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AllYouNeedIsLuv
AllYouNeedIsLuv Posts: 1,696 Member
edited November 2024 in Fun and Games
Ok rules
So ladies ask the men a question and men answer!!
So Guys ask the ladies a question and ladies answer!!
Ex: guys do you like it when a girl send you quotes?
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  • KeepRunningFatboy
    KeepRunningFatboy Posts: 3,055 Member
    I like to receive motivational and inspirational quotes.

    Ladies: do you feel that you are wxpected to compete with the women featured in pop culture models magazines social media sites and videos by men ?
  • angel4732
    angel4732 Posts: 14,898 Member
    I like to receive motivational and inspirational quotes.

    Ladies: do you feel that you are wxpected to compete with the women featured in pop culture models magazines social media sites and videos by men ?

    Not me personally no but I do see why a lot of women do. I think as we get older we care less

    Men : Do you find strong, independent women intimidating?
  • THS2SHALLPASS
    THS2SHALLPASS Posts: 1,569 Member
    Nope, i find it sexy.
    Women: If a guy is in the gym everyday and your clearly checking him out but he never acknowledges, do you approach him?
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    edited February 2018
    Nope, i find it sexy.
    Women: If a guy is in the gym everyday and your clearly checking him out but he never acknowledges, do you approach him?

    probably. I know what i want :p

    guys: are girls in short shorts/compression shorts at the gym ALWAYS looking for attention in your mind, Even if they are clearly working hard and not just eyelash batting lifting a 2 lb barbell (do those even exist?)
  • JustSomeJD
    JustSomeJD Posts: 416 Member
    I don’t do the gym so I can’t answer that one but I have a question.

    Ladies, why do you say “nothing” or “I’m fine” instead of telling your SO what is wrong or why you are kitten like? We aren’t mind readers. ;)
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    JustSomeJD wrote: »
    I don’t do the gym so I can’t answer that one but I have a question.

    Ladies, why do you say “nothing” or “I’m fine” instead of telling your SO what is wrong or why you are kitten like? We aren’t mind readers. ;)

    i dont that annoys me to. Although sometimes when im mad its honestly just going to lead nowhere good if i start the conversation so i just put it off. Normally id say that though lol.

    Guess im keeping my old question above
  • THS2SHALLPASS
    THS2SHALLPASS Posts: 1,569 Member
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    Nope, i find it sexy.
    Women: If a guy is in the gym everyday and your clearly checking him out but he never acknowledges, do you approach him?

    probably. I know what i want :p

    guys: are girls in short shorts/compression shorts at the gym ALWAYS looking for attention in your mind, Even if they are clearly working hard and not just eyelash batting lifting a 2 lb barbell (do those even exist?)

    First, please come to my gym and approach my overly shy *kitten* if i fit what you want lol...
    Some girls are there for attention only. Most in my gym are just working hard. Im too chickenshit to talk to any of them anyways.

    Women: are you attracted to vascularity or is it a turn off?
  • Merrysailor5
    Merrysailor5 Posts: 1,424 Member
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    Nope, i find it sexy.
    Women: If a guy is in the gym everyday and your clearly checking him out but he never acknowledges, do you approach him?

    probably. I know what i want :p

    guys: are girls in short shorts/compression shorts at the gym ALWAYS looking for attention in your mind, Even if they are clearly working hard and not just eyelash batting lifting a 2 lb barbell (do those even exist?)

    First, please come to my gym and approach my overly shy *kitten* if i fit what you want lol...
    Some girls are there for attention only. Most in my gym are just working hard. Im too chickenshit to talk to any of them anyways.

    Women: are you attracted to vascularity or is it a turn off?

    Yes. But, I’m slightly biased because I’m a nurse.

    Men: what is with picking the most inoppurtune moment to try to chat up a girl at the gym?
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,169 Member
    JaydedMiss wrote: »

    Yes. But, I’m slightly biased because I’m a nurse.

    Men: what is with picking the most inoppurtune moment to try to chat up a girl at the gym?

    Can't speak for other men, but for me, it's because I'm a social idiot....actually, I gave up chatting up girls at the gym....

    Women: Why do I keep hearing women say that looks are not the most important thing in a man, but they always seem to go after the handsome guys with no personality and the guys with the personality end up just being their friend (to whom they always complain to about the handsome guy they hooked up with....)?
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,169 Member
    edited February 2018
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    Nope, i find it sexy.
    Women: If a guy is in the gym everyday and your clearly checking him out but he never acknowledges, do you approach him?

    probably. I know what i want :p

    guys: are girls in short shorts/compression shorts at the gym ALWAYS looking for attention in your mind, Even if they are clearly working hard and not just eyelash batting lifting a 2 lb barbell (do those even exist?)

    First, please come to my gym and approach my overly shy *kitten* if i fit what you want lol...
    Some girls are there for attention only. Most in my gym are just working hard. Im too chickenshit to talk to any of them anyways.

    Women: are you attracted to vascularity or is it a turn off?

    Yes. But, I’m slightly biased because I’m a nurse.

    Men: what is with picking the most inoppurtune moment to try to chat up a girl at the gym?

    Can't speak for other men, but for me it's because I'm a social idiot...actually I gave up chatting up girls....

    Women: Why does it seem that most women say looks are not the most important thing they want in a man, but always seem to go after the good looking guys with no smarts or personality. And the guys who have the smarts and personality always end up as their good friend (to whom they complain about the good looking bozo they hooked up with....)?

    Also known as the Nice Guys Finish Last Syndrome
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    Nope, i find it sexy.
    Women: If a guy is in the gym everyday and your clearly checking him out but he never acknowledges, do you approach him?

    probably. I know what i want :p

    guys: are girls in short shorts/compression shorts at the gym ALWAYS looking for attention in your mind, Even if they are clearly working hard and not just eyelash batting lifting a 2 lb barbell (do those even exist?)

    First, please come to my gym and approach my overly shy *kitten* if i fit what you want lol...
    Some girls are there for attention only. Most in my gym are just working hard. Im too chickenshit to talk to any of them anyways.

    Women: are you attracted to vascularity or is it a turn off?

    Yes. But, I’m slightly biased because I’m a nurse.

    Men: what is with picking the most inoppurtune moment to try to chat up a girl at the gym?

    Can't speak for other men, but for me it's because I'm a social idiot...actually I gave up chatting up girls....

    Women: Why does it seem that most women say looks are not the most important thing they want in a man, but always seem to go after the good looking guys with no smarts or personality. And the guys who have the smarts and personality always end up as their good friend (to whom they complain about the good looking bozo they hooked up with....)?

    Also known as the Nice Guys Finish Last Syndrome

    I like a guy who challenges me intellectually and can also make me genuinely laugh. Nice hands are a must and I have to be physically attracted to you. Attractiveness is subjective. You may be hideous to one woman and super hawt to another. None of my friends have ever found one of my boyfriends attractive, but I believe I date very attractive men. To each their own.
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    Men: What is the one thing you would never put up with in a relationship?
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,169 Member
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What is the one thing you would never put up with in a relationship?

    Physical and emotional abuse

    Women: Same question
  • UltraVegAthlete
    UltraVegAthlete Posts: 667 Member
    edited February 2018
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What is the one thing you would never put up with in a relationship?

    Physical and emotional abuse

    Women: Same question

    Yeah, what you said about abuse. Another thing would be telling me how to live my life. What to eat, how to look, what job I can have, who I can talk to...

    Men: Do you see crying as a form of weakness in other men?
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    edited February 2018
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What is the one thing you would never put up with in a relationship?

    Physical and emotional abuse

    Women: Same question

    Honestly, I've put up with so much I'm not even sure.

    Edit: Cheating, for sure cheating.
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,169 Member
    whosshe wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What is the one thing you would never put up with in a relationship?

    Physical and emotional abuse

    Women: Same question

    Honestly, I've put up with so much I'm not even sure.

    Edit: Cheating, for sure cheating.

    To me, cheating falls under the heading of emotional abuse

    About the crying.....depends on the reason for the crying....

    Women: If a man cries do you think of him as less of a man?
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What is the one thing you would never put up with in a relationship?

    Physical and emotional abuse

    Women: Same question

    Honestly, I've put up with so much I'm not even sure.

    Edit: Cheating, for sure cheating.

    To me, cheating falls under the heading of emotional abuse

    About the crying.....depends on the reason for the crying....

    Women: If a man cries do you think of him as less of a man?

    Depends on the reason for crying lol

    If it's over something like a death, then no of course not. But if it's over something like a commercial about babies..... then maybe?
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,169 Member
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?
  • Merrysailor5
    Merrysailor5 Posts: 1,424 Member
    edited February 2018
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    .
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    edited February 2018
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    .



    said nothing :o so...
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    i have 1 move im emberassed to admit i use but i have really long beautiful hair that ill admit i give a nice flip and a wink. *kitten* works every time to get the attention then i walk over and say hi :p its so emberassing LOL

    guys: Do you find semi childish women a turn off or refreshing?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    Have your *kitten* together, take care of yourself, carry yourself well and be humble... Or at least that's what I try to do

    Women: What was it about your SO that sealed or seals the deal?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    .



    said nothing :o so...
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    i have 1 move im emberassed to admit i use but i have really long beautiful hair that ill admit i give a nice flip and a wink. *kitten* works every time to get the attention then i walk over and say hi :p its so emberassing LOL

    guys: Do you find semi childish women a turn off or refreshing?

    Dig it!
  • whosshe
    whosshe Posts: 597 Member
    edited February 2018
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    Have your *kitten* together, take care of yourself, carry yourself well and be humble... Or at least that's what I try to do

    Women: What was it about your SO that sealed or seals the deal?

    How much my daughter loves him.......... and his dog.

    Men: Same question.
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,169 Member
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    .



    said nothing :o so...
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    i have 1 move im emberassed to admit i use but i have really long beautiful hair that ill admit i give a nice flip and a wink. *kitten* works every time to get the attention then i walk over and say hi :p its so emberassing LOL

    guys: Do you find semi childish women a turn off or refreshing?

    I find it a turn off...if I wanted a child I would adopt. I prefer a woman who is an adult and acts like one...confident but not arrogant, kind, strong when needed, soft when needed. I don't want games and prefer open, honest communication...

    Women: What is it that one quality you find MOST attractive in a man (I know...each person is going to have a different quality in mind...but throw it out there....)
  • Shredder583
    Shredder583 Posts: 180 Member
    angel4732 wrote: »
    I like to receive motivational and inspirational quotes.

    Ladies: do you feel that you are wxpected to compete with the women featured in pop culture models magazines social media sites and videos by men ?

    Not me personally no but I do see why a lot of women do. I think as we get older we care less

    Men : Do you find strong, independent women intimidating?

    Independant strong women are turn on. They know what they want and i am there to help them achieve! Nothing better in my mind when a woman knows what she wants.....no stopping her
  • angel4732
    angel4732 Posts: 14,898 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    .



    said nothing :o so...
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    i have 1 move im emberassed to admit i use but i have really long beautiful hair that ill admit i give a nice flip and a wink. *kitten* works every time to get the attention then i walk over and say hi :p its so emberassing LOL

    guys: Do you find semi childish women a turn off or refreshing?

    I find it a turn off...if I wanted a child I would adopt. I prefer a woman who is an adult and acts like one...confident but not arrogant, kind, strong when needed, soft when needed. I don't want games and prefer open, honest communication...

    Women: What is it that one quality you find MOST attractive in a man (I know...each person is going to have a different quality in mind...but throw it out there....)

    Intelligence and the ability to hold a conversation, every time

    Men : What's the one thing about a woman that would turn you off?
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    whosshe wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    Have your *kitten* together, take care of yourself, carry yourself well and be humble... Or at least that's what I try to do

    Women: What was it about your SO that sealed or seals the deal?

    How much my daughter loves him.......... and his dog.

    Men: Same question.

    She seemed like a very kind person, and she just understands me in a way I don't think anyone else was ever meant to.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    angel4732 wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    .



    said nothing :o so...
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    i have 1 move im emberassed to admit i use but i have really long beautiful hair that ill admit i give a nice flip and a wink. *kitten* works every time to get the attention then i walk over and say hi :p its so emberassing LOL

    guys: Do you find semi childish women a turn off or refreshing?

    I find it a turn off...if I wanted a child I would adopt. I prefer a woman who is an adult and acts like one...confident but not arrogant, kind, strong when needed, soft when needed. I don't want games and prefer open, honest communication...

    Women: What is it that one quality you find MOST attractive in a man (I know...each person is going to have a different quality in mind...but throw it out there....)

    Intelligence and the ability to hold a conversation, every time

    Men : What's the one thing about a woman that would turn you off?

    Belittles people

    Women: Same q
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    edited February 2018
    angel4732 wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    .



    said nothing :o so...
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    whosshe wrote: »
    Men: What's the best advice you ever got about how to woo a woman?

    I don't think I ever got any GOOD advice....I have always tried to treat everyone with respect...Care about her as a person and let her know that she is appreciated and admired....good communications (and always ended up as friends listening to her complain about the *kitten* hole that she hooked up with...)

    Women: How do you get the attention of a man you find attractive?

    i have 1 move im emberassed to admit i use but i have really long beautiful hair that ill admit i give a nice flip and a wink. *kitten* works every time to get the attention then i walk over and say hi :p its so emberassing LOL

    guys: Do you find semi childish women a turn off or refreshing?

    I find it a turn off...if I wanted a child I would adopt. I prefer a woman who is an adult and acts like one...confident but not arrogant, kind, strong when needed, soft when needed. I don't want games and prefer open, honest communication...

    Women: What is it that one quality you find MOST attractive in a man (I know...each person is going to have a different quality in mind...but throw it out there....)

    Intelligence and the ability to hold a conversation, every time

    Men : What's the one thing about a woman that would turn you off?

    Belittles people

    Women: Same q

    Bros who hear im into fitness/lost weight and instantly start telling me to eat more protein or to do this exercise etc. Without even knowing what my exercise/nutrition is like. At all. Like bish did you not just hear that i lost 110 pounds. Do i seem like i cant feed myself/ dunno what im doing?

    (possibly just happened at the gym im still pissy lol)

    guys: You hear a girl has 5 pets.....do you judge her unkindly for it? Crazy cat lady? lmao.
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