Is this cute or creepy? help please :)
JaydedMiss
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Girl at work had surgery and has been very stressed, I decided to try to be cute. Were friendly but not really friends, But i made her up a little gift bag of some epsom salt, Some nice soap and body wash, Some nice lotion and a face mask. Nothing expensive or fancy just like 10$ tops for all. My thought is here pamper yourself for a night with nice fresh new things just being cute, Will she take it as creepy or me telling her she stinks?
If it helps i mentioned ill bring her epsom salts and she was like id love you. So i think she may be okay with it? What do you guys think lol
If it helps i mentioned ill bring her epsom salts and she was like id love you. So i think she may be okay with it? What do you guys think lol
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Lol seems like something women would do1
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I think its cute ! I think she will appreciate it
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I'm a guy, so maybe my opinion isn't worth much in this situation, but if I had surgery and you showed up with this at my house, I'd think you were pretty awesome for it!2
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MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »If it were me I'd think it was sweet and thoughtful. Especially since she already mentioned she'd actually use the salts. You're not offering to bathe her are you?
Yeah pretty sure thatd cross the line LOL
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I'm a guy, so maybe my opinion isn't worth much in this situation, but if I had surgery and you showed up with this at my house, I'd think you were pretty awesome for it!
Guys are humans to, Dont act like you wouldnt love a nice face mask and an epsom salt bath
Just not sure if its appropriate or going to be appreciated its all effective stuff but its cheap its more for cuteness factor everyone cheers up to gifts unless they think your calling them smelly >.>
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hmmm... possibly maybe get mixed impressions that you like them(in-that-way-ya know)? lol dunno thats what Id think if someone brought me something more "personal" but what do I know.0
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JaydedMiss wrote: »I'm a guy, so maybe my opinion isn't worth much in this situation, but if I had surgery and you showed up with this at my house, I'd think you were pretty awesome for it!
Guys are humans to, Dont act like you wouldnt love a nice face mask and an epsom salt bath Just not sure if its appropriate or going to be appreciated its all effective stuff but its cheap its more for cuteness factor everyone cheers up to gifts unless they think your calling them smelly >.>
OK, minus the facemask and the lotion Don't use either of those. 0 -
JaydedMiss wrote: »I'm a guy, so maybe my opinion isn't worth much in this situation, but if I had surgery and you showed up with this at my house, I'd think you were pretty awesome for it!
Guys are humans to, Dont act like you wouldnt love a nice face mask and an epsom salt bath Just not sure if its appropriate or going to be appreciated its all effective stuff but its cheap its more for cuteness factor everyone cheers up to gifts unless they think your calling them smelly >.>
OK, minus the facemask and the lotion Don't use either of those.
Ive used a facemask once, it actually felt kinda nice, once I washed it off my face was so smooooth1 -
I would think it was a sweet and kind gesture. Very thoughtful idea
Lovely gift idea, and in no way creepy or would it make me think about having bad hygiene0 -
jpoehls9025 wrote: »JaydedMiss wrote: »I'm a guy, so maybe my opinion isn't worth much in this situation, but if I had surgery and you showed up with this at my house, I'd think you were pretty awesome for it!
Guys are humans to, Dont act like you wouldnt love a nice face mask and an epsom salt bath Just not sure if its appropriate or going to be appreciated its all effective stuff but its cheap its more for cuteness factor everyone cheers up to gifts unless they think your calling them smelly >.>
OK, minus the facemask and the lotion Don't use either of those.
Ive used a facemask once, it actually felt kinda nice, once I washed it off my face was so smooooth
They feel cool when they harden, Especially mud masks for the smoothing effect, Thats what i go her. So hydrating!0 -
I think she'd like it in a non creepy way2
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It's thoughtful
... there's always time to cultivate creepy.
This might be a good opportunity to begin.1 -
jpoehls9025 wrote: »hmmm... possibly maybe get mixed impressions that you like them(in-that-way-ya know)? lol dunno thats what Id think if someone brought me something more "personal" but what do I know.
Yeah you have a point. One person might take it differently than another. Some people might think there is a hidden message attached to it. Sort of like giving soap or perfume and they think you are trying to tell them they are smelly. Lol0 -
jpoehls9025 wrote: »hmmm... possibly maybe get mixed impressions that you like them(in-that-way-ya know)? lol dunno thats what Id think if someone brought me something more "personal" but what do I know.
Yeah you have a point. One person might take it differently than another. Some people might think there is a hidden message attached to it. Sort of like giving soap or perfume and they think you are trying to tell them they are smelly. Lol
Just present it with a card that reads: " you're not smelly "3 -
Motorsheen wrote: »jpoehls9025 wrote: »hmmm... possibly maybe get mixed impressions that you like them(in-that-way-ya know)? lol dunno thats what Id think if someone brought me something more "personal" but what do I know.
Yeah you have a point. One person might take it differently than another. Some people might think there is a hidden message attached to it. Sort of like giving soap or perfume and they think you are trying to tell them they are smelly. Lol
Just present it with a card that reads: " you're not smelly "
hah i think were "friends" enough i can lay it out as me just being a cutie pie and hope she enjoys because i know everyone loves presents and secretly loves pampering self1 -
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JaydedMiss wrote: »Girl at work had surgery and has been very stressed, I decided to try to be cute. Were friendly but not really friends, But i made her up a little gift bag of some epsom salt, Some nice soap and body wash, Some nice lotion and a face mask. Nothing expensive or fancy just like 10$ tops for all. My thought is here pamper yourself for a night with nice fresh new things just being cute
Hell I'd love that if I were stressed, I'd be super thankful too.1 -
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Very thoughtful 0
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not creepy unless you include and "personal massager"0
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Could use this cute gift giving lately.
Very thoughtful...0 -
JaydedMiss wrote: »I'm a guy, so maybe my opinion isn't worth much in this situation, but if I had surgery and you showed up with this at my house, I'd think you were pretty awesome for it!
Guys are humans to, Dont act like you wouldnt love a nice face mask and an epsom salt bath Just not sure if its appropriate or going to be appreciated its all effective stuff but its cheap its more for cuteness factor everyone cheers up to gifts unless they think your calling them smelly >.>
depends...is it a punter's face mask or more like the big grill of a lineman?0 -
i just rememebred shes the one who helped me emberass my guy friend by bringing him flowers while we ate, I think shell just get that im a cute gift giver. Thanks guys ima try!1
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JaydedMiss wrote: »Girl at work had surgery and has been very stressed, I decided to try to be cute. Were friendly but not really friends, But i made her up a little gift bag of some epsom salt, Some nice soap and body wash, Some nice lotion and a face mask. Nothing expensive or fancy just like 10$ tops for all. My thought is here pamper yourself for a night with nice fresh new things just being cute, Will she take it as creepy or me telling her she stinks?
If it helps i mentioned ill bring her epsom salts and she was like id love you. So i think she may be okay with it? What do you guys think lol
Are you offering to wash her back as well?0 -
It's very thoughtful. I think most girls would appreciate it0
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Think its safe from the creepy zone as long you dont break into her house at night to run her a bath with it lol.1
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