How to find healthy motivation

Kermiya

Hi guys, I was doing pretty well motivating myself by saying I could get an attractive romantic partner... But after actually hooking up with someone I realized i don't actually want to be in a physical relationship with anyone right now... So I kind of lost my motivation because now I'm like why should I care how other people see me if Im not trying to get anyone? I know that I should be focusing on myself and not how other people see me anyway. I guess I just wanted to see if anyone has had similar experience or could talk earnestly about how they personally found motivation in better things

Moobear214

kermiya, motivation can come from a lot of things not just looking good for someone else. Just being healthy enough to just go anywhere, do anything without worries of not fitting in a seat, only walking a few minutes, and other issues. It opens up a whole world of stuff to enjoy even if you are only by yourself