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Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Miss_Chiev0us_ wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Karma’s a beaaatch 🤣
I used to wish karma on people (really badly 😅) until I realized that focusing on the bad just made me suffer even more. Now it's just lessons learned and it helps us grow ❤
Wha?? You can wish it on people??? 😜😄
I just love it when it bites someone’s butt that deserves it 😁
Not to get all karmically meta, but does rejoicing in someone’s misfortune create bad karma for oneself?
Fwiw, I don’t really care either way because I don’t believe in karma. I just think sometimes life‘s a *kitten* to everyone
Eta: I just reread and realized my words sound argumentative or snarky and I apologize for that. Please believe me that I don’t mean it that way3 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Miss_Chiev0us_ wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Karma’s a beaaatch 🤣
I used to wish karma on people (really badly 😅) until I realized that focusing on the bad just made me suffer even more. Now it's just lessons learned and it helps us grow ❤
Wha?? You can wish it on people??? 😜😄
I just love it when it bites someone’s butt that deserves it 😁
Not to get all karmically meta, but does rejoicing in someone’s misfortune create bad karma for oneself?
Fwiw, I don’t really care either way because I don’t believe in karma. I just think sometimes life‘s a *kitten* to everyone
Eta: I just reread and realized my words sound argumentative or snarky and I apologize for that. Please believe me that I don’t mean it that way
I love you 🥰
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Miss_Chiev0us_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Miss_Chiev0us_ wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Karma’s a beaaatch 🤣
I used to wish karma on people (really badly 😅) until I realized that focusing on the bad just made me suffer even more. Now it's just lessons learned and it helps us grow ❤
Wha?? You can wish it on people??? 😜😄
I just love it when it bites someone’s butt that deserves it 😁
Not to get all karmically meta, but does rejoicing in someone’s misfortune create bad karma for oneself?
Fwiw, I don’t really care either way because I don’t believe in karma. I just think sometimes life‘s a *kitten* to everyone
Eta: I just reread and realized my words sound argumentative or snarky and I apologize for that. Please believe me that I don’t mean it that way
I love you 🥰
Well, somebody has to
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twitchandshout wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Miss_Chiev0us_ wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Karma’s a beaaatch 🤣
I used to wish karma on people (really badly 😅) until I realized that focusing on the bad just made me suffer even more. Now it's just lessons learned and it helps us grow ❤
Wha?? You can wish it on people??? 😜😄
I just love it when it bites someone’s butt that deserves it 😁
Not to get all karmically meta, but does rejoicing in someone’s misfortune create bad karma for oneself?
Fwiw, I don’t really care either way because I don’t believe in karma. I just think sometimes life‘s a *kitten* to everyone
Eta: I just reread and realized my words sound argumentative or snarky and I apologize for that. Please believe me that I don’t mean it that way
I see where you’re coming from... but not when said people were being malicious and cruel to a weaker party and it backfired making their own situation worse 😉0 -
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Hungrycatapilar wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Miss_Chiev0us_ wrote: »Hungrycatapilar wrote: »Karma’s a beaaatch 🤣
I used to wish karma on people (really badly 😅) until I realized that focusing on the bad just made me suffer even more. Now it's just lessons learned and it helps us grow ❤
Wha?? You can wish it on people??? 😜😄
I just love it when it bites someone’s butt that deserves it 😁
Not to get all karmically meta, but does rejoicing in someone’s misfortune create bad karma for oneself?
Fwiw, I don’t really care either way because I don’t believe in karma. I just think sometimes life‘s a *kitten* to everyone
Eta: I just reread and realized my words sound argumentative or snarky and I apologize for that. Please believe me that I don’t mean it that way
I see where you’re coming from... but not when said people were being malicious and cruel to a weaker party and it backfired making their own situation worse 😉
Oh don’t get me wrong, I’m all for punishment. I’m just wondering about the philosophy0 -
I don’t know for sure you all are talking about but I’m picturing my own favorite mfp hot guy and I bet I’m right0
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twitchandshout wrote: »I don’t know for sure you all are talking about but I’m picturing my own favorite mfp hot guy
Send me a screenshot. Thanks.0 -
twitchandshout wrote: »I don’t know for sure you all are talking about but I’m picturing my own favorite mfp hot guy
Send me a screenshot. Thanks.
Newp 😂0 -
I have a hard time not feeling sorry for people who hurt other people. I mean.....I don’t feel sorry for a rapist or murderer. I’m thinking more of people I’ve known through the years. I make excuses in my head that they must be suffering from mental illness or personality disorders. Because otherwise my brain has a really hard time computing people being *kitten* for no reason. But...that’s probably REAL Pollyanna of me.1
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twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »I don’t know for sure you all are talking about but I’m picturing my own favorite mfp hot guy
Send me a screenshot. Thanks.
Newp 😂
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I have a hard time not feeling sorry for people who hurt other people. I mean.....I don’t feel sorry for a rapist or murderer. I’m thinking more of people I’ve known through the years. I make excuses in my head that they must be suffering from mental illness or personality disorders. Because otherwise my brain has a really hard time computing people being *kitten* for no reason. But...that’s probably REAL Pollyanna of me.
I just cut people out of my life cold turkey. I try to help heal other people where it’s appropriate. But I’d be glad to throw the first stone at a rapist3 -
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twitchandshout wrote: »I have a hard time not feeling sorry for people who hurt other people. I mean.....I don’t feel sorry for a rapist or murderer. I’m thinking more of people I’ve known through the years. I make excuses in my head that they must be suffering from mental illness or personality disorders. Because otherwise my brain has a really hard time computing people being *kitten* for no reason. But...that’s probably REAL Pollyanna of me.
I just cut people out of my life cold turkey. I try to help heal other people where it’s appropriate. But I’d be glad to throw the first stone at a rapist
I can do that to people I didn’t really care much about. Cut them out like I’ve never known them. If it’s someone I care deeply for though....ugh. Then, it takes a while, but once it’s gone it’s REEEALLLY gone. And I’ve never been able to get it back. But yeah....stones to be thrown at that kind of thing fo sho.
Ok sorry....back to not really saying the things y’all.1 -
twitchandshout wrote: »I have a hard time not feeling sorry for people who hurt other people. I mean.....I don’t feel sorry for a rapist or murderer. I’m thinking more of people I’ve known through the years. I make excuses in my head that they must be suffering from mental illness or personality disorders. Because otherwise my brain has a really hard time computing people being *kitten* for no reason. But...that’s probably REAL Pollyanna of me.
I just cut people out of my life cold turkey. I try to help heal other people where it’s appropriate. But I’d be glad to throw the first stone at a rapist
Are you saying you ghost people? Or do you usually give them a reason as to why they deserve to be cut out of your life?
No judgment from me, genuinely curious.
I find that some people, it's harder to "cold turkey" than others, but usually the ones I have to ghost it's because they have narcissistic or abusive personality traits. Not always.
I won't lie, I've ghosted probably more people than is considered "normal". I just don't have the mental fortitude or energy to explain to every person who ends up being an *kitten* (in my estimation) why I stopped talking to them or cut them off completely.1 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »I have a hard time not feeling sorry for people who hurt other people. I mean.....I don’t feel sorry for a rapist or murderer. I’m thinking more of people I’ve known through the years. I make excuses in my head that they must be suffering from mental illness or personality disorders. Because otherwise my brain has a really hard time computing people being *kitten* for no reason. But...that’s probably REAL Pollyanna of me.
I just cut people out of my life cold turkey. I try to help heal other people where it’s appropriate. But I’d be glad to throw the first stone at a rapist
Are you saying you ghost people? Or do you usually give them a reason as to why they deserve to be cut out of your life?
No judgment from me, genuinely curious.
I find that some people, it's harder to "cold turkey" than others, but usually the ones I have to ghost it's because they have narcissistic or abusive personality traits. Not always.
I won't lie, I've ghosted probably more people than is considered "normal". I just don't have the mental fortitude or energy to explain to every person who ends up being an *kitten* (in my estimation) why I stopped talking to them or cut them off completely.
I wasn’t saying that. But I do.
Sometimes. For unrepentant meanies.
Some people just naturally drift apart and I’m ok with leaning into that too.
If we’ve never met IRL and I feel you’re trying to drag me into drama that has nothing to do with me then I’m just done.
There are some friends though who I will never let go of. They are precious and rare. We know each other well, warts and all, and for whatever reason we extend mutual grace to each other.
Eta: also, I get depressed and low energy sometimes and can’t deal with social interaction. My good friends know this. They understand I’m not ghosting. And they just wait it out.3 -
twitchandshout wrote: »KosmosKitten wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »I have a hard time not feeling sorry for people who hurt other people. I mean.....I don’t feel sorry for a rapist or murderer. I’m thinking more of people I’ve known through the years. I make excuses in my head that they must be suffering from mental illness or personality disorders. Because otherwise my brain has a really hard time computing people being *kitten* for no reason. But...that’s probably REAL Pollyanna of me.
I just cut people out of my life cold turkey. I try to help heal other people where it’s appropriate. But I’d be glad to throw the first stone at a rapist
Are you saying you ghost people? Or do you usually give them a reason as to why they deserve to be cut out of your life?
No judgment from me, genuinely curious.
I find that some people, it's harder to "cold turkey" than others, but usually the ones I have to ghost it's because they have narcissistic or abusive personality traits. Not always.
I won't lie, I've ghosted probably more people than is considered "normal". I just don't have the mental fortitude or energy to explain to every person who ends up being an *kitten* (in my estimation) why I stopped talking to them or cut them off completely.
I wasn’t saying that. But I do.
Sometimes. For unrepentant meanies.
Some people just naturally drift apart and I’m ok with leaning into that too.
If we’ve never met IRL and I feel you’re trying to drag me into drama that has nothing to do with me then I’m just done.
There are some friends though who I will never let go of. They are precious and rare. We know each other well, warts and all, and for whatever reason we extend mutual grace to each other.
Unrepentant meanies. I like that. Stealing.
I agree with you; the rare few friends are a precious resource you should guard. The few I have are pretty understanding of my quirks and we're 100% okay not talking every day, or often. I think our personalities are uniquely similar, but also distinctly different, you know?
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