How to deal
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However that guy you were messing with had to deal with you telling him he's one of three and you aren't interested in being serious with him.
Was he the one who ghosted you?
Sometimes people who ghost you are depressed and withdraw from a lot of people not just you.0 -
Were you sick on him?1
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Time heals all wounds...but you gotta' do you and not worry about how the other person is doing.0
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I think he could still care about you but not know how to end things or just didn't have enough balls to even text you. Breaking up is never easy. Or idk maybe he's dead? Covers all the bases there.1
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He might have been in accident.. I might call the hospitals/family/work..
But if you know you have really been ghosted, the option is to scream, cry, laugh, kick something.. Later on after calming down, I might eat and drink something in his honor and thank him for saving you time to find someone else.
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I was recently ghosted by a friend. It pissed me off, but in time, I realized that it really has nothing to do with ME and everything to do with THEM as the ghosting is their action. It's an odd feeling, thinking you've been tricked or lied to the entire time, when in actuality, it was just that they were unable to be an honest adult. From what I understand, I'm not the only one.2
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If he they have definitely ghosted you then treat it like a break up.
Do not chase after them accept that they have made their decision.
Give yourself 2 or 3 days to cry and be sad, then be angry, it is ok to be upset.
Then box up (or archive messages) anything he has given you and to remove it from your sight.
Reach out to your friends or family, they can be a wonderful support network at times like this.
Don't watch sad/romantic films it will just make you cry again. Watch something funny.
Delete them from social media and all your devices.
Move on with your life but be aware you are in a vulnerable state and don't get involved with anyone else too soon.
Most importantly, don't assume that it is your fault. The chances are they just didn't know how to tell you it was over and ghosting seemed easier and it was.......for them.
Finally, forgive them, if you keep bearing a grudge and keep re-hashing those negative feelings you are just inviting them to move in to your head and you don't need that as it will tarnish future relationships.
Sorry you are going through this but it will get better0 -
manderson27 wrote: »If he they have definitely ghosted you then treat it like a break up.
Do not chase after them accept that they have made their decision.
Give yourself 2 or 3 days to cry and be sad, then be angry, it is ok to be upset.
Then box up (or archive messages) anything he has given you and to remove it from your sight.
Reach out to your friends or family, they can be a wonderful support network at times like this.
Don't watch sad/romantic films it will just make you cry again. Watch something funny.
Delete them from social media and all your devices.
Move on with your life but be aware you are in a vulnerable state and don't get involved with anyone else too soon.
Most importantly, don't assume that it is your fault. The chances are they just didn't know how to tell you it was over and ghosting seemed easier and it was.......for them.
Finally, forgive them, if you keep bearing a grudge and keep re-hashing those negative feelings you are just inviting them to move in to your head and you don't need that as it will tarnish future relationships.
Sorry you are going through this but it will get better
Friend request sent. Such a wise answer.0 -
Not enough information to tell...
How well did you know each other?
If not very well, some people just find it easier to disappear rather than be honest. I'm not saying it's right, but that's what they do.
If you knew each other well, one of two things - something may have happened to them, or they are a coward.0 -
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Not enough information to tell...
How well did you know each other?
If not very well, some people just find it easier to disappear rather than be honest. I'm not saying it's right, but that's what they do.
If you knew each other well, one of two things - something may have happened to them, or they are a coward.
This.
I have to admit I have been guilty of as you call it "ghosting" someone, but I didn't really know them long and didn't feel that I owed an explanation. Plus it would have been weird.
Do you know each other long? How serious was the relationship?0 -
Just find someone new. * shrug
Why waste any amount of energy on a complete *kitten*?
I consider myself an authority on this... because, well I'm a complete *kitten* too.
I know how we think and how narcissistic we really are.
He's just on to the next.
Why not you too?
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Just move on
Keep dating ten people and forget they existed0 -
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