out watching him look for chicks online. Am I the only one that sees what's going on here?... come on kid. You seem like a passionate, lovely lady. He's f$cking with you. Walk away.
If you didn't want a relationship with him I'm confused how he's *kitten* with you. Unless you've changed your mind since then.
Because I don't value myself as much as I should and I'm settling for this right now because nothing good has come around for me so far in my life.0 -
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Kasner1975 wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
It's true but it's as good as things are gonna get for me for nowcompetecompetecompete wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
So what are you two gonna do when he finds someone else?
I think just quit having sex and spending so much time together, but maybe still go some places in public as friends
That's not real lifelittlemissbgiff wrote: »littlemissbgiff wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
I'm having trouble understanding how he shut that off so quick, considering he was crying over you last week, and now he's swiping right in front of you..... have I missed a few steps?
Lol no it went that fast. We didn't talk for about two days, then we met and we laid down ground rules, and he said it was more important to him for me to stay in his life in some capacity rather than for him to just shut me out.@angelxsss he is doing it to make you jealous.
I'm thinking maybe that's true
But if you're not attracted to him and there is no relationship in the future, what's to be jealous of? If he's just going to play head games with you, do you really want to save this relationship?
I'm not jealous, just annoyed because if I was out to dinner or something with a friend, I wouldn't spend the whole night on my phone. And probably if he was playing head games, I would still stay because I do pathetic stuff like that.
Well stop sabotaging yourself like that! You're young and you're cute, capitalize on that instead of being ignored by someone who's just trying to hurt you passive aggressively.
Thanks, I'll try
That's as good as things are going to get? He cried to keep you after a couple weeks, now he's got you hanging out watching him look for chicks online. Am I the only one that sees what's going on here?... come on kid. You seem like a passionate, lovely lady. He's f$cking with you. Walk away.
Thank you
I'm sorry. On further review, I think that came off pretty harsh. You do seem like a great, wonderful, and kind hearted person. I hate to see good people get hurt because they feel that they can't do better... or for any reason really. Do what you need to do for you, but be careful that you're not taken advantage of Kiddo.
Nah it came across okay. I habitually do this sort of self-destructive *kitten* because I don't feel like I deserve/can do any better. But thank you for the compliments and the encouragement to hold myself in higher esteem.2 -
Thank youhappilymegan wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
It's true but it's as good as things are gonna get for me for nowcompetecompetecompete wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
So what are you two gonna do when he finds someone else?
I think just quit having sex and spending so much time together, but maybe still go some places in public as friends
That's not real lifelittlemissbgiff wrote: »littlemissbgiff wrote: »Kasner1975 wrote: »
Yep, same onehappilymegan wrote: »
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
Is this the guy you were telling me about? The older guy?
He decided that he can turn his feelings off and not catch the feels so here we are
If he is trying to find other women online then it looks like he is staying true to his word
Yeah and I'm glad he's looking, it's just annoying, because I came over to spend time with him
I'm having trouble understanding how he shut that off so quick, considering he was crying over you last week, and now he's swiping right in front of you..... have I missed a few steps?
Lol no it went that fast. We didn't talk for about two days, then we met and we laid down ground rules, and he said it was more important to him for me to stay in his life in some capacity rather than for him to just shut me out.@angelxsss he is doing it to make you jealous.
I'm thinking maybe that's true
But if you're not attracted to him and there is no relationship in the future, what's to be jealous of? If he's just going to play head games with you, do you really want to save this relationship?
I'm not jealous, just annoyed because if I was out to dinner or something with a friend, I wouldn't spend the whole night on my phone. And probably if he was playing head games, I would still stay because I do pathetic stuff like that.
Well stop sabotaging yourself like that! You're young and you're cute, capitalize on that instead of being ignored by someone who's just trying to hurt you passive aggressively.
Thanks, I'll try
That's as good as things are going to get? He cried to keep you after a couple weeks, now he's got you hanging out watching him look for chicks online. Am I the only one that sees what's going on here?... come on kid. You seem like a passionate, lovely lady. He's f$cking with you. Walk away.
If you didn't want a relationship with him I'm confused how he's *kitten* with you. Unless you've changed your mind since then.
Because I don't value myself as much as I should and I'm settling for this right now because nothing good has come around for me so far in my life.
I respect your honesty but wish you could see yourself how others do. You're wonderful.
I'll come around eventually (probably with the help of therapy)
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Crying because my son crashed the golf cart now has a goose egg!!!
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