Jiminy Crickets, My Life Imploded.

LokiGrrl
LokiGrrl Posts: 156 Member
edited December 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
I was clicking along and then BOOM. All this real-life crap happened and I'm holding on for dear life. I tend to get a bad case of the dontcares when everything goes pear-shaped like this but I keep reminding myself that I can't afford that even if the Universe is having a damn good laugh at my expense. AAAAAAAAAAAAAH.

So in closing, I'm working real hard to stay focused on my goals, and also I am high-maintenance and have trouble staying on task when things go wrong, but I'm bulling through.

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  • VintageFeline
    VintageFeline Posts: 6,771 Member
    My life is inherently unstable due to my mental health. I have found having control of at least something (in my case food tracking and exercise) makes sure I don't spiral completely and keep a grip, however tentative, on my life.

    I hope things sort themselves out for you soon though!
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    Just had a life changing event myself. I've found that I can log my food. There is a lot I can't do about everything else but I can do that.
  • SueInAz
    SueInAz Posts: 6,592 Member
    Sometimes taking stock of the things you can control really helps when there's a lot going on that you can't.
  • DanniB423
    DanniB423 Posts: 777 Member
    I hear you. My husband disclosed he had an affair.. My sister had a stroke ... I lost my job... But I can lose weight! Lol! Along with my sanity. Keep on trucking.
  • frankiesgirlie
    frankiesgirlie Posts: 669 Member
    The fact that you haven't given up means you'll prevail. I hope things smooth out for you in the meantime.
  • Seffell
    Seffell Posts: 2,249 Member
    Like the others said: tracking your food is something you have control over so go for it. It does give me tons of confidence.
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,487 Member
    Over the recent past I have come to realize that our weight and body composition is completely 100% within our own control. Think about all the other things in life we have zero control over, just about everything else.

    This is awesome!!! :):)

  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    LokiGrrl wrote: »
    I was clicking along and then BOOM. All this real-life crap happened and I'm holding on for dear life. I tend to get a bad case of the dontcares when everything goes pear-shaped like this but I keep reminding myself that I can't afford that even if the Universe is having a damn good laugh at my expense. AAAAAAAAAAAAAH.

    So in closing, I'm working real hard to stay focused on my goals, and also I am high-maintenance and have trouble staying on task when things go wrong, but I'm bulling through.

    Hang in there. You can do this!
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