The Odd Mystery of Maintenance (for me, at least!)

CMNVA
CMNVA Posts: 733 Member
edited November 14 in Health and Weight Loss
So, I finally reached my goal a few weeks ago. Actually, I went below my goal. Started out and 1200 calories, upped it to about 1400 and after 3 months, I lost about 16 lbs. I was shooting for 12 lbs.

I posted here about going into maintenance and being nervous because adding calories back in is just a slippery slope for me, but I increased to 1600 calories a day. I will say that I have had a bit of a hard time working that as I've gotten used to small meals, so I have been adding in more snacks to reach the 1600. In between that, I did have a meal I couldn't track at all (high end French restaurant) as well as a Five Guys hamburger meal that was about 1,000 calories for the meal, and some other things. So I've definitely had at least 3 days that were a bit over.

Anyway, I'm still losing weight. Not a lot, but I'm not maintaining. My body seems to do this each time. Very tough to initially lose and then it's like my body goes into overdrive and it's too much.

The mystery for me: I started out trying to lose on 1600 calories but nothing happened. So why am I losing now on it? I'm lighter, my TDEE has got to be lower. It's just odd.

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  • JustSomeEm
    JustSomeEm Posts: 20,269 MFP Moderator
    How accurate were you being when you were on 1600 calories previously? I was very sloppy with my diary early on (i.e. I did a lot of guestimates), but as I stuck with it, I got more consistent and more accurate (even actually measuring my food sometimes). Could that be why the difference?
  • vespiquenn
    vespiquenn Posts: 1,455 Member
    edited December 2016
    If you are still losing, all it means is that you are still in a deficit. So it's not really strange or odd. It's possible your logging is more accurate the second time around or your TDEE has increased in some fashion due to more movement. Rather than over complicate things, just continue to add 50-100 calories until you no longer are losing.
  • CMNVA
    CMNVA Posts: 733 Member
    JustSomeEm wrote: »
    How accurate were you being when you were on 1600 calories previously? I was very sloppy with my diary early on (i.e. I did a lot of guestimates), but as I stuck with it, I got more consistent and more accurate (even actually measuring my food sometimes). Could that be why the difference?

    It could be, I suppose, but I consider myself pretty methodical. This has happened a number of times, not just this go at weight loss. It just seems to take weeks for my body to let go of weight and start (even at 1200 calories). Once it starts, it sort of goes rapidly.
  • CMNVA
    CMNVA Posts: 733 Member
    vespiquenn wrote: »
    If you are still losing, all it means is that you are still in a deficit. So it's not really strange or odd. It's possible your logging is more accurate the second time around or your TDEE has increased in some fashion due to more movement. Rather than over complicate things, just continue to add 50-100 calories until you no longer are losing.

    Agreed that I'm still in a deficit, but just confused why I couldn't lose on 1600 before. Obviously something has changed. I'm probably a bit more active. I need to get used to 1600 calories though before I increase again. I know this not a "bad" problem to have, but my feelings of fullness happen very quickly now versus before when I felt like a bottomless pit!!! Well, between my Christmas Eve/Christmas Day meals, I should make some progress there.
  • sijomial
    sijomial Posts: 19,809 Member
    I wonder if when you REDUCED to 1600 you subconsciously down-regulated your activity (less small movements, more time sitting still, different everyday choices like stairs or lifts/elevators, gardening or TV).

    Then when you INCREASE to 1600 after a period of restriction all those little bits and pieces we do when we feel energetic / fully fuelled add up to enough of a difference to change your energy needs.

    A change in CI altering your CO enough to change the calorie balance point.
  • CaptainJoy
    CaptainJoy Posts: 257 Member
    I have had this same problem for the past few months. I was actually worried I was sick, like I had cancer or something. No, I'm fine but I'm moving more and standing more than I was before. I've been to the grocery store and mall more than normal. Lots of walking that isn't normally considered exercise. I've also been bouncing around and shivering more when I'm outside. It's been pretty cold lately. That can really increase my TDEE. I'm keeping an eye on the scale but enjoying the extra calories and opportunities to eat out with friends. When I slow down I'll likely have to eat fewer calories but for now I'm thankful that I can fully enjoy the holiday season.
  • CMNVA
    CMNVA Posts: 733 Member
    CaptainJoy wrote: »
    I have had this same problem for the past few months. I was actually worried I was sick, like I had cancer or something. No, I'm fine but I'm moving more and standing more than I was before. I've been to the grocery store and mall more than normal. Lots of walking that isn't normally considered exercise. I've also been bouncing around and shivering more when I'm outside. It's been pretty cold lately. That can really increase my TDEE. I'm keeping an eye on the scale but enjoying the extra calories and opportunities to eat out with friends. When I slow down I'll likely have to eat fewer calories but for now I'm thankful that I can fully enjoy the holiday season.

    Your post made me laugh!!! The part of worrying you were sick. I had the same thoughts go through my mind. The weight loss at 1600 almost seems "unexplained" to me and kind of rapid. I started thinking, OMG, something is wrong with me. This has happened to me before though. When I got scared before, I then started overeating to see if I could get the weight loss to stop. Um, yes I could, and gained it all back!! I'm determined not to let that happen again.
  • Docbanana2002
    Docbanana2002 Posts: 357 Member
    edited December 2016
    You can do the math yourself if you collected more precise records, but just doing a rough estimate: if you lost 16 pounds in 3 months while eating 1400 calories, then your loss rate was about 1.23 per week (16 pounds/ 13 weeks = 1.23 lbs per week). 1.23 pounds x 3500 calories per pound = a 4307 deficit each week. 4307 deficit per week / 7 days = 615 calorie deficit you were running each day. 1400 calorie goal + 615 deficit = 2015 calories for maintenance. Yes, this TDEE estimate is the average over your whole weight loss and so the current number will be on the low side of that average unless your activity level has increased during your weight loss as some people have mentioned.

    My guess is that you'll have to get up to 1900ish before the weight loss stops. You can hone in more carefully on that number by doing what I just did using very current data (like from the last 6-8 weeks) and of course by adding calories slowly and watching the results. I also think that clearly you could have lost on 1600 at the beginning of your diet but you got a little impatient and worried that it wasn't working when your body kept holding on as you say it does. By the time you gave up on 1600 and dropped to 1400, your body was (by coincidence) ready for a "whoosh" so you thought that was what caused it. But really it was working all along. Just my guess.

    As for why your body stalls at first, who knows exactly? I've heard of many people having that. Didn't happen to me, but I did stall occasionally for month-long periods every few months during my 100 pound loss even though I was still eating at a deficit. As long as I stayed the course I ended up having a huge loss within a few weeks that made up for the plateau. My hypothesis is/was that I was continually losing fat during that stalled period but some other thing that affected my weight (water retention, muscle, hormones, fiber intake, carb intake, sodium intake) was going up at the same time and obscuring the loss. Usually the stalls came when I made changes to my diet or exercise routine. For example, when transitioning my diet to vegan (my fiber intake was increased and I think my intestines were "gaining weight" due to the extra fiber and water), and while ramping up my exercise to run a 10k (I was maybe retaining water for muscle repairs and also from eating more calories due to increased TDEE even though net calories stayed the same). Maybe something like this happens with you? Maybe you don't just reduce your calories at the start of a diet while living exactly the same otherwise? But instead also change many other things that can cause temporary water weight spikes, such as more fiber or water or carbs or workouts or whatever? Maybe some hormone goes wacky for a while? Once your fat loss gets big enough that it is greater than the water gain (and/or your body lets go of the water), the fat loss starts to show up on the scale.
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