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Any love experts on hand for advice?
TannyPants1
Posts: 16 Member
I need heeeeelp 
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I met a guy a few years ago and we dated but I behaved badly....he then said he’d never see me as anything serious. We continued to chat as friends and we also slept together but that was a little weird. He then met someone and blocked me and changed his number.
Months later he re-contacted, and we are chatting again. He wants to meet and hang out but says he “wouldn’t date long term” because I always talk about other guys.
Is he interested at all?
Should I try and change his mind and prove I can not talk about other guys or just leave it and move on?
(When I say talk about other guys it could be something as simple as showing him notes random guys leave on my car or creepy chat up lines they say, he doesn’t like it if I mention anything at all about any other men)
Thanks in advance for any advice x
.I met a guy a few years ago and we dated but I behaved badly....he then said he’d never see me as anything serious. We continued to chat as friends and we also slept together but that was a little weird. He then met someone and blocked me and changed his number.
Months later he re-contacted, and we are chatting again. He wants to meet and hang out but says he “wouldn’t date long term” because I always talk about other guys.
Is he interested at all?
Should I try and change his mind and prove I can not talk about other guys or just leave it and move on?
(When I say talk about other guys it could be something as simple as showing him notes random guys leave on my car or creepy chat up lines they say, he doesn’t like it if I mention anything at all about any other men)
Thanks in advance for any advice x
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I don't think you need an expert to figure this out.5
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I’m an expert in the 19 to under 30 bracket0
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CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it0 -
TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it
If you know these are trolls you know also they are love experts. I am not one for screwing around sheesh2 -
CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it
If you know these are trolls you know also they are love experts. I am not one for screwing around sheesh
People change, I made a mistake. I just want advice on whether I should cut loose or make it work. I know he reads all these stupid how to be a player type books so he may be playing it cool0 -
TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it
If you know these are trolls you know also they are love experts. I am not one for screwing around sheesh
People change, I made a mistake. I just want advice on whether I should cut loose or make it work. I know he reads all these stupid how to be a player type books so he may be playing it cool
We are past all that
Are you telling me you have never seen frozen?1 -
Ask no more.... I am here. First off, see if you can get some of his hair. And mail him some of yours. Next photoshop some pictures of you two getting married. You have to mark your territory. Never mind what you did in the past. Loyalty is overrated. You are worth even though you behave badly. Always remember that. You can do what you want without consequences. Lastly. Follow him without being seen. This way you learn his habits and can slide right into the wifey position. You got this. Keep that head up8
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TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it
If you know these are trolls you know also they are love experts. I am not one for screwing around sheesh
People change, I made a mistake. I just want advice on whether I should cut loose or make it work. I know he reads all these stupid how to be a player type books so he may be playing it cool
You already know the answer here. Have a little respect for yourself and move on.3 -
I don’t know why you all are being mean this was an honest question4
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PaperDoll_ wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it
If you know these are trolls you know also they are love experts. I am not one for screwing around sheesh
People change, I made a mistake. I just want advice on whether I should cut loose or make it work. I know he reads all these stupid how to be a player type books so he may be playing it cool
You already know the answer here. Have a little respect for yourself and move on.
For real guys are we not addressing the frozen thing?2 -
It’s hard because I very very rarely meet anyone that I like so the fact that I do genuinely like this guy makes it hard to know what to do0
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CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »PaperDoll_ wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it
If you know these are trolls you know also they are love experts. I am not one for screwing around sheesh
People change, I made a mistake. I just want advice on whether I should cut loose or make it work. I know he reads all these stupid how to be a player type books so he may be playing it cool
You already know the answer here. Have a little respect for yourself and move on.
For real guys are we not addressing the frozen thing?
Sorry. I didn't know. I've never seen Frozen...
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There’s this book called the pick up artist....1
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TannyPants1 wrote: »I don’t know why you all are being mean this was an honest question
I believe you are best to search for all your other love advice posts of the past and skim through for advice you've been offered time and time again, you might find something relevant to your new dilemma.
Also, @LiftingRiot ... great advice offered here. You should start a love expert thread of your own4 -
TannyPants1 wrote: »It’s hard because I very very rarely meet anyone that I like so the fact that I do genuinely like this guy makes it hard to know what to do
What exactly is it that you like in a man? What gets you paying attention and daydreaming about a certain fella?
There’s just chemistry or there isn’t, it’s not something I can really put my finger on it’s just...either it’s there or it isn’t. I’ve been on lots of dates and there’s been no spark and I think he’s felt the same, hence we have re-connected0 -
Clever_User_Name wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »PaperDoll_ wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »TannyPants1 wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
Is that a troll thing?
This isn’t a troll post.
I really like this guy. I always have. But basically when we first met and dated I slept with an ex which is why he said nothing would ever happen serious relationship wise between us. However we’ve been in contact now for like three years. So it makes me think there has to be something to it
If you know these are trolls you know also they are love experts. I am not one for screwing around sheesh
People change, I made a mistake. I just want advice on whether I should cut loose or make it work. I know he reads all these stupid how to be a player type books so he may be playing it cool
You already know the answer here. Have a little respect for yourself and move on.
For real guys are we not addressing the frozen thing?
Let it go man
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Ummmmmmm
Seems like you both aren’t serious
You talk about tother dudes and he doesn’t want anything long term
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LiftingRiot wrote: »Ask no more.... I am here. First off, see if you can get some of his hair. And mail him some of yours. Next photoshop some pictures of you two getting married. You have to mark your territory. Never mind what you did in the past. Loyalty is overrated. You are worth even though you behave badly. Always remember that. You can do what you want without consequences. Lastly. Follow him without being seen. This way you learn his habits and can slide right into the wifey position. You got this. Keep that head up
This is the best advice you are going to get OP. @LiftingRiot please write a book on love. You know exactly what to do in every situation.2 -
Run away from this relationship as fast as you can.
He is a controlling SOB, it will get worse and that will not be to your benefit.
There is no live happily ever after in this for you.1 -
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Bridge_marie wrote: »You’re his booty call. There’s no changing his mind. But don’t listen to me. I’m not a “love expert” just some random person on mfp.
You sure are wise tho! This is the correct answer. IMHO.3 -
I love it when girls that I am not talking to leave notes on my car. My wife completely understands.3
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TannyPants1 wrote: »It’s hard because I very very rarely meet anyone that I like so the fact that I do genuinely like this guy makes it hard to know what to do
punt
... on third down1 -
Come one come all.... I am here for your love help needs. Some call me a love expert....nah a love guru actually. I have the cure for what ails you. You gotta fever, I got the prescription.4
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LiftingRiot wrote: »Come one come all.... I am here for your love help needs. Some call me a love expert....nah a love guru actually. I have the cure for what ails you. You gotta fever, I got the prescription.
Start your own thread.
this.
yeah, this.1 -
LiftingRiot wrote: »Come one come all.... I am here for your love help needs. Some call me a love expert....nah a love guru actually. I have the cure for what ails you. You gotta fever, I got the prescription.
Start your own thread.
It will be on my to do list tomorrow.1 -
Muscle_for_Fitness wrote: »I love it when girls that I am not talking to leave notes on my car. My wife completely understands.
I've had notes left on my car.
they are usually about my parking abilities and contain a lot of four letter words and various suggestions that tend to defy natural laws.2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Muscle_for_Fitness wrote: »I love it when girls that I am not talking to leave notes on my car. My wife completely understands.
I've had notes left on my car.
they are usually about my parking abilities and contain a lot of four letter words and various suggestions that tend to defy natural laws.
Lmao, I’m at work and this made me lol like a crazy person0 -
Is this the doctor still that doesn't like boobs?1
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