Is it harder to start being active at 50?

I have been fighting my weight all my life. In my 30s I hit a sweet spot of healthy eating and exercising for a few years.

The weight and bad habits creeped back and here I am still struggling with weight as I’m about to enter my 50s.

I’m exercising again and am finding it difficult to keep up with my 10-years-younger sister. I’ve been working out with a trainer for 1 year now and I get more sore and hurt myself more easily (pull muscles, delicate knee). Then there’s the pre-menopause symptoms 😒

Does my “aging” body have ANYTHING to do with finding exercising harder? Or is it just a matter of losing weight so I can be more agile? I know I’m not “old” to some, and I’ve read many posts of older people being super fit. I guess my question is more, is it harder to START at this age?

What are your thoughts? (No mean responses please)
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  • Barfly57
    Barfly57 Posts: 333 Member
    edited November 2018
    Yes and no.
    I can still do everything I've ever done, exercise-wise, I've just had to modify some things to accommodate my aging corpse.
    Running and lifting programs tend to be aimed at a younger set; people our age won't be able to progress as fast as they call for.
    Slow down, take smaller steps, and take more recovery time.

    Edit: I'm 61, started working out at 42.
  • jdog022
    jdog022 Posts: 693 Member
    Maybe you need a need trainer? What kinda qualifications and experience does this person have.
  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
    50 + and my biggest problem is that I can get an injury very easy now. On the other hand my older sister 60+ has done four full ironmans. Her husband and two daughters have done them with her too. Her favorite part is when a young guy with a $10,000 bike asked this gray haired sister of mine if she finished and it yes. She asks about him and he reluctantly admits he got pulled on the bike portion. I think you are only as old as you want to be.
  • jmf286
    jmf286 Posts: 32 Member
    OP - I have a similar story in terms of having gotten fit for a few sweet spots of 5 years at a time in my late 20s and 30s but now at 44 find myself as overweight as I have ever been. The big difference for me now (and I love working out) is that my body can no longer seem to tolerate my weight and exercising like it did in my 20s and 30s. Some days even a 30 min walk stirs up my plantar fascititis (both feet). And I have various other knee and hip issues.

    I have reached the conclusion that I need to use diet to lose a good 10 or 20 kgs whilst doing a modified weights program before trying to do more impactful exercises, which are the ones I prefer. I hope that that will help by taking the load off my joints and feet. I have also found a trainer who has been through this process herself and is 50 ish and I train by myself or by myself with her so that I am not comparing myself with anyone else (I already have an internal dialogue that berates myself for letting my weight get out of hand and the damage it has done to my body).

    I agree with working out in a way that challenges you but also taking it at a pace that doesn't cause injuries, It just take a little longer than we want.
  • Djproulx
    Djproulx Posts: 3,084 Member
    Agree with the comments about recovery taking longer as we age.

    As far as "being harder to start", I don't think so. For me, it was a matter of finally making a decision at 54 years old that I was going to change, then following through on that decision every day. As I lost weight and began a regular exercise program, the process got easier and exercise became a habit. During that time, I rekindled my interest in running and moved into triathlon.

    Over the last 5 years, endurance training has become an important part of my social life as well as a healthy habit. I've been lucky enough to travel with my triathlon friends to participate in quite a few races around North America. This past summer's biggest trip was a "racing vacation" to Quebec to compete in Ironman Mont Tremblant. We had 12 participant among our group and every one finished the race.

    I'll turn 61 this month and plan to start training for a second full distance Ironman race in January.

    Finally, if you want some inspiration, just check out the participant list at any IM 70.3 or 140.6 race and notice the many competitors in the 65-69, 70-74, and even older age groups.
  • Lillymoo01
    Lillymoo01 Posts: 2,865 Member
    Our bodies are typically fully developed physically when we hit 20. Most athletes will peak in their mid 20's and there will be gradual deterioration after this. This, however, does not mean that you can not continue to be fit and healthy into old age, or can not become fitter if we are sedentary. It just means that it may not be quite as easy as it was when we were younger. In my case, I am fitter in my 40's than I ever was as a teen.

    There are many in their old age that can achieve amazing things and I love seeing those in their 60's and above out jogging, rowing, swimming, cycling etc. They are inspiring (and I am a tad jealous because I know injury means I will never run).
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    I'm exercising more in my 50s than back in my 30s or 40s, so maybe you just need to get started and keep on going.
  • PowerliftingMom
    PowerliftingMom Posts: 430 Member
    naonah wrote: »
    Thanks everyone. I try to keep up with my sister simply because we share a personal trainer (who’s under 30!!). I tend to go slower than her, my reps take a bit longer to complete but I do them at my pace 😊. I will not let OA be my excuse, just need to recognize that it can affect things. Like someone here said, what’s the alternative? Must keep going....at my pace.

    Never compare yourself to others! Just take it slow and don't rush anything. I went from being completely sedentary, gaining 75 lbs. in 12 years to almost all cardio 7 days/week, going to the gym 2x/day, then becoming a competitive powerlifter. I really wish I would have slowed down and gone at a much slower pace because I'm paying the price right now with multiple injuries and now extremely slow recovery.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    I think some things are harder but others are easier.
    When I was 20 I would not even bother trying to regularly exercise. I was thin and I didn't like exercise. I didn't have health problems or worries about remaining active as I aged. Physically I probably could have done a lot more but mentally I just did not see the point.
    In my 40's I have more physical and heath challenges. I can't go back in time. It doesn't matter if it would have been easier 10 or 20 years ago. This is where my body and fitness level are now. Mentally I am much more focused on taking care of myself and developing a sustainable plan. I am more patient.
  • LeanButNotMean44
    LeanButNotMean44 Posts: 852 Member
    I lost weight and became fit when I was in my mid-20’s. I’m 50 now and despite being healthy for half of my life, recovery is harder/takes longer. Running long distances on pavement has taken its toll because I didn’t lift weights or crosstrain until 10 years ago. My right foot is pretty arthritic. Knees pop/crack. Lower back aches. And YES, hormones! I cry at the drop of a hat.

    All of that said, it’s better to get older than to NOT get older. Kudos to you for all that you are doing to get/be healthy!
  • Lillymoo01
    Lillymoo01 Posts: 2,865 Member
    Lillymoo01 wrote: »
    Our bodies are typically fully developed physically when we hit 20. Most athletes will peak in their mid 20's and there will be gradual deterioration after this. This, however, does not mean that you can not continue to be fit and healthy into old age, or can not become fitter if we are sedentary. It just means that it may not be quite as easy as it was when we were younger. In my case, I am fitter in my 40's than I ever was as a teen.

    There are many in their old age that can achieve amazing things and I love seeing those in their 60's and above out jogging, rowing, swimming, cycling etc. They are inspiring (and I am a tad jealous because I know injury means I will never run).

    That was an excuse I used the last time I got healthy and then let myself go again.

    Shortly after my 54th birthday, I was disgusted with myself when I had to stop at the top of two flights of stairs to catch my breath. I was overweight and out of shape and decided to work on it. I decided to start dieting with the plan of losing "55 by 55", meaning I would lose 55 pounds, from 230 to 175, by my 55th birthday.

    My birthday is late December, so the 55 by 55 was a New Year's resolution; those usually fail pretty quickly. Mine didn't. I did C25K thinking running a little would get me in better shape. I ran a 5k in April and by that point was starting to actually enjoy getting out and jogging a couple of miles a couple of times a week. Really enjoying it. I stepped it up and up. In October of that year I ran a half marathon in 2:08:25 , which is a respectable time for a mid 50s casual athlete. I was in the low 170s for my birthday, but most of the time weighed in the low 180s, which is a BMI of around 28. Still, I felt pretty good about where I was at and figured I would be one of those reasonably healthy old guys you see out running.

    Early the next year I started pulling up lame after about 5 miles. I backed off on distances but it just became 4 miles, then 3, then 2... In the spring I ended up with one knee scoped and the other a candidate for it. The doctor told me that running was a really bad idea for me from then out. My joints really can't take it. My meniscus was torn in a few places and my patella was frayed. It wasn't from abuse; they just weren't up to heavy use and never will be.

    I got out of shape and overweight again until last year when I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself and work within the limitations. I paddle a lot now. With proper form that's mostly core and involves some of the largest muscles around the shoulder without much stress on the joint. Standing up, moving around on the board and balancing does involve the legs but with about the lowest impact possible. At the gym, I could use exercises from PT and I got with a trainer and had him help me find what worked within the limitations so I have been able to get in even better shape and stayed below 160 for several months so far.

    A lot of it is attitude.

    Having repairable injuries is so limiting. You just have to find what your body will allow you to do and what you enjoy doing to maintain a decent level of fitness. I do find it very hard accepting my limitations at times though because I would really love to be able to run.
  • GottaBurnEmAll
    GottaBurnEmAll Posts: 7,722 Member
    edited November 2018
    Lillymoo01 wrote: »
    Lillymoo01 wrote: »
    Our bodies are typically fully developed physically when we hit 20. Most athletes will peak in their mid 20's and there will be gradual deterioration after this. This, however, does not mean that you can not continue to be fit and healthy into old age, or can not become fitter if we are sedentary. It just means that it may not be quite as easy as it was when we were younger. In my case, I am fitter in my 40's than I ever was as a teen.

    There are many in their old age that can achieve amazing things and I love seeing those in their 60's and above out jogging, rowing, swimming, cycling etc. They are inspiring (and I am a tad jealous because I know injury means I will never run).

    That was an excuse I used the last time I got healthy and then let myself go again.

    Shortly after my 54th birthday, I was disgusted with myself when I had to stop at the top of two flights of stairs to catch my breath. I was overweight and out of shape and decided to work on it. I decided to start dieting with the plan of losing "55 by 55", meaning I would lose 55 pounds, from 230 to 175, by my 55th birthday.

    My birthday is late December, so the 55 by 55 was a New Year's resolution; those usually fail pretty quickly. Mine didn't. I did C25K thinking running a little would get me in better shape. I ran a 5k in April and by that point was starting to actually enjoy getting out and jogging a couple of miles a couple of times a week. Really enjoying it. I stepped it up and up. In October of that year I ran a half marathon in 2:08:25 , which is a respectable time for a mid 50s casual athlete. I was in the low 170s for my birthday, but most of the time weighed in the low 180s, which is a BMI of around 28. Still, I felt pretty good about where I was at and figured I would be one of those reasonably healthy old guys you see out running.

    Early the next year I started pulling up lame after about 5 miles. I backed off on distances but it just became 4 miles, then 3, then 2... In the spring I ended up with one knee scoped and the other a candidate for it. The doctor told me that running was a really bad idea for me from then out. My joints really can't take it. My meniscus was torn in a few places and my patella was frayed. It wasn't from abuse; they just weren't up to heavy use and never will be.

    I got out of shape and overweight again until last year when I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself and work within the limitations. I paddle a lot now. With proper form that's mostly core and involves some of the largest muscles around the shoulder without much stress on the joint. Standing up, moving around on the board and balancing does involve the legs but with about the lowest impact possible. At the gym, I could use exercises from PT and I got with a trainer and had him help me find what worked within the limitations so I have been able to get in even better shape and stayed below 160 for several months so far.

    A lot of it is attitude.

    Having repairable injuries is so limiting. You just have to find what your body will allow you to do and what you enjoy doing to maintain a decent level of fitness. I do find it very hard accepting my limitations at times though because I would really love to be able to run.

    This is me. It's not injury, it's my arthritis. I never was great shakes as a runner and never aspired to be one, but it made me happy to be a slow plodding runner. But man, the toll on my joints.

    I have plenty of time in my day to do a lot of brisk walking, though. That will do. And I can still lift weights. I just can't go too heavy, and that's okay as well.

    I am thinking of starting to do yoga to work on stability, because I really have none.