Are abs a turn on?

Sharsou
Sharsou Posts: 8,849 Member
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Are abs a turn on? ;)
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  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    Like shoes make the outfit, abs make the body.
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,849 Member
    I'm not sure for guys but may b for girls
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,849 Member
    GreenGoddess22 wrote: »
    Of course a defined set of abs are attractive, but it certainly doesn't make the person.

    In ur opinion is it eye catching for a girl?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Its all about the dad bod

    ..... boy howdy; dontcha' know it.

    now,for womenz, bend over and touch your toes for Jesus.

    It's all about the backside; it damn sure is.
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,849 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Its all about the dad bod

    Not bad then.. I'm going for the kill ;)
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    sourabhsharma841 wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Its all about the dad bod

    Not bad then.. I'm going for the kill ;)

    re5pext
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
    Are they a turn on? Absolutely they are.
    Are they necessary? Absolutely not.
    my hubs has a dad bod and I'm totally fine with that. As long as he's healthy and at a healthy weight that's what matters.
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,849 Member
    edited September 2016
    trinairby wrote: »
    Are they a turn on? Absolutely they are.
    Are they necessary? Absolutely not.
    my hubs has a dad bod and I'm totally fine with that. As long as he's healthy and at a healthy weight that's what matters.


    Good to know that :) I wanted to know if abs really make any difference!
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
    sourabhsharma841 wrote: »
    trinairby wrote: »
    Are they a turn on? Absolutely they are.
    Are they necessary? Absolutely not.
    my hubs has a dad bod and I'm totally fine with that. As long as he's healthy and at a healthy weight that's what matters.


    Good to know that :) I wanted to know if abs really make any difference!

    I want to also add that I've never been with a man long term that had abs. It's a bit intimidating for me since I'm not chiseled myself. I'm slim, always have been, but I've never had abs. So it would make me feel like we weren't matched physically.
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  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »

    Also, it's pretty selfish for a guy to have chiseled abs and make the people around him feel insignificant. Rock hard abs are the first sign of someone who doesn't care about others feelings.

    I agree. I didn't mean it would be the guy saying or doing anything to make me feel that way. Obviously there are a lot of factors involved but women don't typically out kick their coverage, for confidence sake. It would be better for my own ego to be evenly matched. But there are exceptions to everything, I suppose
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    abs have given me opportunities that I wouldn't have had otherwise. So as a novelty (since they rarely see them), or to girls who only care about looks, it is very helpful
  • jtegirl
    jtegirl Posts: 1,137 Member
    I like abs, I like muscles and a nice face. They're not the end all/be all though. When it comes down to it, if there's no mental connection none of that matters.
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
    @jtegirl yep
  • jenmar222
    jenmar222 Posts: 9,271 Member
    edited September 2016
    All these sort of questions come down to taste :confused: I'm not all that into visible abs...I guess I just prefer more of a every-man look lol.

    It's not like they're a turn-off, if a guy has em, that's fine...but I wouldn't include abs in my list of features I consider attractive in a guy.
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  • _Sugar_interrupted
    _Sugar_interrupted Posts: 529 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    jenmar22 wrote: »
    All these sort of questions come down to taste :confused: I'm not all that into visible abs...I guess I just prefer more a every-man look lol.

    So you're saying I should make my abs taste like peanut butter?

    That's exactly what she's saying
  • jenmar222
    jenmar222 Posts: 9,271 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    jenmar22 wrote: »
    All these sort of questions come down to taste :confused: I'm not all that into visible abs...I guess I just prefer more a every-man look lol.

    So you're saying I should make my abs taste like peanut butter?

    Not that would be a turn on :love:
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  • _Sugar_interrupted
    _Sugar_interrupted Posts: 529 Member
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    _Sugar_interrupted wrote: »
    GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
    jenmar22 wrote: »
    All these sort of questions come down to taste :confused: I'm not all that into visible abs...I guess I just prefer more a every-man look lol.

    So you're saying I should make my abs taste like peanut butter?

    That's exactly what she's saying

    So better question.. What other flavors should I make my abs taste like to attractive the ladies?

    Chocolate. Nutella. Pumpkin spice. Bacon.
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,849 Member
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    @trinairby wrote: »
    Are they a turn on? Absolutely they are.
    Are they necessary? Absolutely not.
    my hubs has a dad bod and I'm totally fine with that. As long as he's healthy and at a healthy weight that's what matters.

    I agree! They are a turn on, but lack of them is not a turn off.
    trinairby wrote: »
    sourabhsharma841 wrote: »
    trinairby wrote: »
    Are they a turn on? Absolutely they are.
    Are they necessary? Absolutely not.
    my hubs has a dad bod and I'm totally fine with that. As long as he's healthy and at a healthy weight that's what matters.


    Good to know that :) I wanted to know if abs really make any difference!

    I want to also add that I've never been with a man long term that had abs. It's a bit intimidating for me since I'm not chiseled myself. I'm slim, always have been, but I've never had abs. So it would make me feel like we weren't matched physically.

    Awww.. But all I really wanted to know, was the view ppl have about abs and if that really steals the show (occasionally)

  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    I don't have a body type preference, just a personality preference: no narcissists! Unfortunately many guys (with abs), tend to be narcissistic; so I guess my preference should be: no abs!
  • Karb_Kween
    Karb_Kween Posts: 2,681 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Its all about the dad bod

    This haha
  • _Sugar_interrupted
    _Sugar_interrupted Posts: 529 Member
    sourabhsharma841 wrote: »
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    @trinairby wrote: »
    Are they a turn on? Absolutely they are.
    Are they necessary? Absolutely not.
    my hubs has a dad bod and I'm totally fine with that. As long as he's healthy and at a healthy weight that's what matters.

    I agree! They are a turn on, but lack of them is not a turn off.
    trinairby wrote: »
    sourabhsharma841 wrote: »
    trinairby wrote: »
    Are they a turn on? Absolutely they are.
    Are they necessary? Absolutely not.
    my hubs has a dad bod and I'm totally fine with that. As long as he's healthy and at a healthy weight that's what matters.


    Good to know that :) I wanted to know if abs really make any difference!

    I want to also add that I've never been with a man long term that had abs. It's a bit intimidating for me since I'm not chiseled myself. I'm slim, always have been, but I've never had abs. So it would make me feel like we weren't matched physically.

    Awww.. But all I really wanted to know, was the view ppl have about abs and if that really steals the show (occasionally)

    No. Abs are not a show stopper- or stealer.

    I had a pal, who's now deactivated-- and he had some of the best looking abs I've ever seen. The kind you want to eat every meal you'll ever have off of-- But, I'll also tell you that he had far more males fawning after them then he did females. Cause, bro!


    Yeah- they're pretty. But I think a woman is lot more interested in the muscles that matter- for example, I like strong arms and shoulders. There's something to be said for a set of arms that can really hold a woman. Abs can't do that...

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