Upset and need some kind words to offset horrible morning

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  • elphie754
    elphie754 Posts: 7,574 Member
    ddeliciosa wrote: »
    Man! Who says that to pregnant lady? I don't care what size you are, it should never be brought up unless it's a concern from your doctor. It sounds like she constantly spews a lot of negativity towards you. Just know that's HER crappy projection of herself, and not you. This a monumental moment in your life and you shouldn't let anyone who doesn't lift you up have a say in your wellbeing. Wishing you and the baby the best!

    Aww thank you. I'm giving her a little leway with her comments because she has never been pregnant (fertility issues, my brother and I were adopted from birth) so I know she doesnt quite inderstand why what she says bothers me so much. Because of that, I have been trying to include her as much as possible in some of the OB things (like inviting her to the anatomy scan ultra sound).i know it gets to her thatim constantly talking to my aunt about pregnancy related issues and how to handle them, rather than her.

    But still, sometime her voomenta make me want to scream.
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
    Well she doesn't respect your boundaries. What are you going to do?
  • elphie754
    elphie754 Posts: 7,574 Member
    Chef_Barbell wrote: »
    Well she doesn't respect your boundaries. What are you going to do?

    She may not respect our boundaries, but right now they are also giving us a huge break on rent. (They own the co-op we live in) and has been helping us out financially right (they bought all the big baby stuff) so as my Dominant SO said, I need to just suck it up for now.
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