That’s NOT actually a dealbreaker

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caco_ethes
caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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So far we’ve seen dozens of pages of red flags and dealbreakers. What are some things that might be dealbreakers for others that don’t bother you?
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  • michael1976_ca
    michael1976_ca Posts: 3,488 Member
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    A liar if she keeps me from ever meeting her family. Sure it would bug me. But i could live with it
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I don’t mind if he needs to spend time with his wife sometimes

    :laugh:
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    Versicolour wrote: »
    I am totally okay with odd working hours or weeks away on business. Done it before and I was ultimately not the one who couldn't handle it.

    Same.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Body hair

    If he manscapes? Still a no?
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Keeping in touch with or remaining friends with exes

    And having female friends they talk to regularly

    I don't get how some women get worked up about this. Yes!
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    bojack5 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I don’t care if he watches porn

    What if he made a porn back in 98' and it was a one time thing?

    One has to ASK, only the ONE time? Then again, why should it matter, right? To me, porn and sleeping with a recognizable star, is in the same category, most especially if it's filmed. Some would call it smut or niche. Shrugs. If you click and like him/ her, why should that neuter your feelings. Seems extreme.

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