How can you live with someone you hate?

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  • Svanel
    Svanel Posts: 6,255 Member
    For example, having children or money problems.

    staying with someone "for the children" is never a good idea. they see and hear everything even if you think you're hiding it well. Kids are like sponges. You don't want them to be in a hostile environment. No kid should have to deal with that. If it's that bad, Leave.
  • DietPrada
    DietPrada Posts: 1,171 Member
    So much vague. I'm not going to offer any advise based on so little info. Good luck though, I hope you figure it out.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    You can imagine that a woman hates her husband, but she cannot seperate because of some resons. So she should bear that life without love.

    I know people who are in an emotionally abusive relationship. They stay and are unhappy. It is hard to understand from the outside because it is a choice. People do leave these kinds of relationships. It is not easy but it is possible.
    If you can't leave try to take care of yourself. Get therapy, meditate, go to church, try to keep connections with friends and family, try to save up some money.

    I do not live with someone I hate and never have.
  • take2spicy
    take2spicy Posts: 296 Member
    If it's that bad make a secret safety plan. Important documents money secure a place to go that's safe. If you can't get money together to leave there are agencies most places to help you get out safely. I've been there and you can do it if you really want to. If it's a matter of your life you leave asap leave everything behind except your children. If this is just a matter of not liking your partner then you have a choice to make as well as long as you are unhappy it's not going to change unless you talk about it with him/her It is a pretty vague post so that is all I can say to help you. I hope things get better for you either way.
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