Would this upset you?
1) Let's say you make plans with person A to see a movie the next day. Person A sleeps in so doesn't text you until later, so you don't get to see the movie.
Then a couple days later, you're at a party with a couple friends, and you hear that person A is making plans with person B to see the same movie the next day... but never asked you if you wanted to go.
2) you make plans to go see a movie with some friends, have opportunities to go see it without them but don't do it, then find out that they went without you.
3) You're friends with family A, B, and C. B doesn't care much about C. C invites everyone to a New Year's party, nobody answers the text, you'd rather hang out with A, but don't want anyone to be left out, so you make plans with C and make an effort to include B (A was invited too). You find out before the party that the wife in A doesn't really feel like going out and being social.. but nobody else says anything. You spend hours cooking for all those people. Find out 2 hours after the start of the party that B is hanging out with A (they did end up going to C... 2.5 hours late).
Now, I have a bad history with friends (they all eventually left me), I have depression and anxiety, and sometimes my heart doesn't really follow what my heads says, but I got to ask... am I wrong to feel left out? I still can't get over the NYE party - I tried so hard to make sure that nobody got upset or left out, and I'm the one who ended up hurt in the end (I don't know if C really cared or not... they're not as close to everyone else as I am).
Thoughts? Experiences? My friendship story is pretty messy and I had pretty much given up altogether until I met A. And sometimes I just wonder if it wasn't just so much easier then.
