Should I invite her to workout with me?
The girl I’m dating commented that she needs to exercise and lose weight. She made this remark in a very hot manner by grabbing and squeezing her belly fat after I complimented her look in a bikini. We both laughed, but she continued: “No, seriously, I’ve been so lazy! I’ve absolutely lost all my muscles and gained fat instead. See?” And she pinched her upper arms, belly (again) and even bum.
Should I really invite her to work out with me?
Should I really invite her to work out with me?
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Sure, why not?0
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »Sure, why not?
I don't know, maybe she'll think that I think that she need to workout and lose weight?
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Yes! Absolutely nothing can go wrong.5
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »Sure, why not?
I don't know, maybe she'll think that I think that she need to workout and lose weight?
You should critique her form also to make sure she is maximizing her work out.2 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »Sure, why not?
I don't know, maybe she'll think that I think that she need to workout and lose weight?
Hmm. Do you think that she thinks that you think she needs to work out and lose weight?
Could just be a fun activity to do together.1 -
no idea, this is definitely one of those situations.
Good luck!
ETA - maybe just mention you are going to go workout? Maybe she will bite without you asking directly?1 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »Sure, why not?
I don't know, maybe she'll think that I think that she need to workout and lose weight?
I would just say, "You said the other day that you need to start working out again, would you like to go with me?".3 -
I would tell her you have a surprise for her and drive her to the gym blind folded. When you reveal the surprise tell her you think she needed to go to the gym.5
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You complimented her in her bikini, and you both laughed. That doesn't sound right.
She is your girlfriend, is she really lazy? How long have you been dating?
Honestly, do what ever you want to do.
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Why not? Id be ecstatic if a girl thats my type asked to go touring on bike together.0
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Yes! Do it!0
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Could backfire - I wouldn’t directly ask her to come (kind of like giving someone a Fitbit for Xmas it could backfire even if you mean well)
But just say - I’m heading to the gym and see if she says she’ll come; or ditto on going for a run etc0 -
I LOVE when people make brand new profiles just to come into chit chat and post a question like this!1
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Avocado_AS5 wrote: »I LOVE when people make brand new profiles just to come into chit chat and post a question like this!
It's not even a new question. It's a rehash of an old one.0 -
What's the big deal anyway? She told you she needs/wants to be more active, maybe this was her way of hinting she would like you to offer for her to come along next time you workout. Maybe not... she may just be fishing for compliments or dealing with her insecurities in a humourous way. You could always plan something fun that will get your heart rates up without hitting the gym, like a little one on one on the B-Ball court
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The girl I’m dating commented that she needs to exercise and lose weight. She made this remark in a very hot manner by grabbing and squeezing her belly fat after I complimented her look in a bikini. We both laughed, but she continued: “No, seriously, I’ve been so lazy! I’ve absolutely lost all my muscles and gained fat instead. See?” And she pinched her upper arms, belly (again) and even bum.
Should I really invite her to work out with me?
I suspect she wanted to be told she was crazy and looked fine not that she was looking for an exercise coach/partner from you.
What you could do is after a couple of weeks talk about the workouts you have been doing lately and ask what kind of exercise she enjoys. If it is what you do or would like to do then say you would love to share that activity with her. Ask if she would like to come with you one day to check out your gym or something.
I would not say to her that she should exercise if she thinks she is so flabby.0 -
The girl I’m dating commented that she needs to exercise and lose weight. She made this remark in a very hot manner by grabbing and squeezing her belly fat after I complimented her look in a bikini. We both laughed, but she continued: “No, seriously, I’ve been so lazy! I’ve absolutely lost all my muscles and gained fat instead. See?” And she pinched her upper arms, belly (again) and even bum.
Should I really invite her to work out with me?
You blew it. . If you had invited her then and there, you may have been able to pull it off: e.g. "I love you just the way you are, but I can help you with lifting if you want to get stronger". . .Unfortunately, now that you've waited, it's much more sketchy. .0 -
FeelinFooFoo wrote: »Provided
1a: this is a genuine question and
1b: you actually like this girl
Just throw it out there, hey, I'm headed to the gym if you wana join me. I don't mind helping you out and showing you the ropes.
What's the worst that can happen? She says 'no' better than always wondering and questioning what could have happened had you never asked.
The worst that can happen is that she says: "Why, do you think I'm fat?". . Something to be avoided at all costs.0 -
The girl I’m dating commented that she needs to exercise and lose weight. She made this remark in a very hot manner by grabbing and squeezing her belly fat after I complimented her look in a bikini. We both laughed, but she continued: “No, seriously, I’ve been so lazy! I’ve absolutely lost all my muscles and gained fat instead. See?” And she pinched her upper arms, belly (again) and even bum.
Should I really invite her to work out with me?
I think you should move in together.0 -
Sure, but make sure she understands that this is a no *kitten* around zone. Gyms are serious *kitten* business. She wants to workout, fine. But she needs to know that she can't be running up to you every five *kitten* seconds and asking questions or demanding attention. If she can deal with that? Sure.0
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Yes0
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FeelinFooFoo wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »FeelinFooFoo wrote: »Provided
1a: this is a genuine question and
1b: you actually like this girl
Just throw it out there, hey, I'm headed to the gym if you wana join me. I don't mind helping you out and showing you the ropes.
What's the worst that can happen? She says 'no' better than always wondering and questioning what could have happened had you never asked.
The worst that can happen is that she says: "Why, do you think I'm fat?". . Something to be avoided at all costs.
He could always say that he was thinking about her comments about being fat and he's wondering if she would like to work out? Yeah it's a bad idea.
I think there's only one option.. Break up. There's just no way this turns out good.
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Yes. She should not be offended.0
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Is she younger than you? Do y'all live in texas? How do you feel about marriage and kids?
Hand her a cookie. Poke her in the belly as shes chewing it and say im headed to the gym babe ...*wink, wink*2 -
Don't worry OP....I'll workout with her for ya....you won't have to worry about her bothering you ever again....:)6
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mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Is she younger than you? Do y'all live in texas? How do you feel about marriage and kids?
Hand her a cookie. Poke her in the belly as shes chewing it and say im headed to the gym babe ...*wink, wink*
You are just plain mean. .0
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