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Posts: 43 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
Looking for someone I can vent to just for today, to get some stuff off my chest and for some advice.

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  • Posts: 7,074 Member
    Vent away!
  • Posts: 897 Member
    I'm no good with advice but I'll listen to you vent
  • Posts: 5,088 Member
    J3Ramos23 wrote: »
    Looking for someone I can vent to just for today, to get some stuff off my chest and for some advice.

    https://www.7cups.com/

    It's free.
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    Do you find it clingy if someone thinks of their partner throughout the day?
  • Posts: 897 Member
    J3Ramos23 wrote: »
    Do you find it clingy if someone thinks of their partner throughout the day?

    not at all????
    i think thats normal, and also very sweet
  • Posts: 7,074 Member
    J3Ramos23 wrote: »
    Do you find it clingy if someone thinks of their partner throughout the day?

    Depends.
    Are you going "aww, my partner is great. I miss my partner."
    Or ..
    "I wonder where my partner is, what they're doing, who they talk to, what do they say."
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    of course not. if you text ten times an hour or more...than yes clingy
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    81Katz wrote: »

    Depends.
    Are you going "aww, my partner is great. I miss my partner."
    Or ..
    "I wonder where my partner is, what they're doing, who they talk to, what do they say."

    This. There's a line between clingy, stage 5 clinger and just plain controlling stalker.
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    81Katz wrote: »

    Depends.
    Are you going "aww, my partner is great. I miss my partner."
    Or ..
    "I wonder where my partner is, what they're doing, who they talk to, what do they say."

    agreed. if you're just thinking of them and missing them and can't wait to be with them again..normal.
    overtexting, overly concerned with where they are, who they're with, what they're doing...not normal
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    This. There's a line between clingy, stage 5 clinger and just plain controlling stalker.

    OMG I think I'm a clinger. How can I find out what stage?
  • Posts: 43 Member
    pnehiley wrote: »

    not at all????
    i think thats normal, and also very sweet

    Thank you
  • Posts: 43 Member
    81Katz wrote: »

    Depends.
    Are you going "aww, my partner is great. I miss my partner."
    Or ..
    "I wonder where my partner is, what they're doing, who they talk to, what do they say."

    No not the stalker type. It's more of "I want to be next to" type of thinkjng
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    Just_J_Now wrote: »

    OMG I think I'm a clinger. How can I find out what stage?

    What making you think your the clingy type?
  • Posts: 43 Member
    pnehiley wrote: »

    agreed. if you're just thinking of them and missing them and can't wait to be with them again..normal.
    overtexting, overly concerned with where they are, who they're with, what they're doing...not normal

    It's more of the I miss them. I'm not the jealous type
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    not at all. i miss the people i care about after not seeing and chatting with them. just be sure to give them their space. we're in a time where you can communicate all day long and that gets old quick.

    Thank you, that was good help. I'm not like a soft dude but when I get around the female I like, I can be really loving.
  • Posts: 33,068 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »

    OMG I think I'm a clinger. How can I find out what stage?

    LOL what are we talking about here, over texting, unsolicited bewb pics, showing up at his office or house uninvited?
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