Say it..... without really saying it.

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  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
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    Someone who hates you normally hates you for one of three reasons. They either see you as a threat. They hate themselves. Or they want to be you.

    Oh really? Good to know.....

    She said normally

    Oh really? Good to know......

    Well certainly some people are hated just because they are terrible people, right?

    I suppose......but i think hating a "terrible" person is a waste of time. If a person harmed my family maybe i could hate. But if the person has nothing to do with my life, then its a waste of energy in my opinion to even give them a thought. Unless of course what makes them terrible in your eyes makes you see the ugly truth in yourself, then it may be hard to let it go.....maybe....

    I believe that some people do hate people because they see their own flaws in that person. Other people are hated for good reason. I doubt many people see themselves in Charlie Manson

    Sure, there are outliers in every scenario. But i dont think its a stretch to have strong feeling of hate towards a person responsible for the murder of multiple people incuding a woman carrying a child.....its like saying, im not a fan of cancer! Strong stance ;)

    So do you believe that most people hate others because they are jealous of them or that they see their own flaws in them?
    If I saw my flaws in someone else and hated that attribute of them I would work on fixing myself, not waste my time on hating them. It does happen though. I just don't know how often. I would like to think that the majority of hated people really deserve it (like Manson) and that is not the outlier, but that the outlier is the jealous twit.
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Someone who hates you normally hates you for one of three reasons. They either see you as a threat. They hate themselves. Or they want to be you.

    Oh really? Good to know.....

    She said normally

    Oh really? Good to know......

    Well certainly some people are hated just because they are terrible people, right?

    I suppose......but i think hating a "terrible" person is a waste of time. If a person harmed my family maybe i could hate. But if the person has nothing to do with my life, then its a waste of energy in my opinion to even give them a thought. Unless of course what makes them terrible in your eyes makes you see the ugly truth in yourself, then it may be hard to let it go.....maybe....

    I believe that some people do hate people because they see their own flaws in that person. Other people are hated for good reason. I doubt many people see themselves in Charlie Manson

    Sure, there are outliers in every scenario. But i dont think its a stretch to have strong feeling of hate towards a person responsible for the murder of multiple people incuding a woman carrying a child.....its like saying, im not a fan of cancer! Strong stance ;)

    So do you believe that most people hate others because they are jealous of them or that they see their own flaws in them?
    If I saw my flaws in someone else and hated that attribute of them I would work on fixing myself, not waste my time on hating them. It does happen though. I just don't know how often. I would like to think that the majority of hated people really deserve it (like Manson) and that is not the outlier, but that the outlier is the jealous twit.

    I dont believe most of "hated" people deserve to be hated. Its mostly hyperbole when people say that. Again, if someone deeply affects you negatively in your life, say an abusive spouse, or something that can scar physically or emotionally, then yeah hate can happen. But peole tend to be dramatic and hate everything and everyone that may have caused them discomfort. An annoying co worker.....getting butt hurt on the internet, slow people at the DMV.....people all hate these things.....but not one of them cant be walked away from and forgotten. So i say.....chill.....it should be hard to hate.

    Then maybe we are on the same page and don't realize it. I don't hate people, even those I probably should. The people I dislike deserve it. A LOT. They are bad people. I don't waste my time hating them.
    Maybe "hate" is overused and an exaggeration for most. I think true hatred is usually deserved though. Maybe not. I only know what my heart feels and what my head thinks. People are all different and I am sure a lot of them have dark, hateful hearts.
    Either way I feel bad for anyone who has true hatred for people for petty reasons such as jealousy. I also think that if someone is naive enough to think that their only haters are jealous of them they probably need to step back and reassess themselves. If I felt that someone truly hated me I wouldn't take that lightly or assume that it was a them problem until I was sure that it wasn't a me problem.
  • ekim2016
    ekim2016 Posts: 1,198 Member
    edited August 2019
    evn though every time I get in my car and go half a block my mantra is I HATE PEOPLE... over and over until I get home. I really don't but they make me feel that way all the time... such idiots behind the wheel EVERYWHERE... ugh Seriously, it is like being in an arcade shooting gallery or playing Russian Roulette... dodging head ons, almost getting rear ended... round a bouts chaos.... you name it. I won't even leave the house after dark, not even worth the risk.
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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Hmmm that's new.. I'm lost for words :D
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Hmmm 🤔
  • phoenixrising5721
    phoenixrising5721 Posts: 2,252 Member
    Jo. Can you see this comment. Someone else said the same thing ?
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Jo. Can you see this comment. Someone else said the same thing ?

    👋 yes
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited August 2019
    I was right about someone and I really wished I wasn't :(
  • Miss_Chievous_
    Miss_Chievous_ Posts: 279 Member
    I was right about someone and I really wished I wasn't :(

    I've had that feeling recently. Kinda heart breaking.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I was right about someone and I really wished I wasn't :(

    I've had that feeling recently. Kinda heart breaking.

    It sucks :(
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited August 2019
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    Did you just tell me to "hit the road" ? :#

    :D Sorry..
  • beerdedbastard
    beerdedbastard Posts: 641 Member
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    Did you just tell me to "hit the road" ? :#

    :D Sorry..

    Nope.
  • Miss_Chievous_
    Miss_Chievous_ Posts: 279 Member
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    Did you just tell me to "hit the road" ? :#

    :D Sorry..

    Probably said it to me 🤷‍♀️ the guy hates my guts 😅
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
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    Did you just tell me to "hit the road" ? :#

    :D Sorry..

    Probably said it to me 🤷‍♀️ the guy hates my guts 😅

    Nahhh, it's vague thread.. probably thinking of a road trip or something 🙂

    I love your guts ❤🤗
  • Miss_Chievous_
    Miss_Chievous_ Posts: 279 Member
    edited August 2019
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    Did you just tell me to "hit the road" ? :#

    :D Sorry..

    Probably said it to me 🤷‍♀️ the guy hates my guts 😅

    Nahhh, it's vague thread.. probably thinking of a road trip or something 🙂

    I love your guts ❤🤗

    Or me standing on the yellow line, with traffic 😂😂😂

    I love you 😘
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
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    Did you just tell me to "hit the road" ? :#

    :D Sorry..

    Probably said it to me 🤷‍♀️ the guy hates my guts 😅

    Nahhh, it's vague thread.. probably thinking of a road trip or something 🙂

    I love your guts ❤🤗

    Or me standing on the yellow line, with traffic 😂😂😂

    I love you 😘

    :laugh:

    Right back at ya 🤗
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Wasn't that a book, "The Lovely Guts"??
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
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  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    gooble gobble, one of us, one of us
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    gooble gobble, one of us, one of us

    We accept her
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    okay thats a lot of swords cards but that’s okay bc who believes in this bs anyways not me

    Swords are awesome

    Cards are awesome

    That sounds awesome
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    okay thats a lot of swords cards but that’s okay bc who believes in this bs anyways not me

    Someone let me practice on him a couple of nights ago and I was like, “I’m a terrible friend.”