Looking good?? How about better??

I have been overweight my entire life..in the past two years I have got myself into the obese category n have been STRUGGLING to get back to my usual self, the overweight category...yes Im not even aiming about getting to a healthier place but just wanted to get back to overweight...i always feel good when I dress up, a new dress n some makeup n i actually think i look good...I dont see a fat person in d mirror...i dont think its a problem being overweight...yes, Im educated..yes I read a ton of stuff & well aware of the benefits of being a healthier person...n that Im starting to think is the biggest problem...Im not getting there because I dont want to...may be I shd train my brain to think Im overweight n get from there....then again I think if I do that, it wud just make me lose my self confidence, self esteem n all that...may be thts jus my excuse..wht y'all think?
May be its not just me...we overweight ppl need to hear it straight..u may hear ppl telling u look good..u may think u look good but dont forget , if u lose all those weight u r just going to look better?!?!

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  • BSdevon
    BSdevon Posts: 77
    If your happy with your image now then carry on living your life. Its easy saying this but it really doesn't matter about third party opinions. If you feel you need a change, re-evaluate your current state. If you're not happy , then You will have to act on it.
    Beauty is subjective.. So If you feel Beautiful then live your life how you want to.