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  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    Alatariel75 wrote: »
    Angela937 wrote: »
    Well he just broke up with me.

    How long had you been dating?

    Three weeks
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    Didn't you like just split from your husband?
  • Karb_Kween
    Karb_Kween Posts: 2,681 Member
    Leave it to the hounds of MFP to make this thread go on

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  • Karb_Kween
    Karb_Kween Posts: 2,681 Member
    happilymegan wrote: »
    You waited 3 hours? I would have walked my *kitten* out of there after a half hour. However my ex waited 3 hours for me and we spent 10 years together so if you think he might be worth it then only you will know.

    20 mins for me *kitten* that shite
  • edup1975
    edup1975 Posts: 486 Member
    Kick him to the street
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    It's time to delete your Tinder app.
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  • beachgal0626
    beachgal0626 Posts: 1,912 Member
    usmcmp wrote: »
    I've seen a bunch of posts about your dating life recently and haven't said anything until now. I think you are at a point in your life where you should take a huge step back from any attempts at relationships or intimacy and focus on yourself. Go out and learn to be happy as a single person. Go learn to love yourself as is.

    When you reach the point where you are fully and comfortably yourself, absolutely independent from another person, you'll realize that you should have walked away when he wasn't there on time. You'll also stop freaking out about men's reaction times to texts.

    ^^^^ Pay attention to this wise woman! Could not have said it better -
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    edited October 2016
    ValerieMartini2Olives wrote: »
    Didn't you like just split from your husband?
    usmcmp wrote: »
    I've seen a bunch of posts about your dating life recently and haven't said anything until now. I think you are at a point in your life where you should take a huge step back from any attempts at relationships or intimacy and focus on yourself. Go out and learn to be happy as a single person. Go learn to love yourself as is.

    When you reach the point where you are fully and comfortably yourself, absolutely independent from another person, you'll realize that you should have walked away when he wasn't there on time. You'll also stop freaking out about men's reaction times to texts.

    Another vote for focusing on yourself right now. Take some fun classes - jewelry making, dancing, pottery, literature - whatever you think is fun. Join a gym or spend more time there. Do some volunteer work.

    I made BIG changes after ending serious relationships - once I joined the military and once I became a full time volunteer at a yoga retreat center. This really helped with the transition.

    Get some therapy. I've made terrible choices in men in the past and therapy helped me value myself more and recognize red flags right away. I'm now engaged to the man of my dreams. When he's late, he's 15 minutes late. When he has to cancel, it's due to his 90 year old mother (to whom he introduced me a month or two after we started dating.)

    Jerking you around for 3 hours means this man does not value you or your time. I bet there were red flags earlier in the three weeks you've been dating him.
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    ValerieMartini2Olives wrote: »
    Didn't you like just split from your husband?

    Several months ago, after he cheated on me.

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