Warning....rant ahead!

Jvonnelh
Jvonnelh Posts: 33 Member
edited October 2016 in Chit-Chat
Why are big men known as teddy bears but big women are known as fat!? I'm so tired of being single and lonely. When I meet a guy they almost always say...you're smile is beautiful but you're not what I'm looking for! I know I will find true love again someday!!!

Rant over....you can return to your regular activities!

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  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    I've always been big and it never hindered me from dating and/or sleeping with hot guys.
  • edup1975
    edup1975 Posts: 486 Member
    Big Women need loving too
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Jvonnelh wrote: »
    Why are big men known as teddy bears but big women are known as fat!? I'm so tired of being single and lonely. When I meet a guy they almost always say...you're smile is beautiful but you're not what I'm looking for! I know I will find true love again someday!!!

    Rant over....you can return to your regular activities!

    ... I dunno

    I think you're pretty just the way you are.

    * shrug
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    Jvonnelh wrote: »
    Why are big men known as teddy bears but big women are known as fat!?

    Less hair imo.
  • Jvonnelh
    Jvonnelh Posts: 33 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Jvonnelh wrote: »
    Why are big men known as teddy bears but big women are known as fat!? I'm so tired of being single and lonely. When I meet a guy they almost always say...you're smile is beautiful but you're not what I'm looking for! I know I will find true love again someday!!!

    Rant over....you can return to your regular activities!

    ... I dunno

    I think you're pretty just the way you are.

    * shrug

    Well thank you!
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    I agree with a poster above that said you need to be comfortable in your own skin. Confidence is attractive. If guys tell you you’re not what they’re looking for then those guys are not worthy of you. Don’t focus so much on “finding true love” let it find you. You have to love yourself first and foremost.
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    Men won't like you just the way you are if YOU don't like you just the way you are. Confidence is key. Men can smell insecurity like a fart in a car.

  • cliftonmartland
    cliftonmartland Posts: 10 Member
    from a man's point of view men tend to be quite shallow and superficial. It is the way of the world unfortunately but there are good men out there but they tend to be either shy or taken. Most good men are attracted to a nice smile and easy conversation. I makes them feel comfortable and allows them to open up and be natural rather than trying to impress or force conversation. Rather than meeting someone via a date maybe try meeting someone through the things you are interested in or through friend groups and get to know them a little first. Meeting cold can be very stressful and unatural; I think if you meet through a common source you are half way there. You have a lovely smile and kind eyes so i think the right man will see past any insecurities youhave about yourself and see you for who you are. Shallow men will always hurt you or anyone they come into contact with regarding relationships. Stay strong and be optimistic.
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    I've always been big and it never hindered me from dating and/or sleeping with hot guys.

    just so you know "most" guys will sleep with anyone so don't feel too good about what you are bragging about.... Just saying.

    this. they don't care who it is...just wanna get that d wet.
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  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    I've always been big and it never hindered me from dating and/or sleeping with hot guys.

    just so you know "most" guys will sleep with anyone so don't feel too good about what you are bragging about.... Just saying.

    this. they don't care who it is...just wanna get that d wet.

    Truth. If you've got a hole, you can get it filled.

    yup!

    and if you're feeling adventurous, you can get all three holes filled at the same time :wink:
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    138shades wrote: »
    I've always been big and it never hindered me from dating and/or sleeping with hot guys.

    just so you know "most" guys will sleep with anyone so don't feel too good about what you are bragging about.... Just saying.

    this. they don't care who it is...just wanna get that d wet.

    Truth. If you've got a hole, you can get it filled.

    yup!

    and if you're feeling adventurous, you can get all three holes filled at the same time :wink:

    oh my goodness....
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    Jvonnelh wrote: »
    Why are big men known as teddy bears but big women are known as fat!? I'm so tired of being single and lonely. When I meet a guy they almost always say...you're smile is beautiful but you're not what I'm looking for! I know I will find true love again someday!!!

    Rant over....you can return to your regular activities!

    This used to be me, by the way. Then I came here to MFP and lost a bunch of weight and now I'm meeting men all over the place and getting dates left & right.

    We do live in a shallow world, so if you don't like where your weight is, you can always change it :smiley:
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Jvonnelh wrote: »
    Why are big men known as teddy bears but big women are known as fat!? I'm so tired of being single and lonely. When I meet a guy they almost always say...you're smile is beautiful but you're not what I'm looking for! I know I will find true love again someday!!!

    Rant over....you can return to your regular activities!

    [so if you don't like where your weight is, you can always change it

    trooth.

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