Quite a dilemma

nooshi713

She wants to know what you found or she wouldnt have asked for help. Be honest about what you found.

AllOutof_Bubblegum

CoffeeAndContour wrote: »

You mind your own business, unless you want to be responsible for tearing apart two families.

"Responsible for tearing apart two families"? What about the two people who...i dunno ACTUALLY tore two families apart? Are you familiar with the term "don't shoot the messenger"? Are you familiar with accountability at all, for that matter? Is that the same thought process you'd use if it were your own husband cheating on you? This line of thinking is downright horrifying.

kam26001

I have a job for you.

It involves a hamster, a loaded shotgun, and a half empty tube of cookie dough.

Can you handle the case?

CoffeeAndContour

AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »

CoffeeAndContour wrote: »

You mind your own business, unless you want to be responsible for tearing apart two families.

"Responsible for tearing apart two families"? What about the two people who...i dunno ACTUALLY tore two families apart? Are you familiar with the term "don't shoot the messenger"? Are you familiar with accountability at all, for that matter? Is that the same thought process you'd use if it were your own husband cheating on you? This line of thinking is downright horrifying.

You’re quite affronted over MY opinion that wasn’t in response to you. You are still entitled to have your own, I won’t care. If you go back and re-read what I have wrote you will see that no where did I say that they shouldn’t take accountability, nor did I say their behaviour was okay. I simply said, mind your own business UNLESS you are okay with the repercussions. And I still stand by what I said. If it doesn’t effect you, if it doesn’t have anything to do with you, if you don’t know the entire situation, then mind your own. And to answer your asinine question, no, this wouldn’t be the same thought process I would have if my husband were cheating on me. I wouldn’t hire a PI, my belief that he is capable of cheating on me says enough about where our relationship stands.

pudgy1977

Bucknutz247 wrote: »

Thanks for everyone’s input

Sounds like a position I would not like to be in. But that being said, I think I would just say to your friend that you have no solid information, but to trust their heart. You know how to be a good man. Just do that