Realtionship question?

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  • J_NY_Z
    J_NY_Z Posts: 2,540 Member
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    You define that by setting your boundaries. Nobody else does.
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    What kind of flirting?

    Laughing and talking sexual, but never fell through with it?
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    Is flirting considered cheating?

    I think it depends. If you have a naturally flirty personality, then it's just part of who you are. I wouldn't consider that cheating. But if you typically a shy person and you start flirting with someone, I would say it could be understood as cheating.

    I have always flirted with people, however I don't want anything I return.
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    I have always flirted with people, however I don't want anything I return.
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    browneyedgirl749 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    hi

    Stop flirting :lol:

    It's something I do without knowing sometimes.I just like being friendly (not in a disrespectful way).
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    What kind of flirting?

    Laughing and talking sexual, but never fell through with it?

    Would you be ok with your OH saying/doing what you say/do?
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Flirting is not "cheating" but in some instances it could be disrespectful. If what your are doing makes you feel guilty, or if it would upset your SO you should probably reconsider your actions.

    This for sure.
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
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    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Flirting is not "cheating" but in some instances it could be disrespectful. If what your are doing makes you feel guilty, or if it would upset your SO you should probably reconsider your actions.

    I just want to know who this inspired.....lmao
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
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    I've been told that I am flirty, but I think I am being friendly.

    For instance a guy that I worked with came to work with a really nice hair cut. I told him his hair cut was nice and touched his hair while I said it was a nice hair cut. I was told that was flirty. I disagreed. I would do the same to a woman if they came in with a nice hair cut. I probably invaded the persons space, but I do not consider that flirting.
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
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    It's not cheating...but it provides opportunity for cheating.
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    TavistockToad wrote: »
    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    What kind of flirting?

    Laughing and talking sexual, but never fell through with it?

    Would you be ok with your OH saying/doing what you say/do?

    He does the same thing, but we don't venture outside the relationship.
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    SoDamnHungry wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Flirting is not "cheating" but in some instances it could be disrespectful. If what your are doing makes you feel guilty, or if it would upset your SO you should probably reconsider your actions.

    This for sure.

    He laughs and shame his head, I don't see sexual attraction from them.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    What kind of flirting?

    Laughing and talking sexual, but never fell through with it?

    Would you be ok with your OH saying/doing what you say/do?

    He does the same thing, but we don't venture outside the relationship.

    As long as you're both happy, you're good to go!
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    TavistockToad wrote: »
    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    What kind of flirting?

    Laughing and talking sexual, but never fell through with it?

    Would you be ok with your OH saying/doing what you say/do?

    He does the same thing, but we don't venture outside the relationship.

    As long as you're both happy, you're good to go!

    We have our time afterwards
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    ParadigmShifter wrote: »
    If the flirting includes someone having an orgasm, I would say yes

    No I don't do that
  • ShrinkingViolet1982
    ShrinkingViolet1982 Posts: 919 Member
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    This is what happened to Dr. Phil.
  • aprillperry84
    aprillperry84 Posts: 29 Member
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    aprillperry84 wrote: »
    Is flirting considered cheating?

    Ok just to clear the air for everyone. I don't flurry to pick up anyone. Yes, things get heated when they complement you your figure. I do it with him a couple feet away. I always let them know my SO is present. They laugh together and do their manly talking. I just like to have conversation with everyone, doesn't matter what is talked about.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    @aprillperry84 wrote: »
    Is flirting considered cheating?

    Only if they both have their gallbladders
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
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    @Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    What kind of flirting?

    Can I see your boobs?


    (^^ this kind)
  • mcafton
    mcafton Posts: 190 Member
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    no, but it can open a door that isn't always so easy to close.

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