Would you rather communicate with your friends on your post or PM

rockmartin50
rockmartin50 Posts: 1,747 Member
edited November 24 in Chit-Chat
For me i like to PM my friends to get to know them better some people don't like to respond what is your input on this

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  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    edited February 2018
    PM. No need to blow up their feed.

    ETA- Unless you just want to wish them a good day. Nothing wrong with showing their wall a little love.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    I don't want people here to get to know me better. I put what I want people to know about me in my public posts.

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  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    If I infer that they'd rather not mention something specific in a public post in which they mentioned it vaguely, and if it piques my interest enough, I'll ask them in a PM to be specific.

    If I'm scrolling through my news and see a several-day-old comment that piques my interest, I'll ask about it in a PM.
  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    My circle is small and most of my friends on my list I've known for a year or more so they have gotten to know me through my updates and very few through pm so they don't feel the need to bother me with pms 'trying' to get to know me better. It's usually the new added friends that tend to send those and that's when I straight up tell them I don't like pms. If they want to get to know me, pay attention to what I post.
  • iamunicoon
    iamunicoon Posts: 839 Member
    I like some encouragement through likes and comments.

    But if people actually want to talk to me, I prefer PM because I feel that it can easily feel like we're excluding others. I think public conversations should always be as open and inclusive as possible, so everyone can just chime in. Anything else belongs in a PM.
  • melissawill2017
    melissawill2017 Posts: 1,131 Member
    If you really want to get to know me then PM me otherwise I’m perfectly content with shallow public forum convo!
  • BeamingBadass
    BeamingBadass Posts: 1,454 Member
    If you're genuinely trying to get to know me PM
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Friends?
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
    PM if you wanna know my story. Kik if you wanna see my pink parts

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  • Egger29
    Egger29 Posts: 14,741 Member
    If you really want to get to know me then PM me otherwise I’m perfectly content with shallow public forum convo!

    Mmmm....Shallow Public Forum Comments.... B)B)B);)
  • melissawill2017
    melissawill2017 Posts: 1,131 Member
    Egger29 wrote: »
    If you really want to get to know me then PM me otherwise I’m perfectly content with shallow public forum convo!

    Mmmm....Shallow Public Forum Comments.... B)B)B);)

    Friends are the exception.. if you’re a friend you can chat me up in any capacity :)
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Wall love is ok but anything more than a general hi I'd rather a pm.
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