You're worst dating nightmare...
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When the woman started farting and scratching her rear, i realized something was not good so I told her I wasn't feeling well and called her a cab.2
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He tried to burp the alphabet, I asked him not to, and threw up at letter E. I got up and walked away, never spoke to him again.8
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I tried online dating when I was 19. After talking to a guy for a month we agreed to meet up at a bowling alley for a date. I asked a guy who was a good friend of mine to go with me just in case he turned out to be a creep.
I'm so glad I did because when I showed up to the bowling alley he had two other guys with him. On top of that, his profile must have been from several years ago because he didn't look nearly as attractive. We played a couple of games with them and made an excuse that I had to be at work early the next day. If I would have went by myself, I'm positive I would have been raped. It scared the hell out of me and I never went on another online date again.5 -
I was a worst nightmare once. I was new to the area and didn't have my internet so I said, "Hey let's go to this place" and she was probably just being polite and said OK.
Long story short it ended up being a *kitten* chain restaurant (think run down Appleby's) and there was some kind of Shriner's meeting going on at the same time.
I was kind of young and dumb at the time, so I didn't think on my feet and say "Hey you know what? This isn't what I had in mind do you mind if we find somewhere else really quick?"
We talked a few times after that, but nothing ever came out of it.
Live and learn.1 -
You all had such funny experiences
I'm kinda jealous how much amusement you had but I know I shouldn't be! 0 -
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LittleHearseDriver- I'm so sorry it must've been so scary, I'm glad you had someone with you, I hope you meet someone you deserve if not already
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Carillon_Campanello M- I agree that sometimes it happens cos of lack of experience but sometimes it's kinda obvious from the beginning that this isn't gonna end well in all probabilities! 0
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We were still getting to know each other. First date he took me on was to this Mexican restaurant. One of the waitresses turned out to be his ex! She took a break and basically joined us for dinner to catch up with him. She was really sweet, and they both tried to include me in the conversation, but come on SERIOUSLY???! I was so pissed on the way home. Took me everything to not cry and yell at him. We ended up dating for almost a year lol stupid me2
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juliak2010- I'm sure she has been SWEET! So F***G unbelievable, I really admire your self-control and really sorry you had such pressure. I was reading your first three lines and I was like SERIOUSLY?! I'm still wondering how dare she joined you two?! I mean I really get how frustrated you must've been! SERIOUSLY?! If I were you, I would have asked to be excused to use the bathroom and then walked away you were very strong sure thing I mean it. 1
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He threw himself on top of me in the front seat of the car after a very civilized and polite dinner, abruptly and without warning. He then pinned my head down with one hand, gagged me with his tongue, suffocated me with the weight of his body, and crammed his other hand down my shirt and into my pants. The graphic details are probably easy to guess. When I was able to wrench my head away and get his tongue out of my mouth, I screamed for him to STOP! STOP! He heard the panic in my voice.
He backed off but prevented me from getting out of the car when I reached for the door handle. He insisted on driving me home. He did, and let me out in front of my building without further incident.
If I were to start "dating" again, which is doubtful, it would take months of trust building before I would get in a car with my "date".
This happened in my thirties. I had a similar event happen in my 20s. It won't be happening a third time. I pick the most wretched creatures for dating. Broken filter it seems
I'm so sorry you had such an experience. I had something similar happen to me. Though it wasn't his mouth he was trying to force me on.0 -
Likewise.
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juliak2010- I'm sure she has been SWEET! So F***G unbelievable, I really admire your self-control and really sorry you had such pressure. I was reading your first three lines and I was like SERIOUSLY?! I'm still wondering how dare she joined you two?! I mean I really get how frustrated you must've been! SERIOUSLY?! If I were you, I would have asked to be excused to use the bathroom and then walked away you were very strong sure thing I mean it.
Thank you! Well, at the time I was crazy about him and I was mad that she interrupted our date. Later on after we broke up I realized how messed up it was. He should of excused her since we were on a date. But oh well...
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Broomstick_Boo wrote: »He threw himself on top of me in the front seat of the car after a very civilized and polite dinner, abruptly and without warning. He then pinned my head down with one hand, gagged me with his tongue, suffocated me with the weight of his body, and crammed his other hand down my shirt and into my pants. The graphic details are probably easy to guess. When I was able to wrench my head away and get his tongue out of my mouth, I screamed for him to STOP! STOP! He heard the panic in my voice.
He backed off but prevented me from getting out of the car when I reached for the door handle. He insisted on driving me home. He did, and let me out in front of my building without further incident.
If I were to start "dating" again, which is doubtful, it would take months of trust building before I would get in a car with my "date".
This happened in my thirties. I had a similar event happen in my 20s. It won't be happening a third time. I pick the most wretched creatures for dating. Broken filter it seems
I'm so sorry you had such an experience. I had something similar happen to me. Though it wasn't his mouth he was trying to force me on.
It's an ugly world we live in. I'm sorry for what happened to you too. Much love sent
I'm so very sorry to hear what happened to you both, I believe you've been very strong to be able to even talk about it and I'm sure it'll be very difficult to move on, but yet you have proved to be a survivor. I'm so proud of you both. Wish you all the best there is1 -
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@DrMercury & @LittleHearseDriver
That's very kind. For myself, I'm grateful that I was able to get the *kitten* out of there before something worse happened. I've had other family members that weren't so lucky.0 -
juliak2010 wrote: »juliak2010- I'm sure she has been SWEET! So F***G unbelievable, I really admire your self-control and really sorry you had such pressure. I was reading your first three lines and I was like SERIOUSLY?! I'm still wondering how dare she joined you two?! I mean I really get how frustrated you must've been! SERIOUSLY?! If I were you, I would have asked to be excused to use the bathroom and then walked away you were very strong sure thing I mean it.
Thank you! Well, at the time I was crazy about him and I was mad that she interrupted our date. Later on after we broke up I realized how messed up it was. He should of excused her since we were on a date. But oh well...
I know you're absolutely right and that reason he had been a coward if I may say. I had similar experiences with a narcissist and I couldn't even show any sign of objection or I wasn't the cool girl any longer!
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A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.2 -
AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.
I'm so relieved you escaped him. Very scary.1 -
AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.
Oh my f...g g! You sure did the best thing especially when you started to run. Seriously, he sounded as if he'd got something seriously wrong with his entire brain!
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AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.
Oh my f...g g! You sure did the best thing especially when you started to run. Seriously, he sounded as if he'd got something seriously wrong with his entire brain!
He was a complete whack job. Without a doubt there were some screws loose. 0 -
AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »A guy I met online lived across town and he picked me up for a 2nd or 3rd date and we went back to his house to make me dinner and have drinks and play pool. I don't remember the specifics of what happened, but he got unreasonably mad at something I said (like a gentle ribbing about a goofy face he pulled, something innocuous) and he started yelling in my face. I said I wanted to leave, and he refused to take me home. (I lived like 30 miles away.)
Just wanting to get away, I gathered my purse and went to leave anyway. HE BLOCKED THE DOOR, wedging his boot in the doorjamb. I pulled out my phone and threatened to call the cops if he didn't gtfo of my way. He snarled at me to get out, he never liked me anyway, good riddance you stupid beyotch, etc. As I walked out four seconds later, he begged "wait, don't go! I'm sorry! I'll drive you home!" Not a chance, looney. Then he switched gears again: "Fine, you horrible ****! GET OUT! Leave!" I kept walking and didn't look back. The last I heard was, "Please come back! I love you!"
I started to run.
Oh my f...g g! You sure did the best thing especially when you started to run. Seriously, he sounded as if he'd got something seriously wrong with his entire brain!
He was a complete whack job. Without a doubt there were some screws loose.
lol, I doubt if the screws were there!
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Ok in the interest of fairness, here's ME being someone ELSE'S dating nightmare. Strap in!
*This was many years ago, when I was horrible and selfish and narcissistic and spoiled. I've changed a lot and I'm a lot nicer, now. LOL*
I was friends with a guy that desperately wanted to date me, and I friend-zoned him HARD. He had money and he was entertaining, so I kept him dangling for months.
We went on a trip and he booked us a room at the swankiest hotel in San Francisco for New Year's Eve, complete with a lobster and champagne dinner and a tickets to the NYE party in the hotel's ballroom. At dinner, he presented me with a pair of diamond solitaire earrings and formally asked me to be his girlfriend. I was not feeling it at all, he meant very little me, romantically.
So I did the only thing a respectable girl would do: took the earrings, gave him a noncommittal answer like "I'll think about it", got rip-roaring drunk at the open bar in the ballroom, made out with a different random guy right as the ball dropped when my date went to go find his coat, puked all over the carpeted ballroom floor, got baby-carried up to the hotel room, drunkenly got into the bathtub and started screaming at him how much I hated him and he disgusted me, to get out of my sight, and threw the earrings at him.
Security was alerted from all of my screaming, and they told us that one of us was going to have to leave the hotel room for the night. The guy ended up spending a freezing night in his car while I slept off the booze in a 5-star hotel bed that he paid for. Hilariously, this was NOT the end, this guy was no quitter. He took us back to his mom's house (where we were visiting) and finished out the trip like nothing ever happened. He gave me the earrings back, and I happily took them. Lolz.
It still took like three months after all that for us to fall out completely. Oi vey. Early 20s shenanigans, bruh!5 -
You should read the thread before posting silly popcorn-eating dog images, piggy.
So sorry to hear about all these terrible, terrifying experiences. I've had my share, too. 4 -
My roommate and I took two girls to a Dodgers game.
They were so obnoxious that he and I seriously thought about leaving after the seventh inning without them.
We did the decent thing and drove back to the beach where we lived and dropped them off at their apartment.
It was the last time I even thought about her until this thread.3 -
Motorsheen wrote: »My roommate and I took two girls to a Dodgers game.
They were so obnoxious that he and I seriously thought about leaving after the seventh inning without them.
We did the decent thing and drove back to the beach where we lived and dropped them off at their apartment.
It was the last time I even thought about her until this thread.
Very thoughtful of you indeed!
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RegaliTea_69 wrote: »Had a guy talk about himself the whole time, I wouldn't have minded if he were more interesting. He talked about his sex with his ex girlfriends and referred to his pen!s as the "BFG"
Heavens! That's just intolerable!
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No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »No offense.... but where do you womenz find these idiots?
Is it really that difficult out there? ( not a flippant question, okay? I really don't know. )
Dating websites, they're a; narcissist's party!0
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