Are results more noticeable when you are larger or smaller

JaydenC98
JaydenC98 Posts: 3 Member
edited November 28 in Health and Weight Loss
I am a 5 foot 9 male and I weighed in at 203 pounds mid June. This was the heaviest I have ever weighed in my life. I was also 1 pound away from being obese. I have currently been on my diet for the past 11 weeks and I have successfully manage to lose 30 pounds as a direct result of sticking to my calorie allowance. I weigh 173 pounds which is still slightly overweight although I have another 20-30 pounds to lose. Despite having managed to lose 30 pounds, I still struggle to see any difference in my body. The people around me, my friends and family also seem to have noticed little change. I have a lot of willpower so I know I can stick to this but I’m wondering if the changes will be more noticeable as I end up weighing less. I just feel a little demoralised knowing that I am 50% of the way there and I still see no difference.

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  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
    The same 10 lbs lost or gained on someone over 200lbs will look considerably different (generally speaking) than on someone who is 170lbs. Do you have some pictures from then and now? I find comparing pictures side by side shows a difference that your eyes may not see.
  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    How much weight did you lose in your first 2 weeks and what has your average been from weeks 3 thru 11?
  • maureenkhilde
    maureenkhilde Posts: 849 Member
    You indicate you do not feel there is a difference, can you feel a difference? What I mean is with losing 30 pounds I would think your clothing is going to fit much loser than what they did mid June. For me long before I could really see change in mirror, I could feel in clothing fit. And the starting of face to thin out some.
  • JaydenC98
    JaydenC98 Posts: 3 Member
    NovusDies wrote: »
    How much weight did you lose in your first 2 weeks and what has your average been from weeks 3 thru 11?

    I lost around 5 pounds in the first week. During the 2nd and third week I lost between 3 or 4 pounds. Since then I lose 2 pounds if I’m lucky.

  • NovusDies
    NovusDies Posts: 8,940 Member
    edited September 2018
    So then you have probably lost close to 22lbs of fat and 8lbs of water weight which is what I would have guessed based on your first post. Your fat losses may include visceral fat which is inside your abdominal cavity not under your skin. As others suggested you may also not be the best judge of your own appearance.

    When your clothes start to feel baggy you will definitely know you showing and feeling weight loss and then it won't be long before people who can't keep their opinions to themselves will start to comment too. Comments are not always great though. There is nothing like losing a huge chunk of weight and the only thing that people say is that your face looks thinner.

    2lbs per week is too aggressive for your weight so you have not been lucky except that you haven't done this for very long. You need to reduce your deficit so you don't end up losing too much muscle. Weight loss takes time to do it right. Be patient.
  • elisa123gal
    elisa123gal Posts: 4,333 Member
    most people notice more when you are almost at your goal. Don't let it discourage you. you're looking better I'm sure.but people seem to comment to me when I get almost to my goal..then they all of a sudden say something.

    you almost feel like no one is purposely saying anything. how could they not notice? I totally understand.
  • GOT_Obsessed
    GOT_Obsessed Posts: 817 Member
    Be sure to wear clothes that fit properly. At 30 lbs lost I had to buy new smaller clothes and immediately people noticed and commented. Before that I was wearing the same loose baggy clothes and nobody said anything at all.
  • VUA21
    VUA21 Posts: 2,072 Member
    The scale moves faster when you have more excess fat to lose.

    You'll notice changes with fewer lbs lost when you have less excess fat to lose.
  • sijomial
    sijomial Posts: 19,809 Member
    Time to slow down your rate of loss - don't misuse your willpower!
    Harness it instead to lose weight the right way if you want to see the body you hope for when you get to goal.

    May also be time to go clothes shopping.
    It's probably also a good idea to take progress pictures and track changes with a tape measure. What we see in the mirror is seen through an emotional personal filter and small incremental changes can be missed.

    The last few pounds can make a substantial difference in the mirror. At 5'9 I started at 198lbs and my original goal was 175lbs but I was a bit disappointed with my appearance when I got there.
    Cutting to 168lbs made a huge difference.
  • Deviette
    Deviette Posts: 978 Member
    Honestly, I have nothing new to add to what everyone had said above, except my own experience:

    So far I've lost about 16lbs. And honestly, even looking at pictures, I cannot see the difference. However, I can feel the difference. I've gone from not wearing a belt, to 4 notches in (starting to think I might need to move to 5 soon). I never used to tuck my shirt in because it didn't look good, now I often tuck my shirt in because it now does. I had a skirt that didn't fit when I went on holiday in June. It now fits. I'm moving better, and faster, at judo and my training is more intense. I fit into a pair of jeans I physically couldn't put on over my thighs 6 months ago. the shirt I'm currently wearing used to be snug against my skin (not skin tight, but not loose) now it is beginning to look loose on me.

    And yet, when I look at myself in the mirror. I don't see anyone who looks any slimmer. I've not had anyone comment on my weight (unless we're talking about weightloss and they know I'm loosing). I know I have lost inches, but honestly I cannot see them.
  • HoneyBadger302
    HoneyBadger302 Posts: 2,085 Member
    The last time I was losing weight I had to lose over 20 pounds before people started noticing - and I started around 163 (ish). My clothes felt a million times better, I was able to fit into things I couldn't before, but I didn't drop big sizes - just went from having to force on the same pair of pants to needing a belt. I was still in the same clothes though, they just fit a lot better.
  • M0n1KCR
    M0n1KCR Posts: 149 Member
    People who see you daily might not really notice, because weight loss is gradual. But they do notice when they have not seen you in some time. During my first six months, most of my colleagues didn't notice anything (except the two or three who know me better). Then I went on a one-month training course, followed by the holidays. Two months in total. When I met them again... nearly everyone noticed and commented.
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