How to stay positive when you're "the worst person in class"

eimajb18
eimajb18 Posts: 20 Member
in Motivation and Support
Has anyone had any experiences with rude or discouraging people in their group fitness classes or does anyone have advice for how to keep a positive attitude and focus on learning and getting fit when you're the "worst person in class" (least experienced and/or least "able")?

I just signed up for a wall climbing class at my gym, which is mostly frequented by hardcore athletes. I am neither a hardcore athlete, nor do I have ANY experience whatsoever wall climbing/rock climbing. I'm really non-competitive, and I don't enjoy activities when I start to feel pressures to compete with others.

The past 2 nights I've gone to the gym late at night to just get a feel for the wall and practice a little before I start class. I have specifically gone after 10 pm so as to avoid crowds, but both times this group of climbers has been there, and they have been downright rude to me for what I assume is just their annoyance that they didn't have the (fairly large) wall all to themselves. For example, last night when I freaked out (I didn't make a huge scene - I just yelled down to my sister that I was scared and felt like I was going to fall for about 15 seconds), 2 of them loudly made a comment about me being "an idiot, abusing the wall." I'm scared other people like them might be in my class and point out my every mistake, or that people in class will act openly annoyed that I'm not catching onto things quickly enough or because I'll be unable to climb or belay as quickly or as well as stronger, more athletic, or more experienced people in class.

Any advice or words of encouragement?

Thanks :)

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  • SergeantG
    SergeantG Posts: 92
    Seriously....this actually happened to you? People actually BULLIED you while on this thing....

    @ are these people....OMG, that little story of yours just set my teeth on edge to think that you have effin morons verbally abusing others becuase they feel superior about a ROCK WALL...

    I would have went to jail that night, I promise you that....those idiots should be banned from usinig the equipment if they are going to accost others and make them feel threatened....

    Don't be afraid of those idiots....go to your climbing class and succeed....
  • MyaPapaya75
    MyaPapaya75 Posts: 3,143 Member
    I would just keep going just to annoy them lol ...its kind of like the fools that think they own the treadmills and try to track your time on them.....they can kindly join another wall climbing place..stay where your at as long as you aren't breaking and rules or being obnoxious.You have a right to be there.The instructor will inform you if your not up to par.
  • michellesplan1
    michellesplan1 Posts: 3
    I am so very sorry that you are having to deal with ignorant people; they were once beginners too!
    You should be very proud of yourself for simply stepping out of your comfort zone and trying something new. I am not big on "tattling" but perhaps you should go to the manager/owner and tell him/her what is happening to you;I am sure that behavior is not looked upon kindly.

    Keep up your good work and just get out there and do it...

    God bless and take care!
    Michelle

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