Poll for the girls

1. what age range do you fall into -- 18-28, 29-39 or 40+
2. are you more attracted to fit guys or guys that are bigger (fat, really don't like using that term but it may clear up some confusion)

Thanks all!!
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  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Is this for some sort of crappy research paper?
  • nope just trying to prove a fact to my friends... they seem to think the total opposite of what I think...
  • I don't even understand the question. Are you asking if guys can still be attractive with a gut?
  • ravegee
    ravegee Posts: 999 Member
    I am between the age range 18-28
    To me I can be attracted to guys who has a gut (but not humungous). I can also be attracted to fit guys as well. But to me it just depends on the personality.
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    Totally misread the thread title. "Poll", not "pole". Bummer....Carry on!

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  • CysterWigs
    CysterWigs Posts: 136 Member
    I'm 32. I've always like guys who are tall-ish (taller than me is tall enough, so 5'9" & up) and who have a fairly fit build with maybe some love-handles. I do like a little bit of pudge, aesthetically it's quite pleasant, but the person has to be healthy. It's a fine line to tread.
  • ShaniWulffe
    ShaniWulffe Posts: 458 Member
    I'm in the 18-21 age group, and, well, I generally don't like guys :blushing: But I can appreciate a good-looking guy. I think that guys *can* be attractive with a bit of a gut, but I prefer them without
  • I don't even understand the question. Are you asking if guys can still be attractive with a gut?
    IF the answer to this is "yes"...

    then yes guys with a gut can still be quite attractive. I go more for brains and smart-*kitten*....looks are important, too, but a gut is not a horrible thing.


    I'm between 29 - 39...or 83 if you look at my profile. :wink:
  • What I'm trying to ask is this:

    1. what age range do you fall into -- 18-28, 29-39 or 40+
    2. are you more attracted to fit guys or guys that are bigger (fat, really don't like using that term but it may clear up some confusion)
  • NovemberJune
    NovemberJune Posts: 2,525 Member
    Is this for some sort of crappy research paper?

    No he's trying to choose a wing man.

    Eta.... He changed the OP :tongue:
  • MrsSenecal
    MrsSenecal Posts: 312 Member
    I like a big guy. Someone who is strong and may be carrying some extra weight. My Fiance is the strongest person ive ever met and he has a great belly that is great to be snuggled up next to.
  • Nope, the friends i'm referring to are both guys and girls.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    here's the thing, we all have different tastes. Period. Someone for everyone and all that jazz. Personally, fit guys are nice to look at, but to be with, I prefer a teddy bear.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    Age 29: I do not care. Because physique isn't the only thing that matters. I'm attracted to the whole person, not their abs.
  • AMHouse85
    AMHouse85 Posts: 285 Member
    18-28

    I prefer larger men. 6'0" + and due to the height they tend to be on the larger side 200+

    Although, what I'm attracted to is smiles, butts and whats in their heart so that is priority #1!

    sn - I'm almost 28 and celebrating my 10 year anniversary with my husband, he is 6'2" and 260 lbs (down from 350 though. Love him no matter what.)
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member
    starts account with no pic to post random question in forum.... and *this* is what you came up with ?!?!?


    SMH
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    As a big guy, I can attest that I am not a head turner, but many women are as attracted to personalities as they are looks.
  • UnwrappingCandy
    UnwrappingCandy Posts: 418 Member
    1. what age range do you fall into -- 18-28, 29-39 or 40+
    2. are you more attracted to fit guys or guys that are bigger (fat, really don't like using that term but it may clear up some confusion)

    Thanks all!!

    18-28

    I am more attracted to women.

    Cheers.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    My husband is a bigger guy and let me put it this way:

    An extremely good looking and cut guy from the Navy was hitting on me and assuming we'd hook up...

    I chose my husband over him. Hubby is 6'2" and 220 lbs...and a football player.

    Looks aren't all that matter-especially if the guy is a douche bag.

    Fortunately I got looks AND a great personality in my hubbs.
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    1. 42
    2. I like men who have a sense of humor.
  • Cutting4life
    Cutting4life Posts: 505 Member
    skinny fat checking in
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Age 29: I do not care. Because physique isn't the only thing that matters. I'm attracted to the whole person, not their abs.

    Dont lie. Abs are all that matters.
  • CapnGordo
    CapnGordo Posts: 327
    nope just trying to prove a fact to my friends... they seem to think the total opposite of what I think...
    Are you at odds with your friends in regard to the opinions of random forum members that happen to see this, and are inclined to respond? Otherwise, this is going to be a very unrepresentative sample of the opinion of "girls" and the "facts" you extrapolate from this will be completely invalid.

    Good luck, Champ!
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
    don't think either is more or less attractive then the other. Obviously there's more to consider than just the size of a guys stomach when it comes to attractiveness. However, if two guys looked identical except for the size of they're stomach, i'd pick the one that had just a LITTLE bit extra haha

    ETA 40+
  • laserturkey
    laserturkey Posts: 1,680 Member
    40+

    Married, but when I was dating I was far more concerned with a guy's personality than his physical attributes. Sense of humor and gentle nature matter way more than muscles.
  • 18-28
    I'll be honest and say muscles.
  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,334 Member
    Age - 40+

    My late fiancee was obese...it killed him. As a result, I decided I couldn't go through anything like that again. My b/f is very fit.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Pole for the girls....

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  • CrankMeUp
    CrankMeUp Posts: 2,860 Member
    As a big guy, I can attest that I am not a head turner, but many women are as attracted to personalities as they are looks.

    42...in 9 days



    and yes you are.
  • OLeoLionessO
    OLeoLionessO Posts: 152
    22 and i like changing fat people into fit people. i have a chubby bf i wouldn't mind spending forever with....but if he doesnt make an effort to lose the weight and live healthy things will get rough.