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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    kam26001 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    kam26001 wrote: »
    ask my grandfather one very important question before he passes

    ? Are you joking? Normally you are. I dont want to be insensitive.
    He's not on his death bed or anything but I'd like to ask him some life questions before he goes. He's my only grandparent still living and I feel like I missed the boat with the other 3.

    Don't put it off..
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    kam26001 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    kam26001 wrote: »
    ask my grandfather one very important question before he passes

    ? Are you joking? Normally you are. I dont want to be insensitive.
    He's not on his death bed or anything but I'd like to ask him some life questions before he goes. He's my only grandparent still living and I feel like I missed the boat with the other 3.

    Then do it. Schedule some time now. Is it to nosey to ask...what would you ask?
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,799 Member
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    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    kam26001 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    kam26001 wrote: »
    ask my grandfather one very important question before he passes

    ? Are you joking? Normally you are. I dont want to be insensitive.
    He's not on his death bed or anything but I'd like to ask him some life questions before he goes. He's my only grandparent still living and I feel like I missed the boat with the other 3.

    Don't put it off..
    I won't. :)
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    kam26001 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    kam26001 wrote: »
    ask my grandfather one very important question before he passes

    ? Are you joking? Normally you are. I dont want to be insensitive.
    He's not on his death bed or anything but I'd like to ask him some life questions before he goes. He's my only grandparent still living and I feel like I missed the boat with the other 3.

    Then do it. Schedule some time now. Is it to nosey to ask...what would you ask?
    I'd like to ask him if he is afraid of death. I imagine at that age your legacy is cemented, so is death still scary? I hope one day, after I've done everything I can on this Earth, I will come to be at peace with death. For now it's really frightening.
  • Teamleslie
    Teamleslie Posts: 112 Member
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    itwentthere wrote: »
    Let it go. I can’t let this enrage me anymore. Some people will never change.

    Im there with you.
  • SpartanRunner1978
    SpartanRunner1978 Posts: 1,049 Member
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    81Katz wrote: »
    Not fall into the trap.

    Just got out of one...huge weight lifted! Best of luck!!!
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    Keep in mind for those who dont know me cant judge what they dont know.
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    Fan myself, spritz myself ...
  • SpartanRunner1978
    SpartanRunner1978 Posts: 1,049 Member
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    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    Keep in mind for those who dont know me cant judge what they dont know.

    No one should ever judge others regardless of circumstances...or should have to fear being judged...
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    SpartanRunner1978 wrote: »
    mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
    Keep in mind for those who dont know me cant judge what they dont know.

    No one should ever judge others regardless of circumstances...or should have to fear being judged...

    Unfortunately thats life. It happens. I can only control me.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
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    Let them go.
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    Go play in my toy box.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    Find the motivation to run :/
  • zila1397
    zila1397 Posts: 311 Member
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    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    Stop trusting people so much

    Yes, I agree
  • acnoyes
    acnoyes Posts: 151 Member
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    zila1397 wrote: »
    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    Stop trusting people so much

    Yes, I agree


    This makes me sad. But it is real...I know...
  • Keto_N_Iron
    Keto_N_Iron Posts: 5,385 Member
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    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.
  • SpartanRunner1978
    SpartanRunner1978 Posts: 1,049 Member
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    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.
    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.

    Me too!!!

    But the people who encourage you? :'(
  • Keto_N_Iron
    Keto_N_Iron Posts: 5,385 Member
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    SpartanRunner1978 wrote: »
    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.
    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.

    Me too!!!

    But the people who encourage you? :'(

    unfortunately as humans we tend to dwell on the negative... :neutral: which is why this place is good for me. I have an amazing support system here, great friends who are there for me outside of fitness related stuff. and some entertainment when I need it!

  • T_143
    T_143 Posts: 1,022 Member
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    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.
    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    SpartanRunner1978 wrote: »
    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.
    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    JustKeepTryin wrote: »
    stop letting others actions and words change how I feel about me.

    Me too!!!

    But the people who encourage you? :'(

    unfortunately as humans we tend to dwell on the negative... :neutral: which is why this place is good for me. I have an amazing support system here, great friends who are there for me outside of fitness related stuff. and some entertainment when I need it!

    Agree, me too!

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