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This is me. Hi, I'm Bradley.
Now can I be part of the *kitten* club?
Dedication. I admire that Brad
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »This is me. Hi, I'm Bradley.
Now can I be part of the *kitten* club?
Dedication. I admire that Brad
Thank you!
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Probably never was.0
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projectbradley wrote: »princess7955 wrote: »projectbradley wrote: »princess7955 wrote: »projectbradley wrote: »Just because you're riddled with insecurities doesn't mean others have to be. Thats a personal problem and has nothing to do with me or others.
Find some self love, fix the problem and don't look to place your issues on other people. I know my self worth, just find yours.
This could apply to 1/2 the people here.
Easier said than done.
Truth and not just here but in our everyday lives. I've lost a couple old friends where I can't even go out for drinks with them since losing weight because they're still overweight and obsessed with my fitness passive aggressively due to their insecurities.
At my age I feel like I've taken far too many hits in life and I've drawn a line that I won't sacrifice my self worth and integrity for anyone. Ever again. I've come a long way, even in the last 6 months and I'm still learning how to find that self love. I just wish others would focus on the same instead of reflecting that on others.
Congrats on your progress!
As someone who has very very low self confidence, I know that sometimes it takes another person to point out the positives to start to realize they may be right. Insecurities suck. Don't kick us when we are down. Take your positivity and hand it out. Like Oprah. Share that *kitten*. Pump each other up. Make someone's day.
I'm actually going to ahead and say one more thing because it's important to recognize this.
You're doing it right now and you don't even know it. You say "us" as in there's some type of club that I'm not part of. Herein lies the problem. You're segregating me as though I'm somehow different than you. I have insecurities as well since I'm actually just as much of a human being as you with the only difference in being my body. That's body shaming 101 whether I'm fat, fit or skinny. It's irrelevant if I'm further along in my journey, if you segregate me and shame me for my body it's the same feeling and people don't realize this.
This is me. Hi, I'm Bradley.
Now can I be part of the *kitten* club?
You gave me wayyy too much credit. Lol
My only point was instead of telling people to find self love, maybe share the love instead.
I'm still working toward my goal, but sadly hitting my goal isn't going help me find self love. So much other *kitten* in life affects that. Being thin/fit is such a tiny part of that for me.
You have worked hard for your progress..one day I'll be brave enough to I post some before/afters too. Then I can be part of THAT *kitten* club.
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princess7955 wrote: »projectbradley wrote: »princess7955 wrote: »projectbradley wrote: »princess7955 wrote: »projectbradley wrote: »Just because you're riddled with insecurities doesn't mean others have to be. Thats a personal problem and has nothing to do with me or others.
Find some self love, fix the problem and don't look to place your issues on other people. I know my self worth, just find yours.
This could apply to 1/2 the people here.
Easier said than done.
Truth and not just here but in our everyday lives. I've lost a couple old friends where I can't even go out for drinks with them since losing weight because they're still overweight and obsessed with my fitness passive aggressively due to their insecurities.
At my age I feel like I've taken far too many hits in life and I've drawn a line that I won't sacrifice my self worth and integrity for anyone. Ever again. I've come a long way, even in the last 6 months and I'm still learning how to find that self love. I just wish others would focus on the same instead of reflecting that on others.
Congrats on your progress!
As someone who has very very low self confidence, I know that sometimes it takes another person to point out the positives to start to realize they may be right. Insecurities suck. Don't kick us when we are down. Take your positivity and hand it out. Like Oprah. Share that *kitten*. Pump each other up. Make someone's day.
I'm actually going to ahead and say one more thing because it's important to recognize this.
You're doing it right now and you don't even know it. You say "us" as in there's some type of club that I'm not part of. Herein lies the problem. You're segregating me as though I'm somehow different than you. I have insecurities as well since I'm actually just as much of a human being as you with the only difference in being my body. That's body shaming 101 whether I'm fat, fit or skinny. It's irrelevant if I'm further along in my journey, if you segregate me and shame me for my body it's the same feeling and people don't realize this.
This is me. Hi, I'm Bradley.
Now can I be part of the *kitten* club?
You gave me wayyy too much credit. Lol
My only point was instead of telling people to find self love, maybe share the love instead.
I'm still working toward my goal, but sadly hitting my goal isn't going help me find self love. So much other *kitten* in life affects that. Being thin/fit is such a tiny part of that for me.
You have worked hard for your progress..one day I'll be brave enough to I post some before/afters too. Then I can be part of THAT *kitten* club.
And I will hold the door open for you when you arrive. 0 -
Bout' time.0
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But it's always 5 O'clock somewhere.0
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Kinks not drinks.2
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Clever_User_Name wrote: »Hugs, not drugs
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Yes, it almost always bitter..2
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Eh, it's bittersweet I guess.0
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You might not like me, but you will respect me.2
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »You might not like me, but you will respect me.
Can’t I do both?1 -
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Clever_User_Name wrote: »I'm quite certain that I don't like you or you and especially you. I hate that feeling.
I know..
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orangegato wrote: »
Hmmmm.. how freaky we talking
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Oh crap.. why are you enticing her!!0
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I interrupt your regular programming for a GROUP HUG!!!!
I love you all. Each and every one of you make me smile. I need to be an octopus to give out multiple hugs. What is the collective noun for a group of octopuses? I need to be that.
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projectbradley wrote: »princess7955 wrote: »projectbradley wrote: »princess7955 wrote: »projectbradley wrote: »Just because you're riddled with insecurities doesn't mean others have to be. Thats a personal problem and has nothing to do with me or others.
Find some self love, fix the problem and don't look to place your issues on other people. I know my self worth, just find yours.
This could apply to 1/2 the people here.
Easier said than done.
Truth and not just here but in our everyday lives. I've lost a couple old friends where I can't even go out for drinks with them since losing weight because they're still overweight and obsessed with my fitness passive aggressively due to their insecurities.
At my age I feel like I've taken far too many hits in life and I've drawn a line that I won't sacrifice my self worth and integrity for anyone. Ever again. I've come a long way, even in the last 6 months and I'm still learning how to find that self love. I just wish others would focus on the same instead of reflecting that on others.
Congrats on your progress!
As someone who has very very low self confidence, I know that sometimes it takes another person to point out the positives to start to realize they may be right. Insecurities suck. Don't kick us when we are down. Take your positivity and hand it out. Like Oprah. Share that *kitten*. Pump each other up. Make someone's day.
I'm actually going to ahead and say one more thing because it's important to recognize this.
You're doing it right now and you don't even know it. You say "us" as in there's some type of club that I'm not part of. Herein lies the problem. You're segregating me as though I'm somehow different than you. I have insecurities as well since I'm actually just as much of a human being as you with the only difference in being my body. That's body shaming 101 whether I'm fat, fit or skinny. It's irrelevant if I'm further along in my journey, if you segregate me and shame me for my body it's the same feeling and people don't realize this.
This is me. Hi, I'm Bradley.
Now can I be part of the *kitten* club?
Awesome dedication brother0 -
What do I do now?0
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Hmmmm an unlikely story.0
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I love all you but at some point maybe we could stop quoting my post so I don't have to see my big ole man boobies every time I open this.5
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Oops I did it again0
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laprimaJenny wrote: »
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Well that song will be in my head now for the next 3 days, thanks for that.1
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Shoot me now0
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