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  • OliveGirl128
    OliveGirl128 Posts: 801 Member
    edited August 2017
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    Kullerva wrote: »
    Kullerva wrote: »
    I was on food stamps for a while. I was okay with the "no soda" thing (my state forbids soda from being bought with them, though, oddly, I could buy as much Halloween candy as I wanted on the state's dime). The killer was diapers, toilet paper and medicine. I don't have kids, but watching others in the EBT line (where poor people go to buy food) paying two or three times for different kinds of items while on the verge of a nervous breakdown was heartbreaking. Also, diapers, toilet paper and medicine are crazy expensive and far more necessary than candy, IMO. I didn't make the rules...if I had they'd make sense.

    Edited to clarify: I really think food stamps should cover everything, or cover nothing. Presumably we can trust adults to make their own choices regarding food and basic needs? It's not like food stamp funds are unlimited.

    I always had two kids in diapers and I used cloth flats. Great way to diaper on the cheap (and I mean cheap) :) Back during that time I also made my own laundry detergent, to save money on washing them.

    Also-prices do vary, but I pay .59 for 4 rolls of toilet paper (Aldi brand). I definitely don't consider that to be one of my pricier purchases. And also varying by location, but a lot of dollar stores carry some medicines now, as well as Dollar General. Manufacturers also give out coupons on their websites frequently.

    True! I shop at Aldi now and love it, but when I was on food stamps I lived in a food desert in an extremely poor community with few stores (I pretty much had one strip mall within 30 miles to get my necessities from). My mom used cloth diapers and I did suggest them to many people but in some places it's just "not done," which I never understood...disposable diapers are hugely expensive, and so is shopping the chain stores.

    @LJGettinSexy, where the heck do you shop? Apples never retail for more than $3 a bag here, and carrots are 89c. Most fruits and veggies in season are cheap as dirt. Bananas are 49c/lb. at Pick N Save. I guess you live in a bigger city?

    I don't shop at Aldi's because there isn't one in my neighborhood and their fruits and veggies don't stay fresh as long as the other grocery stores and I buy lots of fruit because I have heavy fruit eaters in my home. Bananas are cheap as stated in my previous post. I buy a lot of food on sale but staples are expensive as heck, meats, cheese, butter, potatoes, bacon, fruit, veggies, bread. A bag of apples is only $3 in the summer when nobody eats them but Honey Crisp apples are way high, even at Trader Joes, which is the only kind I eat. Watermelon in season now is $5, which isn't bad but grapes, pineapple, strawberries, canteloupe $3-$6 products easily. I just shredded a receipt from a store where I shop, darn, LOL!

    Frozen veg/fruit is a great way to to get produce inexpensively, and it's flash froze right after being picked, which means it actually retains more of its nutrients vs fresh that's transported across state/country. Also, there's tricks to making fresh produce last longer too (I buy Aldi fresh produce and make it last up to two weeks, since I do bi-weekly shopping).

    If you have an Aldi within driving distance, even to go once or twice a month, it's well worth the trip-their butter, cheese, yogurt, meat, fish, etc are quite a bit cheaper than other stores. And if organics is your thing, they've really been adding to their organics/'natural' line lately. I can get things like organic coconut oil, nut butters, grass fed beef, a wide range of nuts, seeds, dried fruit, sprouted whole grains bread, whole wheat flat breads and tortillas etc. Plus they've started carrying organic produce as well. I don't consider bacon a staple or really 'healthy', but Aldi has center cut bacon for around $4 vs $6 at Meijer here.

    Their fresh chicken parts are cheap, or their frozen bags of boneless chicken breasts/breast tenderloins are great too-I do a bag at a time in my crockpot (with a bit of water), individually wrap them in plastic wrap and then keep them in a freezer bag in the freezer. Then the night before I pull one and defrost in the fridge. It's thawed by lunchtime the next day and I added it to my stirfrys, grain bowls, salads etc. With the DASH protocol I rotate between chicken breast and then wild caught salmon, and this is an inexpensive and easy way to do the chicken.

    I agree that prices can vary quite a bit based on location, but there's always ways to tweak things. Adding things like beans, whole grains, more meatless meals, frozen veggies/fruit etc are simple things that many people can do, to save money while eating a nutrient dense, 'healthy' diet :)
  • French_Peasant
    French_Peasant Posts: 1,639 Member
    edited August 2017
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    GlassAngyl wrote: »
    Totally for it. And they should add all junk food items as well. Leave baking items and they can make junk from scratch...

    Then you'd complain they were spending the money on steaks and shrimp, I here it all the time. Food is expensive for the working poor ( not making a living wage and not poor enough for aid) and soda is cheap. Natural and healthier choices are twice as much as junk food, or haven't you noticed

    This is thrown out all the time, but many times it's just not true. I eat a very 'healthy' diet and I fit it in, along with the rest of my family's groceries, on a pretty small grocery budget. Beans, whole grains, frozen veggies, frozen chicken etc are all pretty inexpensive.

    1. Have you ever been on food stamps?
    2. Have you ever been poor in your life?
    3. Are you still poor?
    Answer those and maybe we can have a deeper discussion

    I actually grew up dumpster diving sometimes, alongside my parents and sisters, so if you'd like to have a deeper discussion about poverty I'd be more than willing to have one with you. You probably won't like what I have to say though :p

    And I stand by what I said-I feed a family of 5 on a very tight grocery budget, and I eat a very 'healthy' diet (I follow the DASH protocol), and my family eats a fairly balanced diet as well. Nutrient dense foods are not automatically more expensive, and I've found that they're actually cheaper than convenience foods. This idea that that 'healthy' is more expensive is just not true many times.

    eta: actually, no I'm not going to go there, because my past is a pretty dark place and I have no interest in revisiting it, especially on a public forum. Needless to say, yes I know what it's like to be truly poor, probably more than most posters in this thread. But that has absolutely nothing to do with my pp, which is that I feed myself and my family a well balanced, 'healthy' diet and do so on a very tight grocery budget, ($100 a week for 5 people/2 cats, and it also includes non-food items). Beans, whole grains, frozen veggies, bagged frozen chicken etc are usually inexpensive options and are staples in my house. The idea that 'healthy' automatically means more expensive is false.

    We all have dark places that we don't want to visit and that's why it's absurd to try to think for someone else. You don't know another person's circumstance so they shouldn't be judged simply by what they buy in a grocery store. We all have to learn that, you of all people since you were a dumpster diver. When I go to buy groceries, I've noticed that food is expensive and getting higher by the day. Organic food is outrageously priced and that's supposed to be the healthiest. Fresh fruit is ridiculously high and fresh squeezed juice, no way. You can't buy a single piece of fruit for less than a dollar unless it's a banana. Now imagine feeding a family of 4. Yeah you can buy only grains and wheat, but what do you do with that? You need a balanced diet to eat healthy and trying to buy all four food groups for a growing family is expensive. BTW, chicken is not inexpensive, who eats beans and what is whole grains and how do you just eat them?

    This is where nutrition counseling could be helpful. Organic or fresh foods are necessarily the healthiest. Frozen or canned vegetables provide plenty of nutrients. Dried beans and grains are very healthy. A ribeye at $15 per lb is not more nutrition than round steak at $4 per lb. Thinking that a balanced diet only comes from expensive foods shows a lack of nutrition knowledge.

    I didn't say a balanced diet only comes from expensive foods, I said the healthier foods are more expensive. You can get family size bags of potato chips 2/$4 or bogo but 2lbs of grapes $7.98. I shop every week for groceries and I am not making this up for the sake of argument, I've been shopping for decades and have seen the rising prices of food. Parkay Butter spray is $3 for 8oz bottle but you can get Blue Bonnet margarine 4 stick pkg at 2/$1, and these are staples, so there is no nutritional counseling for me, maybe you need counseling for the real world.

    You don't need to choose between grapes and potato chips. Things like beans, rice, frozen vegetables, onions, carrots, cabbage, oats, potatoes . . . . all very affordable (at least where I live). Yeah, anyone wanting a lot of fresh fruit is going to pay more, but that's not required for a healthy diet.

    But people don't actually eat beans and whole grains like oats, according to pp.

    :p

    It's regrettable, because beans + rice + lard + chicken gizzards, hearts, pieces and parts = magic.

    Or at least one of the foundation dishes of Cajun and Creole cookery, admired around the world.

    http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/baked-louisiana-dirty-rice-beans

    ETA: the first recipe is overly gentrified and not dirty enough. Here is one using a lard-based roux, gizzards and livers. I would also increase the amount of the "Trinity and the Pope" (vegetables and garlic) and add in black beans for a more complete dish nutrition-wise.

    https://dricksramblingcafe.blogspot.com/2009/11/cajun-dirty-rice.html
  • jhildebrandt73
    jhildebrandt73 Posts: 290 Member
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    I don't know if it was mentioned yet, but SNAP could be more like WIC. WIC has certain items that can be purchased and those items are supposed to help families with basic groceries. SNAP is a subsidy for food staples. Items like soda, candy, chips are "treats". We used to have to earn treats as kids, now they are part of the daily diet.
  • AlabasterVerve
    AlabasterVerve Posts: 3,171 Member
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    I guess I don't see such a pure distinction between "soda" and "food."

    I do. It's the way I was raised. If you were hungry you were allowed "food" but food was certainly not soda, candy, cookies or anything of sort.

    We've clearly moved away from that sort of thinking as a society but perhaps that's where part of the disconnect is coming from? Snack food deprivation and you-deserve-a-treat are a fairly recent concepts I think.

    I can understand individual parents making that distinction. I mean, when I was a kid we were not allowed to snack on chips because it's really easy to eat the whole bag.

    I just don't think that makes chips non-food. It's just a kind of food that's for many people to overeat.

    lol See, there really is a difference. If we reached for the cookie jar we were scolded and told to get food instead - everything edible was not food.

    It seems like your family was using a definition of "food" that excluded a lot of edible items that are . . . well, food.

    Yes. Having that clear distinction between nourishing food vs. treats is part of why we were effortlessly thinner. I'm sure as a society we'll figure out new, healthful patterns of eating that work to keep people relatively thin and healthy again but I seriously doubt the idea of soda and junk food as necessities will stand the test of time.
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
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    CSARdiver wrote: »
    Realizing that this may derail the thread, but I think this is a great conversation.

    As part of any temporary benefits application process what would be your opinion on mandatory education of the following (as applicable):

    Nutrition/Weight Management
    Cooking
    Budgeting
    Home Economics

    Thinking back to my military service, where if one applied for financial assistance they had to first attend a basic finance course and have their budgets reviewed by a counselor. This was a very effective program with an extremely low rate of repeat applications.

    Where does one find time for mandatory classes? Usually someone on assistance is already working a huge amount of hours a week and still can't get by. Then the time it takes to put food on the table, spend time with family, etc etc.
    CSARdiver wrote: »
    DamieBird wrote: »
    Bring back the poor house! The state should have full control over those pesky people daring to live in poverty and need state assistance.

    I really despair of our attitude to those at the bottom of the pile.

    I have a large number of First Cousins. One of them, who was one year older than I, was added to the welfare rolls at age 12 when her father died and she received U.S. Social Security benefits for being an orphan. Those expired when she turned 18, but college was free to her because of her orphan status. Preparing for that, she started producing children at age 16 so that she had government benefits for unmarried mothers and their children to replace her government benefits to orphans when she turned 18. At 19 she agreed to marry a man who was quite unable to produce an earned income and she kept receiving generous government assistance for her needy children, her low-income household, and oh-by-the-way her medical care was free, too. It was to her benefit that her older brother was a prosperous schmuck who provided her rent and grocery money unknown to the government. That's the cousin. I have a sister whose decidedly different course of life has been showered with great wealth. One day my sister was speaking with my cousin and asked her directly, "Why don't you get a job?" My cousin replied, "I make more money on welfare than I could at minimum wage."

    It is that one person's story, my cousin, that more influences all my thoughts on government assistance to the needy than any other. She died of cancer 14 years ago because the free government medical care was a bit less than timely at delivering care.

    We, as a society, don't need to be cruel as you parody, but we don't need to be schmucks, either.

    I know this wasn't your point, but it does make me wonder at a society that pays so little in minimum wage that people in some circumstances are better off receiving aid instead of working . . . .

    There was a documentary a couple of years ago, and I can't remember what it's called, but one of the people who was in it was a young single mother. Over the course of the documentary, all she wanted to do was find a job and get off of 'welfare'. She did end up finding a full time job, but realized that it put her over the cap pf being able to qualify for assistance but below what she actually needed to feed her kids. Obviously it's slanted (because it's a documentary), but I wonder how many people we have in the US in similar situations?

    This causes me to ask the next level of "Why?"

    Wage is based on market forces, primarily skill set, so why do we have a population lacking the skills to earn a minimum livable wage?

    But the problem here is - those minimum, unlivable wage jobs will continue to exist, and need to be filled, even if the people currently in them manage to skill themselves out of them. So there will always be that group of people in those jobs (some with the skills to not be in them but without the available positions) who are stuck in this cycle.

    Most of these jobs are temporary and transitional and intended for kids young adults entering the workplace. The intent is to gain additional skills, training and experience to work towards positions with greater responsibility and increased pay.

    BLS stats:

    https://www.bls.gov/opub/reports/minimum-wage/2016/home.htm

    Seems very similar to dieting in a yo-yo cycle. Change will not come without changing behavior.
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
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    I don't know if it was mentioned yet, but SNAP could be more like WIC. WIC has certain items that can be purchased and those items are supposed to help families with basic groceries. SNAP is a subsidy for food staples. Items like soda, candy, chips are "treats". We used to have to earn treats as kids, now they are part of the daily diet.

    Read the thread. It was mentioned. And that model wouldn't work.

    It would work like a champ. The only downside is that a WIC like model subsidized(and thus pushes up the price) of certain purchase options.

    Have you actually ever used WIC?
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
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    CSARdiver wrote: »
    CSARdiver wrote: »
    Realizing that this may derail the thread, but I think this is a great conversation.

    As part of any temporary benefits application process what would be your opinion on mandatory education of the following (as applicable):

    Nutrition/Weight Management
    Cooking
    Budgeting
    Home Economics

    Thinking back to my military service, where if one applied for financial assistance they had to first attend a basic finance course and have their budgets reviewed by a counselor. This was a very effective program with an extremely low rate of repeat applications.

    Where does one find time for mandatory classes? Usually someone on assistance is already working a huge amount of hours a week and still can't get by. Then the time it takes to put food on the table, spend time with family, etc etc.
    CSARdiver wrote: »
    DamieBird wrote: »
    Bring back the poor house! The state should have full control over those pesky people daring to live in poverty and need state assistance.

    I really despair of our attitude to those at the bottom of the pile.

    I have a large number of First Cousins. One of them, who was one year older than I, was added to the welfare rolls at age 12 when her father died and she received U.S. Social Security benefits for being an orphan. Those expired when she turned 18, but college was free to her because of her orphan status. Preparing for that, she started producing children at age 16 so that she had government benefits for unmarried mothers and their children to replace her government benefits to orphans when she turned 18. At 19 she agreed to marry a man who was quite unable to produce an earned income and she kept receiving generous government assistance for her needy children, her low-income household, and oh-by-the-way her medical care was free, too. It was to her benefit that her older brother was a prosperous schmuck who provided her rent and grocery money unknown to the government. That's the cousin. I have a sister whose decidedly different course of life has been showered with great wealth. One day my sister was speaking with my cousin and asked her directly, "Why don't you get a job?" My cousin replied, "I make more money on welfare than I could at minimum wage."

    It is that one person's story, my cousin, that more influences all my thoughts on government assistance to the needy than any other. She died of cancer 14 years ago because the free government medical care was a bit less than timely at delivering care.

    We, as a society, don't need to be cruel as you parody, but we don't need to be schmucks, either.

    I know this wasn't your point, but it does make me wonder at a society that pays so little in minimum wage that people in some circumstances are better off receiving aid instead of working . . . .

    There was a documentary a couple of years ago, and I can't remember what it's called, but one of the people who was in it was a young single mother. Over the course of the documentary, all she wanted to do was find a job and get off of 'welfare'. She did end up finding a full time job, but realized that it put her over the cap pf being able to qualify for assistance but below what she actually needed to feed her kids. Obviously it's slanted (because it's a documentary), but I wonder how many people we have in the US in similar situations?

    This causes me to ask the next level of "Why?"

    Wage is based on market forces, primarily skill set, so why do we have a population lacking the skills to earn a minimum livable wage?

    But the problem here is - those minimum, unlivable wage jobs will continue to exist, and need to be filled, even if the people currently in them manage to skill themselves out of them. So there will always be that group of people in those jobs (some with the skills to not be in them but without the available positions) who are stuck in this cycle.

    Most of these jobs are temporary and transitional and intended for kids young adults entering the workplace. The intent is to gain additional skills, training and experience to work towards positions with greater responsibility and increased pay.

    BLS stats:

    https://www.bls.gov/opub/reports/minimum-wage/2016/home.htm

    Seems very similar to dieting in a yo-yo cycle. Change will not come without changing behavior.

    And? They aren't anymore and people have to do them.
  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
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    I guess I don't see such a pure distinction between "soda" and "food."

    I do. It's the way I was raised. If you were hungry you were allowed "food" but food was certainly not soda, candy, cookies or anything of sort.

    We've clearly moved away from that sort of thinking as a society but perhaps that's where part of the disconnect is coming from? Snack food deprivation and you-deserve-a-treat are a fairly recent concepts I think.

    I can understand individual parents making that distinction. I mean, when I was a kid we were not allowed to snack on chips because it's really easy to eat the whole bag.

    I just don't think that makes chips non-food. It's just a kind of food that's for many people to overeat.

    lol See, there really is a difference. If we reached for the cookie jar we were scolded and told to get food instead - everything edible was not food.

    It seems like your family was using a definition of "food" that excluded a lot of edible items that are . . . well, food.

    Yes. Having that clear distinction between nourishing food vs. treats is part of why we were effortlessly thinner. I'm sure as a society we'll figure out new, healthful patterns of eating that work to keep people relatively thin and healthy again but I seriously doubt the idea of soda and junk food as necessities will stand the test of time.

    By calling them "food," I'm not attempting to establish them as necessities. I'm just describing what they are.

    Nourishing food can also be calorie-dense, it's not just treats that lead to excess weight.