Help with weekend cheat meals pls
amgjb
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Hey,
I’m about 1 homemade chicken kebab away from murder.
I really struggle to stay on track over the weekend because pizza and beer keep shouting at me.
I’m trying to improve and I make a mean chicken kebab but it’s getting a bit boring and I need some new ideas.
What’s your favourite treat meal to give you a fix over the weekend while remaining within your goals?
I’m about 1 homemade chicken kebab away from murder.
I really struggle to stay on track over the weekend because pizza and beer keep shouting at me.
I’m trying to improve and I make a mean chicken kebab but it’s getting a bit boring and I need some new ideas.
What’s your favourite treat meal to give you a fix over the weekend while remaining within your goals?
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Fit pizza into your weekly goal?7
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It’s a lifestyle thing buddy, you know how it goes. I’m trying to up my calorie burn to justify the bigger intake but if I could do that and find more substitutes then I would get a double win.3
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If pizza is screaming out you now how much worse will it be 20 kebabs from now? Your double win may turn into a cascade failure. I know. I have done it enough times. Some of those times with pizza. Now I fit pizza into my plan along with many other of the things you think you have to avoid.
You will need to be more specific on the kinds of things you like to eat to get suggestions. There are millions of recipes with an infinite numbers of modifications.
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I don’t have cheat meals per se, because I find when I do, I’m more likely to lose control and eat everything I can get my hands on.
I’ve just tried to find lower calorie options for the foods I love- eg, we make homemade burgers and sweet potato fries, which we find very satisfying. I buy sorbet ice-block bars for when I’m feeling like ice cream (because the sorbet is lower calorie and I find it just as satisfying). I usually fit these foods into my week, instead of waiting for the weekend, because then it’s just a normal part of my eating, instead of feeling like I’m waiting to have my “treat”.
Have you tried low-alcohol beer and making your own pizza? We make pizza on a Lebanese bread base with heaps of veggies, and a little cheese. It’s delicious.
I’ve also found that low-alcohol wine (when I feel like a drink) is just as satisfying as the full strength stuff, and it saves me calories!3 -
I eat pretty healthfully for the most part. I still have pizza and movie nights most Friday nights with the fam. I get pub grub once or twice per month. We like to go out to a nice big brunch about once per month and we get together with friends to cook out once or twice per month.
I don't really view those things as "cheating"...they're part of living life and enjoying life. I live a much healthier lifestyle these days as compared to nearly 6 years ago when I started all of this...but I don't think everything has to be 100% healthful 100% of the time. I would find that incredibly boring and I probably wouldn't have lasted this long.
There's lots more out there than chicken and chicken kabobs. I eat a lot of chicken, fish, lean cuts of beef and pork. I have about a million different recipes for things saved on Pinterest. IMO, if you're largely cooking at home using scratch, whole food or minimally processed ingredients, it's usually going to be something pretty healthful.
I'll be having my usual pizza night tomorrow night...Saturday evening we have friends coming into town and we're going to grill some nice, lean sirloin steaks and hang out on the patio. Not sure what Sunday will bring yet...probably a roasted pork tenderloin.5 -
It’s a lifestyle thing buddy, you know how it goes. I’m trying to up my calorie burn to justify the bigger intake but if I could do that and find more substitutes then I would get a double win.
She's right though. I still eat pizza almost every week. There are things you can do to get those calories down though:
-exercise more, as you said
-follow a weekly calorie goal where you eat a bit less during the week to have additional calories on weekends/special occasions
-a lot of people go homemade so they know exactly what they're eating, and some go with different types of crust to save more calories (tortillas or cauliflower-based crusts are popular)5 -
http://www.cookinglight.com/recipes/roasted-veggie-mac-cheese
I love this one! I have made this a couple times for my best friend using gluten free pasta. It tastes indulgent but it’s full of good for you veggies and fiber. This is a good meal prep as it reheats well.0 -
For my “cheat meal”, I usually do something like some seaweed salad with some assorted sushi (probably just sashimi/nigiri, no rolls). Still low cal but feels like a treat.1
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I eat pizza once a week and usually a bigger pasta dish once a week as well and can lose 1lb/wk. For me, it's fitting it in my weekly calories and having a couple 6mi runs that week. Also, with pizza we order out and I try not to over buy so there is just enough for my kids and I (3 slices for me).1
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I wonder if you could retrain yourself to live a life without "cheat meals," but instead, commit to logging everything and holding back weekday calories, so that you can splurge on that weekend pizza.
That's what I do anyway... Tonight is homemade pizza and movie night!0 -
Do HIIT cardio 3x per week along with steady state and weight training. Then only eat pizza and beer and make sure its less than your calories for the day and you'll lose weight. Skip your other meals. Call a slice of pizza 250 cals and a beer 150 cals. 3 slices & 3 beers is 1200 cals. May not be the most nutritious diet but you can eat what you want. Just stay in a deficit.4
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Get some pre-made store dough and bake your own medium one and make sure you have someone to share with. It really doesn't break the bank if you watch what you put on it. A little cheese goes a long way, melted.0
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I agree with the 'make your own pizza' route - lots of veggie topping, a small amount of strong cheddar and some ham. Simple to do. Delicious and not a big calorie hit.
Oven baked breaded fish and chips is not so bad calorie wise and certainly better than the take away deep fry (er, can you tell I'm a Brit!). I get Lots of veggie dishes and dahl if we get a take out Indian.
But I wonder if the real problem is the beer. That when you have the one - then the second - the willpower goes.... and it all goes downhill. Or you get more fed up with the options you know.
I like you prefer to relax a little at weekends. But maybe if you held back a little on the shopping beer wise you could keep this more under control. (And buy ahead a lower calorie store pizza? So you don't order in beer inspired delivery choice?!)
And possibly spend your money on exploring new foods instead - there is a lot of great stuff to eat beyond pizza ... a lot of oriental food is really tasty for the calories for example. Try greek food too. Make kedgeree. Or Home made lasagne (add lentils and lots of veggies to the meat base; use a large pot of yoghurt with an egg mixed in it to replace the bechemel sauce).
Is it time to go to the bookstore and find a 'healthy' cook book you like the picture in that inspires you into new recipes?
You sound a bit 'stuck in a grove' - and you have some great suggestions in the posts above to think about.
Good luck
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TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.8 -
TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.
A couple of days at maintenance if you really want pizza isn't a big deal, is it?
How much pizza do you need to eat?!5 -
It’s a lifestyle thing buddy, you know how it goes. I’m trying to up my calorie burn to justify the bigger intake but if I could do that and find more substitutes then I would get a double win.
So eat half a pizza?
Or make your own to match your available calories for this so called cheat meal.2 -
Some great suggestions here!0
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TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.
I’m going to use a phrase that I hate to make a point about a phrase that you used that I also hate...
“Don’t take this the wrong way but...”
anyone who says “must be nice” in response to something that someone else has, or does, that they aren’t doing doesn’t actually have any feelings related to being happy for that other person. That phrase is usually only coming from a place of resentment and jealousy, and seriously, you’re resentful that people can work pizza in their daily calories? It’s a choice! You can make that choice too! You’ve chosen to focus on your body aesthetic and trying to achieve really admirable, aggressive goals for yourself. You are striving for something that most people don’t even consider a possibility.
Yes I eat pizza and fit it into my calories, I had it last night, with a glass of wine and two cookies even, and I wasn’t over my calories. I’m not saying that to brag I’m saying it’s truly possible to eat these foods and still meet MY goals but those are not YOUR goals. Perhaps you should consider just how important the training and body composition is to you if hearing that people can easily fit pizza into their weekly goals prompts you to make a comment that sort of sounds nice but really means that you are loathing that person inside. Because you know what’s even less fun than not eating pizza? Not eating pizza and stewing about other people who can eat pizza because they’ve made different goal choices than you have.20 -
OP I would question whether you’ve chosen too restrictive of a plan if you don’t feel like you can accommodate the foods you really enjoy on a regular basis. Whether you call it a cheat meal, saving calories for a weekend indulgence, flexible dieting or loosen up the reins a little every day to accommodate the foods you desire, finding a long term strategy that accommodates something like this is usually recommended.
I don’t care for the term “cheat meal” or the approach. I do sometimes bank calories during the week because I know on the weekends I’m going to be eating out and having bigger meals. But I have something sweet pretty much every day, and I have pizza maybe once a week or every other with my family. We made them last night - I had one small (6 inches) very thin crust pizza with pesto, chicken sausage, red peppers and artichoke hearts. The whole thing was less than 600 cals. Pretty easy to fit that in even without saving up cals for it. I usually have salad with it as well but didn’t last night, I did have a glass of wine and a couple Girl Scout cookies afterwards, and it didn’t even put me over my cals for the day.1 -
Homemade pizza and a really good beer or two, FTW!1
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TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.
You sound hangry. Have a Snickers.6 -
TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.
I could easily fit gluten free pizza into my day, but it doesn't fill me up so I don't eat it. That's my choice and I'm happy with it because I'm meeting the goals I want to meet and I'm in control of my choices.
Someone else making a different choice? Good on them! I'm happy for them!
Don't rain on someone else's parade with your resentment which springs from your choices because you have different goals. Own your choices and the lifestyle that comes with them and just stop with posting how you resent other people making different choices.9 -
Hey,
I’m about 1 homemade chicken kebab away from murder.
I really struggle to stay on track over the weekend because pizza and beer keep shouting at me.
I’m trying to improve and I make a mean chicken kebab but it’s getting a bit boring and I need some new ideas.
What’s your favourite treat meal to give you a fix over the weekend while remaining within your goals?
Stop thinking of it as cheating. Can you really see yourself as living without pizza forever?
Does pizza fit within your calorie budget? Is there a way to make it fit by maybe eating less and having a side salad or banking calories during the week for it?
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Yesterday I had 3 slices of pizza and a cup of soda but it took a bit of planning. Pizza macros aren't terrible but since it's higher calorie, it takes a bit of planning for me. I maintain on 2300 so I have more running room than others.
I can't imagine living without treat foods so I Incorporate them into my well balanced healthy diet. The reason why I do it is because I know deprivation doesn't work in the long run. Deprivation leads to a nasty cycle of over eating and then under eating for some. So I Incorporate instead of eliminate .
It takes work to successfully incorporate but its easier for me in the long run. It was worth truly learning moderation and portion control because I'm better for long term.4 -
Eat the pizza, have the beer. Just eat something low calorie for the rest of the day and do your best to remain within your daily calorie allotment. I couldn't survive on a deprivation diet, because life is too short and I like food. Plus, the pizza and beer are usually shared with friends. I socialize with people, and we eat food. So eat a little less today, and maybe a little less calorie-wise tomorrow, and you'll at least hit your weekly calorie limit. Plan.2
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GottaBurnEmAll wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.
I could easily fit gluten free pizza into my day, but it doesn't fill me up so I don't eat it. That's my choice and I'm happy with it because I'm meeting the goals I want to meet and I'm in control of my choices.
Someone else making a different choice? Good on them! I'm happy for them!
Don't rain on someone else's parade with your resentment which springs from your choices because you have different goals. Own your choices and the lifestyle that comes with them and just stop with posting how you resent other people making different choices.
Okay. Thanks4 -
WinoGelato wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.
I’m going to use a phrase that I hate to make a point about a phrase that you used that I also hate...
“Don’t take this the wrong way but...”
anyone who says “must be nice” in response to something that someone else has, or does, that they aren’t doing doesn’t actually have any feelings related to being happy for that other person. That phrase is usually only coming from a place of resentment and jealousy, and seriously, you’re resentful that people can work pizza in their daily calories? It’s a choice! You can make that choice too! You’ve chosen to focus on your body aesthetic and trying to achieve really admirable, aggressive goals for yourself. You are striving for something that most people don’t even consider a possibility.
Yes I eat pizza and fit it into my calories, I had it last night, with a glass of wine and two cookies even, and I wasn’t over my calories. I’m not saying that to brag I’m saying it’s truly possible to eat these foods and still meet MY goals but those are not YOUR goals. Perhaps you should consider just how important the training and body composition is to you if hearing that people can easily fit pizza into their weekly goals prompts you to make a comment that sort of sounds nice but really means that you are loathing that person inside. Because you know what’s even less fun than not eating pizza? Not eating pizza and stewing about other people who can eat pizza because they’ve made different goal choices than you have.
Listen. I get what you're saying. But sometimes I feel like a few members brag a lot. And for me it's not the fact that this person can fit pizza or a burger into their day, it's more that I can't moderate like that. And sometimes I think people forget that I'm not the only one who can't moderate.
I was better at moderating before I started counting calories.4 -
Anyway OP, I kind of get what you're saying. Weekends are hard for me. I have a lot of time to myself and do like to eat. If I eat pizza I don't have much room for anything else.
Some things I do to create volume but happiness:
Taco salads with ground turkey
Pizza salads with turkey pepperoni but I could really use regular
Halo Top ice cream
Big protein shakes
Air popped popcorn
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To avoid chicken burnout, I avoid chicken. There's other ways to get protein and other ways to enjoy food.0
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WinoGelato wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »Fit pizza into your weekly goal?
I kinda hate how people make this sound so easy. Must be nice.
I’m going to use a phrase that I hate to make a point about a phrase that you used that I also hate...
“Don’t take this the wrong way but...”
anyone who says “must be nice” in response to something that someone else has, or does, that they aren’t doing doesn’t actually have any feelings related to being happy for that other person. That phrase is usually only coming from a place of resentment and jealousy, and seriously, you’re resentful that people can work pizza in their daily calories? It’s a choice! You can make that choice too! You’ve chosen to focus on your body aesthetic and trying to achieve really admirable, aggressive goals for yourself. You are striving for something that most people don’t even consider a possibility.
Yes I eat pizza and fit it into my calories, I had it last night, with a glass of wine and two cookies even, and I wasn’t over my calories. I’m not saying that to brag I’m saying it’s truly possible to eat these foods and still meet MY goals but those are not YOUR goals. Perhaps you should consider just how important the training and body composition is to you if hearing that people can easily fit pizza into their weekly goals prompts you to make a comment that sort of sounds nice but really means that you are loathing that person inside. Because you know what’s even less fun than not eating pizza? Not eating pizza and stewing about other people who can eat pizza because they’ve made different goal choices than you have.
Listen. I get what you're saying. But sometimes I feel like a few members brag a lot. And for me it's not the fact that this person can fit pizza or a burger into their day, it's more that I can't moderate like that. And sometimes I think people forget that I'm not the only one who can't moderate.
I was better at moderating before I started counting calories.
There are things I can't moderate either. Quite a few of them.
I could moderate a lot better when I still had a higher body fat percentage and now I just can't do it without binges happening.
So I feel frustration at not being able to moderate.
What I don't feel is being resentful that other people can. They're not bragging, they're making suggestions. I remember how it felt to learn that moderation was an option back when I first started using it during the stage of dieting when I was able to implement it and it was so liberating. We're told constantly by the dieting industry that we must deprive ourselves or we'll never lose weight, and to find out it wasn't true was empowering.
Now that I've found that I do need to keep foods away from myself? Well, um, that's my thing. Not someone else's, you know?5
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