Looking for friends to motivate and stay accountable

My name is Cathy. I have always struggled with my weight and have reached the point now where I feel disgusted and ready for a lasting change. I have a habit of doing really good and start to see change and then I stop. Not sure why but I do. I gain it back plus some. When I eat healthy and workout out I feel 100X better. I let one bad day throw me off track and ruin all the progress I have made. I would like to meet people as a support team and to help keep each other accountable. If you'd like add me.
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  • allieparkia
    allieparkia Posts: 304 Member
    Feel free to add me, always great to have new friends!
  • melaniedscott
    melaniedscott Posts: 1,459 Member
    I'm Melanie...and in a very similar place. Must lose weight and get into better shape. Feel free to add me.
  • ambermarie1226
    ambermarie1226 Posts: 7 Member
    I am at that point also! Need to make a change!
  • shelby13975
    shelby13975 Posts: 1 Member
    I'm in the same boat. And I find it harder (maybe some can relate) while I'm trying to eat healthy and get healthy and loose the baby weight. I'm still trying to feed my other 2 kids and they argue with me about the food. So I sometimes give in with nonhealthy choices. Or I'll do good I was in cross fit boot camp for 6 weeks loving it but then lost my sitter so I'm on my own at home. Finding it harder to be motivated.
  • StartEveryDayNew
    StartEveryDayNew Posts: 50 Member
    Add me!! I feel the same way
  • cfz2314
    cfz2314 Posts: 7 Member
    Work hard and stay positive and all goals can be reached. Feel free to add me
  • chimonetabron2014
    chimonetabron2014 Posts: 57 Member
    I do the same thing! It's crazy how that happens BUT we press on & stay positive! You can do it!!! I just came back from vacation so I definitely need to get back to the grind!
  • sstrack123
    sstrack123 Posts: 171 Member
    I know the feeling!!! I have been trying to shed the last few pounds and build muscle it seems for the lady several yrs
  • ddubbikermom
    ddubbikermom Posts: 13 Member
    I would love new friends too!!
  • brionymj
    brionymj Posts: 1 Member
    This is exactly me!!
  • mikebooker1
    mikebooker1 Posts: 148 Member
    It's a long road and frustrating at times but so rewarding if you can stick with it. Add me!
  • jcharise16
    jcharise16 Posts: 11 Member
    I am the same! One bad day and my diet is done. I usually last maybe a month and i am back to where i started. Feel free to add ne. We can hell wach other stay accountable.
  • curvymegan89
    curvymegan89 Posts: 98 Member
    Hi everyone, feel free to add me. I'm currently 215lbs, down from 222.6, and my goal weight is 165.
  • TarikOktay
    TarikOktay Posts: 8 Member
    edited August 2016
    Feel free to add me. Support, motivation and discipline is key to succes!
  • well_insulated
    well_insulated Posts: 14 Member
    Hi Cathy! I'm on the same boat :-) i'm determined to loose 50lbs :-) good luck!
  • nell911
    nell911 Posts: 15 Member
    Hi Kathy
    Feel free to add me, the more the merrier
  • mjohnsonjax
    mjohnsonjax Posts: 1 Member
    Can I be friends with all of you lovely people? Good gosh do I need you! I've gained in excess of 20 pounds over the last six months due to some pretty excessive drinking and a lack of exercise. This time last year, I was cycling 120 miles a week and weightlifting. I lost my job, took a new one in town where I knew no one, and completely fell of the horse.

    It can be hard to stay motivated, and I'd love to connect to the community.
  • Chandra_Lennon
    Chandra_Lennon Posts: 8 Member
    I am the same way darlin! A little progress and then something happens and I just stop. Or a bad decision in my food choices and then I feel like I ruin everything. Add me if you'd like. We can certainly help each other!
  • asmithteach
    asmithteach Posts: 10 Member
    Same! I shot you an add!
  • krae20091991
    krae20091991 Posts: 1 Member
    I'm looking for friends as well
  • salsera_barbie
    salsera_barbie Posts: 270 Member
    I do the same thing. I see progress and then stop. Last time I stuck with it for about 8 months, felt great but then hit a nasty bump in my depression and derailed completely.
  • CantonRC
    CantonRC Posts: 34 Member
    I do the same I start doing great and make a noticeable difference. Then for some reason I sabotage all that I achieved and end up back where I started.
    Anyone can add me if they would like I hope someday to actually reach my goal and stay there.
  • I'm dealing with the exact same thing. I get going great, see some progress, then my depression flares or I get bored/frustrated with how long it's taking to get to where I want to be. Anyone is welcome to add me. I definitely need accountability. Looking to lose 41 pounds and keep them off FOR GOOD.
  • jcmomof2
    jcmomof2 Posts: 3 Member
    Hi, I'm looking for some friends as well. Need to lose 30 pounds that have crept on over the last 8 years. Would love to have some friends going through the same thing. Thanks!
  • jsmith0724
    jsmith0724 Posts: 50 Member
    I do the same thing... Once I have something that wasn't allowed on my diet i figured I already messed up and make a whole day of it...then I would just keep pushing off my diet. That's why I decided not to go on a specific diet and to eat anything but in moderation. I haven't lost much weight yet but I have a much better attitude about my eating. I just sent you a friend request.
  • holapearl
    holapearl Posts: 114 Member
    Hi, I'm in the same boat too! I'm having crisis because I'm 28years old and I've spent my entire 20's being obese! It's sad and depressing and I try so hard! I do really well and then I stop. Currently I'm at my biggest weight ever and I feel disgusted. I do t want to buy the next size of clothes so everything I wear is super tight. It's a hot summer and I just want to hide out in my room cos I don't want to be seen by anyone. I'm an emotional eater so when I'm sad my go straight to sugar and it makes me feel even worse. It's like a vicious cycle. At the moment I want to get back but I don't know where to start, gym or home workout videos. Strict diet vs calorie counting. Everything is so confusing right now. I definitely need some friends and some motivation
  • tahliahallitt
    tahliahallitt Posts: 14 Member
    This weight loss and healthy lifestyle journey is one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life.......just about 4 months in and 20lb lighter! Still about 40lbs to go. Reading everyone's stories really makes you realise you are not alone. Feel free to add me I will give support and happily receive some too! Good luck everyone and keep going
  • alyssarhc
    alyssarhc Posts: 8 Member
    I have had 3 babies! And am now way out of shape! Need mfp friends to help me get motivated!!!
  • 50audrey
    50audrey Posts: 3 Member
    Hiya- add me! Need more pals on my. Newsfeed too :)