That’s NOT actually a dealbreaker

caco_ethes
caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
So far we’ve seen dozens of pages of red flags and dealbreakers. What are some things that might be dealbreakers for others that don’t bother you?
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  • michael1976_ca
    michael1976_ca Posts: 3,488 Member
    A liar if she keeps me from ever meeting her family. Sure it would bug me. But i could live with it
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I don’t mind if he needs to spend time with his wife sometimes

    :laugh:
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Versicolour wrote: »
    I am totally okay with odd working hours or weeks away on business. Done it before and I was ultimately not the one who couldn't handle it.

    Same.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Body hair

    If he manscapes? Still a no?
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Keeping in touch with or remaining friends with exes

    And having female friends they talk to regularly

    I don't get how some women get worked up about this. Yes!
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I don’t care if he watches porn

    What if he made a porn back in 98' and it was a one time thing?

    One has to ASK, only the ONE time? Then again, why should it matter, right? To me, porn and sleeping with a recognizable star, is in the same category, most especially if it's filmed. Some would call it smut or niche. Shrugs. If you click and like him/ her, why should that neuter your feelings. Seems extreme.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    How many fires she's started. :smiley: 🔥🔥

    Fancy arsonists huh??? 😉
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Tenebrous_D wrote: »
    Martial status

    😦
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    Dh was a gamer living in his parent's basement without a high school diploma or GED when we met and started dating. (He was employed and 19 though.) He also had a crazy ex who was harrasing him. That might have put some people off.

    I don't care how people squeeze toothpaste or hang the toilet paper roll.
  • Chael2dot0
    Chael2dot0 Posts: 1,189 Member
    If she drives a Ford or Dodge as long as she does her own work or has her mechanic she pays for.
  • Chael2dot0
    Chael2dot0 Posts: 1,189 Member
    If she doesn’t like beer or whiskey as long as she doesn’t give me crap about drinking and will be my DD.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    If he’s sartorially challenged.

    👏👏👏 generous of you. Needs to be said in today's rather blah approach to it,
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Lounmoun wrote: »
    Dh was a gamer living in his parent's basement without a high school diploma or GED when we met and started dating. (He was employed and 19 though.) He also had a crazy ex who was harrasing him. That might have put some people off.

    I don't care how people squeeze toothpaste or hang the toilet paper roll.

    Precisely.
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