I hate my salad!

BrunetteRunner87
BrunetteRunner87 Posts: 591 Member
edited November 13 in Food and Nutrition
I made salads for my lunches this week on Sunday. Yesterday's was good but today it was so hard to eat, I hated it. I want spaghetti, macaroni and cheese, peanut butter and jelly, buttered toast, kit kat bars... I'm trying so hard to hold out till the end of the day! I know they are just cravings and I'm not hungry but it's bad today. What do you do to fight cravings? I want to go home and curl up in bed.
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  • SuzySunshine99
    SuzySunshine99 Posts: 2,989 Member
    I drink tea to help with cravings. Flavored tea in particular works for me...vanilla or peach flavored black tea can taste like a nice treat.
  • kschwab0203
    kschwab0203 Posts: 610 Member
    Sometimes chugging a bottle of water and waiting it out helps for me.
  • fitmom4lifemfp
    fitmom4lifemfp Posts: 1,572 Member
    Can't help ya. I love my salads. :#
  • comptonelizabeth
    comptonelizabeth Posts: 1,701 Member
    Water helps me.
    I actually crave salad,fresh fruit etc because I can't eat it - or not much of it - because of a bowel disorder. We always crave things we can't have :(
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    3 months into MFP, from a Rawtarian diet/lifestyle, SideSteel (Eat Train Progress Group), advised me to aim for 220 calories per meal, until I'd met my calories (including at least 50% of exercise calories). Unlike you, I was trying to eat normal food which was difficult for me to do. It made me feel gross.

    Is there a reason behind the salads? Why can't you fit some of the foods you crave into your eating plan?
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    What was in your salad?
    Maybe you need more protein and fats and should choose that type of food for a snack.

    I'd eat something if I was really hungry.
  • benmsnyder4407
    benmsnyder4407 Posts: 1 Member
    edited November 2016
    Crappy salad is crappy. I like to put beans and nuts on my salad, but I don't know if that will work for you. The fiber in beans and a little fat/carbs from the nuts seems to really help. You could also drink a fiber supplement a little before lunch. Something like Metamucil has almost no calories but the fiber makes you feel full and satisfied, plus it's good for your heart, and you know, digestion. :)
  • Maybe turn your salads into sandwiches? Have a salad or cup of soup on the side. I like to do salads with no lettuce. Cucumbers, tomatoes, cheese, maybe a chopped boiled egg, avocado, chopped meat of what ever kind, sunflower seeds, dried cranberries, bell peppers, olives or what ever other vegetables, meats etc.... you like with the salad dressing of your choosing. It makes a much better salad in my opinion. Much more filling and better than chewing lettuce. I understand avoiding certain foods until dinner. If I had something like lasagna for lunch I would stuff my face with it and never lose a pound.
  • PennWalker
    PennWalker Posts: 554 Member
    I made salads for my lunches this week on Sunday. Yesterday's was good but today it was so hard to eat, I hated it. I want spaghetti, macaroni and cheese, peanut butter and jelly, buttered toast, kit kat bars... I'm trying so hard to hold out till the end of the day! I know they are just cravings and I'm not hungry but it's bad today. What do you do to fight cravings? I want to go home and curl up in bed.

    Are you getting enough fat in your diet? I add some avocado and almonds to salads, which helps me with cravings.

  • kimny72
    kimny72 Posts: 16,011 Member
    johunt615 wrote: »
    I'd have a small portion of spaghetti with a big salad. Have a pb&j sandwich with an apple or banana.

    Not cutting out food I love has made this sustainable for me to stick to and will make maintenance so much easier!

    Eat what you love keep it in your calorie goal or make lower calorie versions.

    This is pretty much exactly what I was going to say.

    Also, what's in your salad? Is it really a complete meal? Is there something you could add to it that would make it less sad? I have to have some grilled chicken and/or chickpeas in my salad, and I usually have a string cheese or a hardboiled egg on the side too. Plus lots of different crunchy veggies!
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    I don't restrict things I want as long as I hit my minimum macros.

    What is your weight loss goal?
  • Wiggymommy
    Wiggymommy Posts: 106 Member
    I agree with the poster about more protein and fats. I purposely keep my carbs a little lower so I can have more protein and fat. I lose just the same and I don't get all the cravings. Other posters are right about moderation to. Smaller of what you want would work too. You just have to figure out what works best for you and your goals macros etc
  • crzycatlady1
    crzycatlady1 Posts: 1,930 Member
    johunt615 wrote: »
    I'd have a small portion of spaghetti with a big salad. Have a pb&j sandwich with an apple or banana.

    Not cutting out food I love has made this sustainable for me to stick to and will make maintenance so much easier!

    Eat what you love keep it in your calorie goal or make lower calorie versions.

    This. No need to cut out any of the things you want, you just need to learn how to fit them in with your calorie goals. Pre-planning your day, following correct servings sizes (with a food scale, set to grams), and then accurately and honestly tracking your calorie intake can help you fit in all the foods you love, Kit Kat bar included :)
  • HeidiCooksSupper
    HeidiCooksSupper Posts: 3,839 Member
    I'm not really crazy about raw veg. Maybe you should forget the salads and figure other ways to get your veggies in. Cooked fresh and frozen veg can be delicious. You can also incorporate them into other dishes. I don't worry about veggies early in the day but try to include a lot of them in supper. This helps avoid the I-only-had-a-salad-for-lunch-and-I-want-to-eat-the-drapes cravings.
  • katthouse499
    katthouse499 Posts: 50 Member
    edited November 2016
    Make it into toco salad just do up your salad and add your lean ground beef chicken or turkey with seasoning mix and salsa Top with fat free sour cream or cottage cheese and a sprinkle of grated cheese
  • janetennet
    janetennet Posts: 143 Member
    So OP, what was in your salad?
    I find that I cannot bulk make salads for the week - the lettuce and cucumber go goopy and that puts me off :(
    So I make a salad every night and by doing this each one is slightly different, some of my favorite salad ingredients are;
    - roasted butternut squash (add feta, lentils and some Omega 3 seed mix in the salad too!),
    - Beans, chickpeas and lentils,
    - Roast chicken
    - Hummus - used as a dressing
    - bacon bits (yaaassss!!!)
    - mini pork sausages - add some chutney as dressing)
    - Roasted vegetables (butternut, potato, sweet potato, peppers, carrots, broccoli, cauliflower, green beans)
    - Avo (yaaasssssss!!)
    - Cheese - feta, cheddar, blue, brie
    - cranberries and nuts
    - jullienne carrots/ zucchini
    - Protein - beef strips/ chicken pieces/ vegetarian schnitzels, fish cutlets)

    I also find that I have to have a nice dressing on the salad otherwise it's pretty - blah! So make sure you are choosing a dressing that you like.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    i get bored of salad, so usually only have it once a week.

    sounds like you need to mix it up a bit more!
  • kommodevaran
    kommodevaran Posts: 17,890 Member
    You aren't weak, you need variety. And fresh food.
  • Karb_Kween
    Karb_Kween Posts: 2,681 Member
    Try a Lean Cuisine spaghetti
  • futuresize8
    futuresize8 Posts: 476 Member
    gotta jazz up that sad salad! A few pine nuts or sunflower seeds, a couple croutons, a seasoned tuna packet or a REALLY good low cal dressing (check out some of the honey mustard or Asian variety recipes online - way better than the packaged stuff or Makoto if you do buy packaged...it's delicious!) will make you happier! Or, make a nice pasta salad and add a half cup to your lettuce salad...a little bit of the best of both worlds! If I deprive myself completely, I fail. You can do it!
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    I love salad, but not every salad. When I make a salad, I make sure it is one I will really enjoy, or why eat it? So I wonder if maybe you didn't consider taste preferences when making that salad.

    Also, if you are focusing on what you can't eat and not the delicious things you are eating, I wonder if you are unnecessarily cutting out things and seeing dieting about no longer enjoying food and being restrictive. That's not a sustainable approach for most. I eat mostly foods I consider helathful (and a diet I believe is), but I eat foods I enjoy and make sure I prepare them in ways that will be delicious.

    Of the things you say you are missing, why not have a spaghetti or pasta based meal? You can have it with a salad, as others noted, and just not overdo the amount of pasta or the cheese. Or, what I do (and I like this much more than a traditional spaghetti meal) is make pasta and then make a topping by sauteeing in olive oil with garlic some lean meat (shrimp is great), lots of vegetables, and maybe something extra like olives or pinenuts (or instead I'll add in a bit of feta cheese or some other strong tasting cheese) at the end to the pasta.

    Peanut butter and jelly can similarly fit into a lower cal, healthful plan -- limit the amount of peanut butter and jelly you use (log them), try whole grain bread, have maybe half a sandwich and some soup with protein and lots of veg or (again) a salad. Ideas like that.

    Kit kats come in small sizes, if you really love them have one as a snack at the end of dinner, perhaps -- log it and make sure you have the calories.

    But to answer the question about cravings--if you are just starting, they will get better. What helped me was to stick to a set eating schedule, remember I'd be eating food I enjoyed soon, so could wait, and if there were particular tastes I really wanted (like for example, buffalo chicken), I might think of a way to include them in an upcoming meal in a lower cal way -- that often made it fun, as well as satisfying. Knowing that the food I ate could also be enjoyable and having meals that were satisfying (a mix of fat, carbs, and protein, and lots of veg for bulk and also because veg are delicious) helped with all this.
  • rainbowbow
    rainbowbow Posts: 7,490 Member
    If you don't like your salads.. why force yourself to eat them?

    I don't know about you but i like to eat something hot for lunch. Maybe next week you can meal prep foods you actually want to eat and give yourself enough calories for a little mini kit kat as a snack.
  • brentfostwood904
    brentfostwood904 Posts: 51 Member
    These are all the tips I know of which I think can help:
    1.Make a big pot of vegetable soup, something like 5 servings (bowls) worth of soup. If you use vegetables with not so many calories in them to make the soup you can pretty much eat as much of the soup as you want all day and you'll even feel full from it. I think this is the best weight loss tip, because rather than starving yourself, you can actually fill yourself up from foods which are not calorie dense, whilst not eating too many calories in the day.
    2. Freeze something like some orange juice, then you can eat it slowly, it takes a long time to eat and you feel like youve been eating for ages when youve not actually eaten that much. Feeling like youve been eating for a long time seems to satiate hunger, even if youve been eating something difficult to eat and so you didnt consume so many calories in that time. Having chewing gum can also make you feel like youve been eating for a long time when actually you havent.
    3. Make sure to drink enough because often you can confuse being hungry with actually being thirsty.
    4. Having vitamin pills can help or just make sure you get enough micronutrients from your diet, e.g. maybe on a diet you dont eat enough calcium and you just end up craving cheese. When really your body just wanted some calcium
    5. Make sure you get enough macronutrients too, because maybe you have cravings for fatty or sugary foods from not eating enough fat or carbohydrates. When you are deficient in something your body tends to cry out for the most unhealthy version. For example if you dont eat for a whole day you will probably be craving really calorie dense foods like a pizza, cream, some cheese.. you wont be craving a salad or something like this. But you know that if you did really eat all the things you are craving you'd probably feel sick after eating not so much of it. So you can not let your bodys cravings trick you. By this I mean if your body is crying out for something really fatty, like cheese, instead of eating cheese you could have some nuts instead, if your body is craving carbohydrates like a sugary drink you could have some brown rice instead.. something like this. So even though your body is crying out for a more unhealthy food version, it will actually be satisfied when you give it the right macronutrients that it wanted.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
    I made salads for my lunches this week on Sunday. Yesterday's was good but today it was so hard to eat, I hated it. I want spaghetti, macaroni and cheese, peanut butter and jelly, buttered toast, kit kat bars... I'm trying so hard to hold out till the end of the day! I know they are just cravings and I'm not hungry but it's bad today. What do you do to fight cravings? I want to go home and curl up in bed.

    I eat something other than salad every day. I like the occasional salad but I would be so sad if I had to eat one every day. Today for lunch I'm having brussel sprouts w kielbasa (leftovers from last night's dinner). Yesterday I had split pea and pork chop soup. The day before that I had leftover red beans and rice. I'm not into food prep so I usually just eat leftovers for lunch.

    Oh, and if you are a pasta lover I strongly recommend checking out Fiber Gourmet pasta (1/2 the calories of regular). http://www.fibergourmet.com/

  • kristikitter
    kristikitter Posts: 602 Member
    Add salmon and goats' cheese. Filling and bloody delicious.
  • BootyShakingBadAss
    BootyShakingBadAss Posts: 350 Member
    Maybe turn your salads into sandwiches? Have a salad or cup of soup on the side. I like to do salads with no lettuce. Cucumbers, tomatoes, cheese, maybe a chopped boiled egg, avocado, chopped meat of what ever kind, sunflower seeds, dried cranberries, bell peppers, olives or what ever other vegetables, meats etc.... you like with the salad dressing of your choosing. It makes a much better salad in my opinion. Much more filling and better than chewing lettuce. I understand avoiding certain foods until dinner. If I had something like lasagna for lunch I would stuff my face with it and never lose a pound.

    I thought I was the only one who did this!!!! People always make fun of me because I use cucumbers as the base of my salad instead of lettuce! It is SO much better!!!
  • not_my_first_rodeo
    not_my_first_rodeo Posts: 311 Member
    I make sure I have protein on my salads. If I don't, they are accompaniments and not the main dish. So for example, I might still have mac and cheese (lately been doing cauliflower cheese) or spaghetti, but there's a side salad. I just make sure the portions of the main dishes are appropriate and the salad is there to help keep me feeling full and also so I get the nutrients I need.
  • Spliner1969
    Spliner1969 Posts: 3,233 Member
    Stop eating salads and start practicing flexible dieting. I have used IIFYM.com's calculator for over 1.5 years now, and integrate it's macros and calorie settings into MFP and eat what I want, within reason as long as it fits my macros. I do eat the occasional salad, only because I want to though.
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