Bathing Suit Challenge

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  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    edited March 2018
    Goal? Eh. I could post an old pic of myself ripped.

    But I find shame and humiliation more motivational.
  • cmurr11
    cmurr11 Posts: 22 Member
    edited March 2018
    Hello guys. I haven’t posted recently because I have had a gain. No loss. Cap, as far as my response to bell I think it was appropriate. After explaining what I meant, she went on to say I wasn’t wearing mine. It was not her place to be the judge of if my bathing suit is/was good enough for my own post. That’s all I have to say about that. Nobody seems to be posting in the group so I think it’s cool if we just use the thread. I will invite you guys who said you wanted to join. The only benefit of the group is the photos are more private so there are less concerns about trolling/anyone stealing the pics.
  • cmurr11
    cmurr11 Posts: 22 Member
    edited March 2018
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    March 2018 Pic. 195 lbs. Gain of 6ish pounds
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,571 Member
    cmurr11 wrote: »
    Hello guys. I haven’t posted recently because I have had a gain. No loss. Cap, as far as my response to bell I think it was appropriate. After explaining what I meant, she went on to say I wasn’t wearing mine. It was not her place to be the judge of if my bathing suit is/was good enough for my own post. That’s all I have to say about that. Nobody seems to be posting in the group so I think it’s cool if we just use the thread. I will invite you guys who said you wanted to join. The only benefit of the group is the photos are more private so there are less concerns about trolling/anyone stealing the pics.

    Dude. I wasn't judging. I was just confused.
  • cmurr11
    cmurr11 Posts: 22 Member
    edited March 2018
    Dude. After I explained what I meant the comment you made came across to me as counterproductive with an undertone of bad attitude. Why say “oh well that’s not what you’re wearing.”? What is the point of making a comment like that? I think it’s the wording. If you would have said “Oh I didn’t realize that was your bathing suit” I probably wouldn’t have side-eyed it so hard. So did I perceive it wrong? Perhaps. But for future reference in your life, when anyone does something that makes them insecure like takes a picture of their body they don’t like in a bathing suit with their belly showing, even if it doesn’t look like a bathing suit to you, maybe the only vibes you should put out there are supportive/or positive. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I wish you well on your fitness journey.
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,571 Member
    cmurr11 wrote: »
    Dude. After I explained what I meant the comment you made came across to me as counterproductive with an undertone of bad attitude. Why say “oh well that’s not what you’re wearing.”? What is the point of making a comment like that? I think it’s the wording. If you would have said “Oh I didn’t realize that was your bathing suit” I probably wouldn’t have side-eyed it so hard. So did I perceive it wrong? Perhaps. But for future reference in your life, when anyone does something that makes them insecure like takes a picture of their body they don’t like in a bathing suit with their belly showing, even if it doesn’t look like a bathing suit to you, maybe the only vibes you should put out there are supportive/or positive. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I wish you well on your fitness journey.

    bleh. bye.
  • cmurr11
    cmurr11 Posts: 22 Member
    I wonder if anyone from 2018 is still here?

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