My best friend doesnt believe in CICO
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Okay, I need to derail this for just a minute, why all the fro yo hate people! LOL I love fro yo and I love ice cream! Both are delicious, and can be incorporated in your diet successfully. Also, why would anyone be against a milkshake for breakfast if it fits your goals haha. Ok, I'm done.
Don't get me wrong. I'm totally not against a milkshake for breakfast. Just saying, it's not a bragging point for nutritional superiority.10 -
PaulaWallaDingDong wrote: »Okay, I need to derail this for just a minute, why all the fro yo hate people! LOL I love fro yo and I love ice cream! Both are delicious, and can be incorporated in your diet successfully. Also, why would anyone be against a milkshake for breakfast if it fits your goals haha. Ok, I'm done.
Don't get me wrong. I'm totally not against a milkshake for breakfast. Just saying, it's not a bragging point for nutritional superiority.
I agree its no better than vanilla ice cream however the choice at this particular ice cream stand makes fro yo the lesser of two evils calories wise lol0 -
SusanMFindlay wrote: »The fact that she's a science major doesn't mean she's necessarily comfortable with math. If you told me a physics major disagreed with CICO, I'd be surprised - but a lot of students in the life sciences are actually very uncomfortable with math and numbers. "I love science but hate math; I will study biology/kinesiology/nutrition/etc." is a pretty common theme.
Disclaimer: My sister has both a biology degree and a math degree. I'm not saying that all biology students hate math. But a lot of them do. My sample size is several thousand students.
Yes, but regardless of math skills one thing all scientists should have in common is the ability to gather data, read the literature and test their beliefs/ assumptions objectively.
Implicit bias is bad, and digging your heels in instead of doing your research is worse.8 -
I find life easier when I don't care too much about what others think of me or what I'm doing.15
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I would love to know why your friend thinks CICO doesn't work. Not what works instead, but what she thinks is wrong with the idea. Science aside, the principle of "things have to equal out" is such a core concept in human thinking that we apply it even when we shouldn't, such as in the stereotypes of smart-but-weak and strong-but-dumb. You have to balance the equation.2
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Need2Exerc1se wrote: »The "it wasn't exercise because it wasn't in a gym" seems more ridiculous than not believing it's all about CI<CO to me.
Agreed. But I mean, come on-Usain Bolt, Simone Biles, Michael Phelps?!!? They might not go to the "gym" but they're sure as hell fit!!4 -
lilolilo920 wrote: »Need2Exerc1se wrote: »The "it wasn't exercise because it wasn't in a gym" seems more ridiculous than not believing it's all about CI<CO to me.
Agreed. But I mean, come on-Usain Bolt, Simone Biles, Michael Phelps?!!? They might not go to the "gym" but they're sure as hell fit!!
You can be pretty confident that all the of them spend a good proportion of their training time in the gym. Success means doing a range of things to improve performance.3 -
I recently had a two week spell of only 1 gym visit, as opposed to my usual 4 days a week. I did do five morning runs (outside, does that count?) and in that period I ate mostly below my calorie allowance, but was not eating healthily.
I lost 3 lbs.
<sarcasm>Does she also think that one can keep spending money regardless of what money comes in? Lots of smaller amounts can't possibly exceed that large sum that comes in once a month. It's just not possible. </sarcasm>
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laurenebargar wrote: »What bothers me about your post is how you're excited finding mfp and calorie counting works and your friend is completely unsupportive. I mean she can't even hear you out? Is she the kind of person that has to be "right" about everything all the time?
Edited to say that the "getting obsessive" comment was really rude and uncalled for. I would have wanted to slap the *kitten*.
Yes she is the type of person who always has to be right, probably shouldnt have brought it up at all to her.
Feel free to send her: http://ajcn.nutrition.org/content/95/4/989
Its from one of the leading researchers in metabolism and lays out the foundation of energy balance (net effect of CI vs CO).
People often don't believe in it, because a lot of MD's are making their way into this field and making absurd comments and hypothesis and cherry pick data to support it.5 -
There are people that believe the world is flat.
Can't fix stupid.2 -
I've got to say I disagree with assuming (as some posters have suggested) that she is trying to sabotage you, is jealous of your weight loss, etc. A lot of people just have very intense (and sometimes wrong) beliefs about food. It's best to just agree to disagree, even if you know you're right. Like, one of my coworkers is very 'against' eating processed sugar. Another keeps trying keto diets even though (so he told me) he feels ravenous on them. I asked him what kind of foods fill him up and he said "Carbs." At the end of the day, though, I don't want to argue with them about it.8
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Might be an unpopular opinion, but for me CICO only works till a certain point. I have a history with disordered eating, so I've spent lots of time counting every single calorie that gets close to my mouth and obsessively tracking my exercises, but whenever I only focused on CICO, I could never get below 110lbs (I'm 5'2) Most days I was barely eating 300cal and exercising like crazy but I didn't lose another pound or another inch. Looking back, I'm not surprised because more often than not, I ate less than 1000cal and nearly all my food was junk food high in sodium and carbs. (A 300 cal day was usually small fries from McDonalds and a diet coke...) Obviously CICO works, but at a certain point you need to start looking at what you're eating too.3
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LexyGetsFitUK wrote: »Might be an unpopular opinion, but for me CICO only works till a certain point. I have a history with disordered eating, so I've spent lots of time counting every single calorie that gets close to my mouth and obsessively tracking my exercises, but whenever I only focused on CICO, I could never get below 110lbs (I'm 5'2) Most days I was barely eating 300cal and exercising like crazy but I didn't lose another pound or another inch. Looking back, I'm not surprised because more often than not, I ate less than 1000cal and nearly all my food was junk food high in sodium and carbs. (A 300 cal day was usually small fries from McDonalds and a diet coke...) Obviously CICO works, but at a certain point you need to start looking at what you're eating too.
"most days"... and on the other days?? binge right?
CICO always works... but fasting for "most days" puts you into a state where you will binge.... Especially if you're exercising every day.
I was there at one point in my life about 10 years ago... except I was doing it by accident... fortunately my dietician had me diary for 2 weeks and put me on a feeding schedule... I lost 10 pounds...
Thats why MFP has minimum calorie recommendations and why so many here argue so aggressively against VLCD because ultimately even if you do stick with it, you'll not be meeting your nutrient needs and you'll start losing other things than weight.... like organ function, and hair, and fingernails.12 -
Because "I can wear that thermal jacket, stuff my face and still lose". Or "I can take these pills, stuff my face and still lose". That's the type of rubish I've been told by my 'friends' loughing at me counting calories... And when it doesn't work for them it is never cico, it is always "slow metabolism"... \hipthrust2
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It works. But it works less and less the more times it's done. I think the minimum calories per day thing is hogwash as long as you get enough calories over time.
I enjoyed this article on CICO
The Truth About Calories: Why Calories-In, Calories-Out Is Total Nonsense
by Kevin Michael Geary
https://rebootedbody.com/calories/1 -
It works. But it works less and less the more times it's done. I think the minimum calories per day thing is hogwash as long as you get enough calories over time.
I enjoyed this article on CICO
The Truth About Calories: Why Calories-In, Calories-Out Is Total Nonsense
by Kevin Michael Geary
https://rebootedbody.com/calories/
In no way did that even remotely dispute calories in vs out. What is addresses is the complexities in weight management and the various adjustments a body can take when consuming food.
It discusses insulin theory (in a bit of plain english) which keeps getting disputed. It assumes fat satiates everyone and the study abstracts referenced are mediocre at best. One is a rat study and the other compares extreme intakes of whole grain vs white bread... which i am not surprised of the results since whole grain breads contain fiber.
The issue is, people over simply CICO and assume that tdee and metabolism are static. The reality is, they are complex and make adjustments.10 -
laurenebargar wrote: »So the title says it all. My best friend doesn't believe in CICO. I only told them recently that I started losing weight ( I told them once I was 15 lbs down) we went for a hike the other day, and then were walking back to their house, we stopped for ice cream. I had a ton of calories left so I got a flavor I actually wanted rather than just frozen yogurt. She was shocked and told me i'd never lose weight if im eating ice cream, and that our hike didnt count as exercise because we weren't in a gym (we burned over 1000 calories according to my fitbit!) I explained to her what MFP is all about it, and CICO and she said I was "getting obsessive" with calories I need to stop focusing on that, and eat only healthy foods and go to the gym for an hour every day, dont pay attention to calories. Im shocked that she would have such a strong opinion on it, shes a science major so I assumed something simple like CICO would make sense to her, you need to burn more calories than your body is taking in. Finally I explained I could eat one scoop of ice cream every day, even if thats all I ate, and I was in calorie deficit I would lose weight, she simply just said no you would gain weight and be terribly unhealthy. I agree you wouldnt be healthy, but you would still lose weight. That was it, she said after she didnt want to talk about it anymore. What do you guys think? I know CICO works, its been working for me, and so many other people on MFP. Why do people think CICO wont work??
@laurenebargar you both are correct actually. She is talking about how to eat to live a long healthy life. You are talking about losing weight in a way that may or may not lead to a premature and painful death.
CICO does not directly to human beings that are body, mind and spirit but it does apply quite well to a car engine.
The macro one eats instead of the number of calories that one eats is what determines future health.
Now if a person has a physical/mental condition that prevents the "You Are Full Stop Eating" signals then perhaps long term calorie counting will be a requirement but not in otherwise healthy humans.
Intuitive eating may be damaged in people that never ate a healthy macro in their life. In that case they may be required to count calories for life. Just keep in mind in humans CICO is a false concept when it comes to good health and a long life. If one does not get the protein and fats that are required for good health then they will suffer health wise. The ratio of one's macro is not fixed in some book somewhere but is something we learn over time.0 -
Some people have weirdly strong opinions about this sort of thing. They think their way is the only way and everyone else is wrong. If eating healthy foods and never having ice cream and going to the gym for an hour every day helps you lose weight then more power to you. I'm gonna keep counting my calories because it works for me.8
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GottaBurnEmAll wrote: »People believe all sorts of drivel because popular media, diet gurus, and science reporting is dreadful.
Also, CICO isn't really sexy and is hard to monetize.
To the original poster
This sums it up perfectly. If you really look at it look at all the diet plans out there all they really are is cico but they don't sell it that way they're selling the whole package and a lifestyle. What are they basically doing they're selling you pre-packaged Foods or they're assigning points to food and as long as you eat within those points you'll lose weight. Nothing more than somebody else doing the calorie counting for you but you're paying a shitl oad of money.
I experienced the same thing when people ask me how I lost the weight. I tell them I eat whatever I want and they just have a blank expression on their face and they say, no seriously how did you do it and I have to explain it to them. It's funny to see the looks on their faces when i tell them a Wendy's hamburger or two slices of pizza can have less calories then a salad you buy in a store.
Keep on doing what you're doing and it will work
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I haven't had that extreme of an experience but I can tell you that, in spite of the miraculous (to me) results I've achieved and my overwhelmingly positive experience with counting calories, I've only been able to convince one friend to join MFP and her daily log is mostly empty. She actually texted me the other day and asked if I would do her entries for her because it's too confusing and too much work and she forgets all the time. I said no of course.
Most people really have no idea about science in general, no idea how to discern facts from propaganda and no idea how to go about researching things for themselves beyond clicking on the top article that pops up in a Google search. They want solutions handed to them and don't want to think about it. Sad but true, at least in my experience.10
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